Of course we know this is happening frequently, especially among "friends". For me, friends means someone I KNOW is a legitimate hobbyist.

My standard response is: "I try to put everything that should be shared in the review.  That's what it's for."  Even for guys who I know are legitimate, I think we owe the ladies respect their privacy.  In life in general, it's served me well to avoid saying things about someone that I'd be uncomfortable saying about them if they were present.  Just a good filter!  I think the same holds true here ...... both in writing reviews and in conversations.

If the info is pretty benign, then I'll share some info even if I don't know who the guy is.

Are you "comfortable" answering questions such as, "does she do Greek?"
I am, I'm comfortable sharing info related to professional services.  Info such as her address, her surroundings, personal identification, etc..I would not share.  Haven't been asked to as of yet

people are asking, but i think that asking if a service is provided is not inappropriate, or if the lady offers it ymmv. i've read many reviews in which services change. and i don't think that a provider should put a user on a DNS list, if he inquires about this information from another hobbyist, nor do i think that hobbyists should rat out another hobbyist for asking simple questions that can affect how enjoyable time spent will be.  

Guys do not send me PMs, as I do not have anything to share.

Fake hobbyists are even LESS bright.  

I'm not cable news being called fake does not register  .

the nature of the request.  Most of he PM's I get concern whether a veteran girl has any changes from what her profile says from years ago, such as shaved or natural, gained weight, menu changes from what is listed, etc.  I consider these to be innocent requests, even from someone out of the blue.  Unless I have been corresponding regularly with someone, I don't answer questions about a provider's incall location, nor do I talk about YMMV services with strangers.  Many providers have have an expanded menu that may include Greek, CIM or other services for their regulars, but if they're not on her menu for every swinging dick that walks through the door, I will not discuss them with  guys I don't know well.  

I'm so happy we have a few trolls that are more intelligent than the rest of us. How would this forum survive without some members of the intelligentsia telling us how dumb we are.

the more information I might be willing to share.  Of course nothing as to identity or location.

Such as "she's good looking" or "her blow jobs are fantastic, but I avoid personal info or juicy details that would be covered in a review.

Or every now and then, I get someone asking about a description of a lady's clitoris , vagina or nipples. Or if she doesn't show face pics, they ask if she is pretty.  
I do share my experiences or give suggestions based on who I've seen, but I would never give information that could put a lady's safety at risk.
I do look at the enquirer's board presence and review history and decide what I answer based on that research.

Some of the questions are ridiculous. However, every once in awhile, if the monger has board cred I'll respond.

...or if a fellow hobbyist that I don't know has a substantial amount of recent & well written reviews.  Other than that i don't share Intel, nor agree to a dual session, a voyeur session,  or a FMF romp. But i guess i can't blame a guy for trying, right?  

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They just want to make sure the BF is gone before they arrive.

If it's any consolation, most of the inquires that I get are asking if she is the one in the photos, and if her face is blurred in her pics is she pretty or not. I do not  report any sordid details of my trysts.

but you're still a dirty girl. LOL 😉

Sorry Smartie. If you want to know about my face you're gonna have to come see me in person

I often do get ladies PMing me here after seeing my posts on the boards. Many have craved a lady client but have never had one before. I am usually more than happy to quench that yearning

In my world, a hottie with expert pussy eating skills will always "trump" any political differences that we may have

Just wash your ass first.  

ooops, wrong OP!  lol

reading the details in the reviews. If the hobbyist is too cheap to get VIP, he/she can roll the dice.

Personally I found that rather disrespectful. I don't care what lopaw looks like any more than I care what you or CDL looks like. I am NEVER going to sleep with her any more than I am going to sleep with any other monger here. The hookers are here for our "ogling pleasure" not our fellow mongers, even if they do happen to be female.

I remember an asshat asking me "how much she charged for anal?" After I wrote a review that didn't mention "anal". WTF really?

I appreciate that, just respectfully agree to disagree.  I can read reviews, they all say a whole lot and experiences vary.  
The whole "profile" thing, "services provided", "client website", blah blah...
Everyone's different, with me I really only want to know a couple things, and all that research doesn't always get a straight answer

I've had great luck getting the inside scoop via backchannels. Simply, there's only so much that goes into a review and it can only be so honest.