I could have told them that..
Interesting study that basically says if you like casual sex it is good foryou.. if you don't like it.. it's bad for you..

The same way that a $400 pair of slacks is casual wear.

Or a $200K Lamborghini is transportation.

And for a lot of providers of course its just work.

Did p4p exist before there was money?  Is money fair?  Is it really the root of all evil?

Here are the answers:
1) That's how bartering started.
2) Sort of.
3) Evil stems from wanting.

Yes, of course it did. It was called bartering. Still used today. As a matter of fact, I used it yesterday for sex. Money just made it more efficient. Money is fair, unless, of course, you don't have enough of it. lol

States men can only have casual sex with providers? How did you come with that idea from OP's post?

What else would you call it exactly...some people barely say hello before the deed lol.

gunpoint to do it are you? Strictly a conscious, voluntary decision on the part of everyone here.  

Anything..... From depression to acne.....  

with your sex partner.

I would concede that the vast majority of P4P situations are casual in that the client and provider don't have much interaction or even thoughts about each other in between their meetings and also would not be overly upset should circumstances require that they not meet again.

And that is fine.

However, I think some clients and perhaps even providers (Though I should let them comment on that.) do have some feelings for some of their sex mates and that is something more than casual even if it doesn't rise to the level of an SO relationship.

That can be fine, or it could be troubling depending on how one handles it.

Speaking for myself, I have known a number of providers for up to 25 years, and I would be very distraught if anything should happen whereby I could not see them again.

In a way that makes our relationships all that much more appealing, but also holds the possibility of heartache, a situation that has come up for me on more than a few occasions owing to the vicissitudes of this lifestyle.

But I wouldn't change a thing I've done, for the most part.

has enough money. You can always use a little more.

the more I miss de meanor I get.. Sorry, cant help myself.

That isn't the same as "falling in love," and, as Mr. Fisher says, it doesn't mean spending thought or a great deal of communication outside the session time. But having a session with a person who I decidedly don't even care to be around would take the casualness right out it for me.

If I have only a little money, but enough, do I have more than the guy with much more than I have, more than enough to fulfill his needs, but still can't help wanting more?

The wife was snoozing with her head on my leg while she lay on the couch and  I was sitting up watching TV.  I poked her and pointed at the TV and said "see!  It would be good for you if we had some casual sex right now...  Not to mention me!"  She says to me " I was having a dream and it totally wasn't about sex.  Good night, I'm going to bed, I'm tired."  It was only 10:30!  We both had off work today to attend a graduation so woke up late, had a leisurely breakfast, went to the ceremony, had a celebratory lunch with the kid and family, came home and did nothing the rest of the day, WTF is she so tired about?  Kids were in bed by 9:30 and asleep before 10.  Granted my approach wasn't romantic tonight, simply a pointing out of facts.  Romance doesn't help though (I know this after slightly less than 2 decades of experience).  She's just not a sexual person.  Until she is.  She's either "on" or "off".  There's no getting her to the "on" mode unless she wants it, my needs are irrelevant.  When she is "on" it's good, damn good.  When she's off, I'm just a warm teddy bear to her.  Hugs, pecks, snuggles and not much else.

I don't get it... Lol....

if P4P is considered to be casual sex.

And no there is no unwritten rule.  As a matter of fact, P4P for me is anything but casual sex.

Theres a reason why SPOTY and DPOTY trophies were invented...

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=226352&boardID=39&page=#226352

As soon as the Benjamins hit the countertop, it's not casual anymore. Don't get me wrong you can still have fun in a business transaction.

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Doesn't everyone know you invented that to make fun of Johny/BV?  Geezk!

ridiculous.

If you'd been responding to bonordonor your post would have appeared under his and indented to the right.  Perhaps you're in flat mode, which often causes confusion that way.
But this is quite an event.   Fungus actually put up a correct and coherent post.  Satan must be practicing his slap shot in Hell.

The post was supposed to be silly, seeing the way almost any post eventually brings out the dirty dozen to hack each other and all bystanders up. Soo.. Sex makes me happy and the more I don't get it, the meaner , and sadder I get. Good morning Gemma, maybe someday I will get it, LoL

You won't find me talking about jokes or fairness anywhere in this thread.  Rofl

Her post is under bonerdoner. WTF are you looking at?

Causality is reversed,  where Christianity existed before the coming of Christ.  

taking a good dump, hasn't gone thirty days without a dump. But I aint into scat.

So maybe, Bones, you should take up manual labor as a pastime. Can you do gardening?

buying low & selling high. I enjoy the benefits of Class B distributions. But ultimately, the most enjoyment I get out of life is being balls deep in a hot sexy lady. I haven't found anything more enjoyable than that. Oh, and btw, I also enjoy paying cash for everything!

What version and mode are you in?  According to what I see in new TER/tree-and-branch, my comment is quite correct.  No vodka until later.

Besides classic isn't available on iphone and I am usually on iphone. (but I still use desktop mode on iphone, not the mobile mode)  
How can your view be different? That is pretty weird!
Her post is clearly under, and indented to the right of bonordonor's on my screen.
Also her answer was clearly directed to his post, but that is besides the point.

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•josulli
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I withdraw my praise of fungus, minimal though it was.

You are the gift that keeps on giving, as you plumb the depths.  And, yes, you are hilarious to all of us.  Just bear in mind, when people laugh over your posts they are laughing at you, not with you.
Actually, I am not humping your leg either.  You make an excellent hydrant

U hurt my feelings.

Yesterday day you wanted me to put you on ignore.  

You complete me

Oh now I got it... Lol...  I totally agree with you, sex does make people happy... The less Sex I do the crankier I seem... Also I get Carnivorous-meaning I crave Steaks, meat when I lack sexual activities... Lol  call me I'll give u some sex 😝😝😝😝😝

Apparently, causality has no meaning in your world.  Things exist before they are even invented and events occur before they actually occurred.  And the subject of any thread isn't ever what we are or were claimed to be discussing. We also must question if anything is fair.  

Don't forget,  apologies existed before there was remorse.

Shit! You had me second guessing and third guessing myself, and looking back at the thread numerous times. After checking and rechecking, I knew for certain I was right, but thought possibly you were right too, then I was going to blame TER for some glitch where the thread shows up different on different screens. Lol.

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Nick, you sound like you are caught in a web of fungus.

This board "accepts him with open arms?"  Guess I missed that.  LMAO!  He gets shit on almost as much as you do.  But that's only because he doesn't post as much as you do.  Just two different kinds of drivel.  You're the one that's backwards.
Oh, and your friend said more than just "hello."

Clueless to the last.  Gawd you are fun.

Gawd, what a goofball you are.