I could have told them that..
Interesting study that basically says if you like casual sex it is good foryou.. if you don't like it.. it's bad for you..
The same way that a $400 pair of slacks is casual wear.
Or a $200K Lamborghini is transportation.
And for a lot of providers of course its just work.
States men can only have casual sex with providers? How did you come with that idea from OP's post?
if P4P is considered to be casual sex.
And no there is no unwritten rule. As a matter of fact, P4P for me is anything but casual sex.
If you'd been responding to bonordonor your post would have appeared under his and indented to the right. Perhaps you're in flat mode, which often causes confusion that way.
But this is quite an event. Fungus actually put up a correct and coherent post. Satan must be practicing his slap shot in Hell.
Her post is under bonerdoner. WTF are you looking at?
And how is fungus post coherent? He's accusing justagal of saying Men can only have casual sex in p4p. Where did she ever say that? She said, "for SOME it is."
No, fungus is still being his SPOTY self, but you're not looking so bright this morning backing him up!
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Causality is reversed, where Christianity existed before the coming of Christ.
And nowhere in this thread are we talking about bonordoner or jca or twilight zone or Causality, even though we just talked about it because going forward we aren't talking about in reverse time. Rofl
Is twilight zone fair? What if sex doesn't sell?
Remember, the term SPOTY trophy existed before gag came up with it on ter..
Yesterday day you wanted me to put you on ignore.
Today you are obsessing over me in a thread I haven't even posted in.
Apparently, causality has no meaning in your world. Things exist before they are even invented and events occur before they actually occurred. And the subject of any thread isn't ever what we are or were claimed to be discussing. We also must question if anything is fair.
No where in this thread are we talking about twilight zone.
Are board threads fair?
What version and mode are you in? According to what I see in new TER/tree-and-branch, my comment is quite correct. No vodka until later.
Besides classic isn't available on iphone and I am usually on iphone. (but I still use desktop mode on iphone, not the mobile mode)
How can your view be different? That is pretty weird!
Her post is clearly under, and indented to the right of bonordonor's on my screen.
Also her answer was clearly directed to his post, but that is besides the point.
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•josulli
• bonordonor
•89springer
•bonordonor
•wickedbrut
•justagal
•fungus
I withdraw my praise of fungus, minimal though it was.
U hurt my feelings.
Nick, you sound like you are caught in a web of fungus.
Don't forget, apologies existed before there was remorse.
Shit! You had me second guessing and third guessing myself, and looking back at the thread numerous times. After checking and rechecking, I knew for certain I was right, but thought possibly you were right too, then I was going to blame TER for some glitch where the thread shows up different on different screens. Lol.
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Did p4p exist before there was money? Is money fair? Is it really the root of all evil?
Here are the answers:
1) That's how bartering started.
2) Sort of.
3) Evil stems from wanting.
As long as everything works out, why do people care what's fair and what isn't?
Yes, of course it did. It was called bartering. Still used today. As a matter of fact, I used it yesterday for sex. Money just made it more efficient. Money is fair, unless, of course, you don't have enough of it. lol
has enough money. You can always use a little more.
If I have only a little money, but enough, do I have more than the guy with much more than I have, more than enough to fulfill his needs, but still can't help wanting more?
And what exactly IS money? How exactly do you sift out a numerical value when assets and investments are subject to change and currency values inflate or (*shudder*) deflate? If you die with a dollar still in your pocket, don't you lose a dollar of your wealth?
Tell the truth, I think providers should all get together and adopt a "currency" of, say, glass beads or something to give to each client at the end of the session. Then the clients could go home and admire their collection of glass beads and enjoy a quantitative richness in beads. Then, instead of just calling it the hobby, we could give a nod to Hermann Hesse and call it The Glass Bead Game. All this fretting about money could be put to rest.
So maybe, Bones, you should take up manual labor as a pastime. Can you do gardening?
gunpoint to do it are you? Strictly a conscious, voluntary decision on the part of everyone here.
And yes, money is the root of all evil.
Doesn't everyone know you invented that to make fun of Johny/BV? Geezk!
You won't find me talking about jokes or fairness anywhere in this thread. Rofl
What else would you call it exactly...some people barely say hello before the deed lol.
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As soon as the Benjamins hit the countertop, it's not casual anymore. Don't get me wrong you can still have fun in a business transaction.
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buying low & selling high. I enjoy the benefits of Class B distributions. But ultimately, the most enjoyment I get out of life is being balls deep in a hot sexy lady. I haven't found anything more enjoyable than that. Oh, and btw, I also enjoy paying cash for everything!
Anything..... From depression to acne.....
the more I miss de meanor I get.. Sorry, cant help myself.
I don't get it... Lol....
The post was supposed to be silly, seeing the way almost any post eventually brings out the dirty dozen to hack each other and all bystanders up. Soo.. Sex makes me happy and the more I don't get it, the meaner , and sadder I get. Good morning Gemma, maybe someday I will get it, LoL
Oh now I got it... Lol... I totally agree with you, sex does make people happy... The less Sex I do the crankier I seem... Also I get Carnivorous-meaning I crave Steaks, meat when I lack sexual activities... Lol call me I'll give u some sex 😝😝😝😝😝
with your sex partner.
I would concede that the vast majority of P4P situations are casual in that the client and provider don't have much interaction or even thoughts about each other in between their meetings and also would not be overly upset should circumstances require that they not meet again.
And that is fine.
However, I think some clients and perhaps even providers (Though I should let them comment on that.) do have some feelings for some of their sex mates and that is something more than casual even if it doesn't rise to the level of an SO relationship.
That can be fine, or it could be troubling depending on how one handles it.
Speaking for myself, I have known a number of providers for up to 25 years, and I would be very distraught if anything should happen whereby I could not see them again.
In a way that makes our relationships all that much more appealing, but also holds the possibility of heartache, a situation that has come up for me on more than a few occasions owing to the vicissitudes of this lifestyle.
But I wouldn't change a thing I've done, for the most part.
That isn't the same as "falling in love," and, as Mr. Fisher says, it doesn't mean spending thought or a great deal of communication outside the session time. But having a session with a person who I decidedly don't even care to be around would take the casualness right out it for me.
The idea is to experience the PLEASURE of each other.
The wife was snoozing with her head on my leg while she lay on the couch and I was sitting up watching TV. I poked her and pointed at the TV and said "see! It would be good for you if we had some casual sex right now... Not to mention me!" She says to me " I was having a dream and it totally wasn't about sex. Good night, I'm going to bed, I'm tired." It was only 10:30! We both had off work today to attend a graduation so woke up late, had a leisurely breakfast, went to the ceremony, had a celebratory lunch with the kid and family, came home and did nothing the rest of the day, WTF is she so tired about? Kids were in bed by 9:30 and asleep before 10. Granted my approach wasn't romantic tonight, simply a pointing out of facts. Romance doesn't help though (I know this after slightly less than 2 decades of experience). She's just not a sexual person. Until she is. She's either "on" or "off". There's no getting her to the "on" mode unless she wants it, my needs are irrelevant. When she is "on" it's good, damn good. When she's off, I'm just a warm teddy bear to her. Hugs, pecks, snuggles and not much else.
Just sharing ONE reason why I hobby.
(Others include my own psyche and need to be pleased even if it's p4p)
taking a good dump, hasn't gone thirty days without a dump. But I aint into scat.
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