I'm very young in my hobbying career. But have wanted to ask this for a while, since I've yet to see it here. Guys and providers.  

with your SO, why are you seeing escorts? (not judging just curious)   if you dont well then in some ways i can understand, and in some ways i cant........for me ,we were having sex regularly when my husband decided to cheat with an escort, granted it had just started to get better but we were doing it at least 3 to 4 times a week at that point and had been for many months...... it didnt seem to affect us until i found out about his cheating...........now we hobby together.....so if and when you are bused it could work out for you in the end.

Lack of a sex life with a SO is the reason that most men see escorts.

Both keep telling me they need more time.      Much longer and I'm 2 steps from going to see a provider.    lol.

Unless of course the woman I am in said "committed relationship" is a hooker herself, in which case I guess technically I am still seeing at least one hooker. lol

My married sex life was near zero, which is one reason I started up in the hobby again.  (I had been active before marriage but curtailed it for several years after getting married.)

Amen

This is an interesting post.  You Hobby together?  Can you elaborate on that?  How does that work?

we only see the ladies together, usually only when we are on vacation, but looking into a few options where we live. its been liberating and interesting, it was a long road getting here but now that i am, its been fun.

Never tell your wife you are doing this.  Woman actually can careless about where you dick has been, but she cares about money -- particularly, if lots of money spent on other women, that really pisses off your wife.

I have been in the hobby for 30+ years and I have always felt that it has improved sex "back at home."

actually i couldnt give two fucks about the money, had he fucked a hooker for free i would have sill been fucking pissed and destroyed, not ALL of us wives care only about the money, and since I make most of the money that wasnt even an issue, my problem was that we were getting our marriage back on track and he decided to go off the deep end and fuck it up. granted we are great now and we actually hobby together, in our case it was the emotional thing and not the money thing.

Being with an escort is cheating? JK....
What man in his mid 40's wouldn't wanna be with that hot blonde and baby smooth skinned 20 yr old? U had to ask?

Keyword being "most"
 

No we don't. It'll never happen. Ever  
She'd walk out the door and never look back!

I agree 100%

I agree on that too! It's different.  

Girl lover, it's actually pretty simple.  Say a married couple has a pretty good sex life, but she's too small to do anal...he can go find an escort who will do anal.  That's how it works in this world.