Question for the ladies and gentlemen.

What's the appropriate way to ask a provider if I could rim her?

Should this be done in an email or at the session?

To be honest I just work my way down there during DATY and see what her reaction is. If I hear a positive response I move in...



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Many providers who rim will also allow you to rim.
Otherwise, move down from DATY and you will find out for sure.

Formula 409, Ajax, Comet, or any other industrial strength product that will make a ladies asshole clean enough to stick a tongue in. I guess to each his own, but I just don't understand the fascination.

I think it was MrFisher who said, "how could God in his infinite wisdom create a waste disposal site right next to an amusement park?"

Well not really, though I find I get a very favorable response by directing a nice little breeze on the spot through blowing on it softly.

Do you do that too if you want to digitally penetrate her a$$? Just try it and see?

Comet!

I laughed at that one too. Comet is an abrasive powder used to scour pots and pans and even the tub, although nowadays you can get Comet in a cream solution.

and no, of course not. Licking around a woman's anus and shoving fingers up her ass are two entirely different things.  

If you do not feel stiletto heel in your ear proceed to desired activity


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Lina

I was referring to your "I'll just keep going and see what she says". I was curious if you employed the same strategy if you wanted to insert a finger. And no "shoving" is not what I was referring to either, just the general way you might approach the act.

there would be much anus left to rim after a comet scrubbing, lol!!

Why not simply VOCALIZE, ie say, while playing during the session ...  

"I'd love to rim you.  May I please?"

Thank you for asking. There are just some things a guy should ask so as not to ruin the moment or flow for the lady. I know if someone just went ahead and tried without asking, I'd be irritated for the rest of the session. And if the answer is no that means no period...not know for two minutes and try it again. That's the best way to piss off a provider.

Now a question..if after you have rimmed her anus, do you expect to go up and start kissing her?

I would not insert a finger in any orifice without asking first. This includes her vagina. Not all women like fingers and licking is not the same as diddling.

So I guess my answer would be no, I do not employ the same strategy.

Well, to each his own but, the last time I checked, the amusement park still had a urethra at the end of the tunnel of love...

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Still, drinking it is not on my to do list.

if it's not on the menu - how in the world do you think it could be brought up in email???

if IT is that important to you - then SEARCH for that

I have never been into to that -but one night recently things got so intense - she offered herself up in such a natural way - I went there and WOW - as clean and tasty as any part of her and the sensuality soared ...

perhaps the last frontier for many of us - but offers many possibilities... passion paves the way if not offered up front...

just don't press buttons in ways that are not comfy for the ladies - if you aren't willing to search online, then the search in real life is not only much longer but way more expensive...

I have had a number of friends with benefits and two favorite providers who would have a nice O with DATY and enjoy the second (or third) by rimming generally with using a vibrator.  I always love this if it is truly pleasing. It is no turn on if it doesn't excite and please. (Think of how much a lady would like giving a BJ if there was no excitement or pleasure for the recipient.) I never DATY after rimming and, if I hope to kiss again, after spending some time enjoying the glow of her climax I go to the bathroom to brush and gargle.

If healthy and clean, the anus is not significantly more bacterial laden than other orifices. I have never gotten sick after rimming.  I do admit that --to many-- there is a heavy psychological barrier.

tongue in cheek question?

a quote from a construction worker I knew many years ago:

"God must be an Italian... (though he used a more colorful term)...Who else would put the toilet right next to the kitchen?"

I do like rimming (receiving and giving) but for sanitation's sake, do it right after you get out of the shower or bubble bath with her and don't forget to do some scrubbing with a wash cloth where the sun don't shine.

I have an appt. with a provider next week that is drop dead gorgeous!!!!

I can think of nothing more exciting to me to stick my tongue in that brown eye.

"Why would anyone put the snack bar so close to the outhouse?"

I have to admit to enjoying receiving a little tongue action down there, but sometimes receiving is much better than giving, unless we are talking about putting anything but a tongue down there.

Missed the joke......



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instead of "tongue in cheek" lol

Take the lady to diner and see if she orders a toss salad.


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Although rimming is enjoyable, I prefer if your tongue is down there please pay more attention to the area located a bit north!  I enjoy rimming men especially when they are really into it.  I will not do it at all unless he is clean though.  Of course that goes both ways!

...to "Chim, Chimney" from Mary Poppins:

Rim rimmin me, rim rimmin me,
Rim rim you tooooo?

Yes, thank you, I will accept the Oscar nomination for corniest joke of the day...lol.