I'm a relative newb on this board. Please forgive me if this has already been covered at length and just provide a pointer to the discussion if you can.

And what makes that work is that he is sure about what he is looking for. He was not reticent in communicating his needs. I found I was more than happy to address them and found it enjoyable so a win, win.

In case you didn't want to read +600 words, he wants to know how to make a 90 minute or longer session easier and more fun for both parties, but without a script.

fill out a long session.

too much or the wrong thing can screw me up for days or in one recent case a damn month. Nothing like spending close to 3k to fix what happened on a date that cleared me $900.

I did not follow my initial instincts and paid dearly for it.

GAWD!

Steph

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Obviously, does that even need to be said? It sounds like you're already doing alright. It should get better on repeat visits. If not, keep looking for someone else whose company you enjoy and see if that connection can evolve. Rinse and repeat.

Time flies by if I connect with the client. I can't imagine anything that would make a longer session more fun, than the feeling of connectedness that you describe.  

Here's how I see the scripted routine.

Hell yes, gimme 2 please... if it's gonna be good

I've visited some girls who weren't used to the idea of mutual pleasure. "Most guys just want to do their thing and go" is a paraphrase I've heard a few times. Some of those girls have potential and it would be interesting to do repeat visits with them, but there's usually some other negative that would have to be dealt with. Usually better to seek out the girls that do hour minimum and prefer longer dates. They're more likely to have their act together and be open to mutual pleasure.

You can say stop, you do not have to go through that much pain. This makes me sad and mad at the same time.  

...and I agree with the OP about the "script".  I don't like it and try to avoid it, but when someone only books an hour, what can you do?  There isn't time for much else.  My major issue is that because I also serve two niche interests- that I keep my natural body hair and that I am super into prostate exploration, most guys who come to me don't just want "the script" but they seem to want "the script" in addition to spending extended amounts of time worshipping my hairy pleasure zones and/or want to spend extended amounts of time exploring prostate pleasure.  Sometimes someone really wants "the script" plus BOTH of those things if they're really into many different aspects of me.  Even just getting a taste of all these elements takes more than an hour, so in cities where I have personal friends and personal business, like my home city, and some of the other cities I visit, I tend to not even offer one hour meetings anymore.  I hate having to rush someone along and I also hate it when I don't try to control the pace and the guy is nowhere near ready to go at the hour mark and I have to gracefully tell him he has to go.  So I prefer to not even do one hour sessions if it feels avoidable.

she's worth spending the money on a 3-4 hr date( or longer yikes!)

Nah that's impossible. You can't be THAT lucky... But I'm glad you feel great about whoever you made smile...  

One of my best was a 1 hour, and it was a first visit. I couldn't remember my name for several days. She was a 20 year old bisexual nympho with more experience than she should have had. It didn't work out long term, but it was good til we got to know each other.

And I love that I make this guy happy.

interesting what we find out without our rose colored glasses on. At least you got something out of it.

I used to see a FBSM + extras Gal...  We'd have a session for which I paid generously.  I'd shop on the way, take lunch fixings & we'd play house...   it was only possible as we were at her home.  It was a nice interlude.   It's over now...

to allow plenty of time for just about any kind of activity, including mutual b2b massage/nuru (and what flows naturally from that), with warm-up and clean-up, and breaks to catch our breaths and refreshments.

"For even longer sessions" depends upon the size of your wallet.

My ATF and I not uncommonly have nearly non-stop sex for 90 minutes (that includes her O). We slow down after that. There are a couple of other providers that are fine with that level of action as well.  
My problem is that sometimes I end up with a "softer" provider who really doesn't like or possibly even can't handle much more than 30 minutes of sex. Don't get me wrong. I think they are beautiful and sweet and enjoy my time with them. But I really need to get better at coming up with ways to spend the time together when I find myself with a provider who isn't a perfect sexual match for me.
I am very careful and have yet to actually hurt anyone. Though I did come close once. But that was both an endurance and a size mismatch. We were going along seemingly fine, not even close to getting carried away, until she suddenly yelled "ouch" (and yes we were using lube). Still, it worked out and she was OK. Though I have no interest in seeing her again even though, other than the mismatch issues, I really enjoyed her company. She's probably grateful to not have to deal with me again.
Does that make sense or do I need to give a better explanation?

I'm always open to that kind of self examination. But I don't think that is the case here. Just trying to maximize the fun wherever I am and whoever I am with. Stated another way, my entire goal is to *not* make it about making every experience the same as the type I have with my ATF. That is just too limiting.

so I'm limited to about one a month. I like 90 minute sessions, if they are available.

Sorry. No conspiracy.