Unless of course the woman I am in said "committed relationship" is a hooker herself, in which case I guess technically I am still seeing at least one hooker. lol
Speaking strictly for myself, I am just not one to lie to any woman I care enough about to call my SO. Or at least not lie about something as important as cheating on her. The way I keep from cheating is to simply not make promises I know I can't keep, it's a rare woman that can get me to promise fidelity. Problem solved.I'm very young in my hobbying career. But have wanted to ask this for a while, since I've yet to see it here. Guys and providers.
How does the hobby effect ur sex life with y'all's SO? And in what ways? If at all? Please elaborate
How does the hobby effect ur sex life with y'all's SO? And in what ways? If at all? Please elaborate
with your SO, why are you seeing escorts? (not judging just curious) if you dont well then in some ways i can understand, and in some ways i cant........for me ,we were having sex regularly when my husband decided to cheat with an escort, granted it had just started to get better but we were doing it at least 3 to 4 times a week at that point and had been for many months...... it didnt seem to affect us until i found out about his cheating...........now we hobby together.....so if and when you are bused it could work out for you in the end.
How does the hobby effect ur sex life with y'all's SO? And in what ways? If at all? Please elaborate
This is an interesting post. You Hobby together? Can you elaborate on that? How does that work?
we only see the ladies together, usually only when we are on vacation, but looking into a few options where we live. its been liberating and interesting, it was a long road getting here but now that i am, its been fun.
No we don't. It'll never happen. Ever
She'd walk out the door and never look back!
Being with an escort is cheating? JK....
What man in his mid 40's wouldn't wanna be with that hot blonde and baby smooth skinned 20 yr old? U had to ask?
But all kidding aside.... Not exactly sure why I am. I stumbled across the hobby a few years ago and slowly started to watch, read and learn about it. It's certainly a very intriguing world. That's for sure. My sex life at home isn't bad, not the best in the world but I certainly love my wife and have no issues in the bedroom.
Glad things worked out for you!
How does the hobby effect ur sex life with y'all's SO? And in what ways? If at all? Please elaborate
Girl lover, it's actually pretty simple. Say a married couple has a pretty good sex life, but she's too small to do anal...he can go find an escort who will do anal. That's how it works in this world.
Lack of a sex life with a SO is the reason that most men see escorts.
Keyword being "most"
Both keep telling me they need more time. Much longer and I'm 2 steps from going to see a provider. lol.
Unless of course the woman I am in said "committed relationship" is a hooker herself, in which case I guess technically I am still seeing at least one hooker. lol
Speaking strictly for myself, I am just not one to lie to any woman I care enough about to call my SO. Or at least not lie about something as important as cheating on her. The way I keep from cheating is to simply not make promises I know I can't keep, it's a rare woman that can get me to promise fidelity. Problem solved.
My married sex life was near zero, which is one reason I started up in the hobby again. (I had been active before marriage but curtailed it for several years after getting married.)
It seemed as though when I came home late from a "meeting" the SO would put the moves on me, and we'd have sex. Thank goodness back then I had the stamina for such a thing. This would not happen the days I saw a gal during the day, then came home and showered.
I think the sex with the provider produced the pheromones that were still on me when I would come home late, and that would then engage my ex leading her to want to have sex with me.
It was my shrink, of all people, who explained that to me.
Ain't chemistry grand?
Never tell your wife you are doing this. Woman actually can careless about where you dick has been, but she cares about money -- particularly, if lots of money spent on other women, that really pisses off your wife.
If she finds out, other than causing relationship problems, she will cut off sex with you: "you are seeing hookers, you are not giving me anything bad."
actually i couldnt give two fucks about the money, had he fucked a hooker for free i would have sill been fucking pissed and destroyed, not ALL of us wives care only about the money, and since I make most of the money that wasnt even an issue, my problem was that we were getting our marriage back on track and he decided to go off the deep end and fuck it up. granted we are great now and we actually hobby together, in our case it was the emotional thing and not the money thing.
If she finds out, other than causing relationship problems, she will cut off sex with you: "you are seeing hookers, you are not giving me anything bad."
I agree 100%
If she finds out, other than causing relationship problems, she will cut off sex with you: "you are seeing hookers, you are not giving me anything bad."
I have been in the hobby for 30+ years and I have always felt that it has improved sex "back at home."
Sex in the hobby is more physical. Sex at home is more emotional. Being able to compare and contrast the two, and appreciate both for what they are, is very fulfilling
I agree on that too! It's different.
Sex in the hobby is more physical. Sex at home is more emotional. Being able to compare and contrast the two, and appreciate both for what they are, is very fulfilling.