Just curious of what you providers think of us men dirty ? Whore? Cheater?   Recently Started to hobby an seen the same provider few times, I love this hobby a lot Sometimes I feel bad Of what I done But at times I feel  like I had a reason to. I have a GF of 5 years met her with a child an we had our own years ago, she gives me plenty of sex when I feel like I need it but times I feel like I need more of it So that's my reason for hobby Plus we are always arguing over stuff And putting up with her jealousy but overall I like Variety an I'm 27 And getting old soon.. So what do you providers think of us men ?  But putting up with some girls madness and  constant jealousy who would not hobby ?

We don't much care who you are and what you do outside of here honey. I am not paid to analyze you, unless you specifically ask me what I think your problem is. Even then, I will probably plead the fifth. You need not worry about what a hooker thinks of you, unless you're thinking of proposing. Show up clean and on time for your scheduled appt. with the proper donation, don't get rough, overly demanding, or spend that time whining about your wife and how mean she is, and you will be just fine. I am not a therapist.

...most of us generally don't want to hear you bashing your SO. Whatever reasons you choose to hobby...keep them to yourself.

And FYI...her jealousy and "maddness" might not be so unfounded..look where you are. We get pretty freaking tired of hearing about how bad some guy's other half is...we get your side, not her side and somewhere in that mess is the truth. I highly doubt that you are the perfect SO and she might have her story that makes you look like a perfect ass.

Rule 1.  One size does not fit all.  That depends on you, the provider and how you relate.  And it may change over time.

Rule 2.  However,  London is absolutely right, particularly for new relationships..  Don't confuse GFE with GF or either with a therapist.

Rule 3.  Based on very limited knowledge, I suspect most providers think of hobbyists (who have an SO) as morally weak or deficient. - sometimes that leads to hidden scorn or dislike; sometimes not.

Rule 4.  Again, on limited knowledge, "blaming" hobbying on your SO ( except in extreme circumstances) or on being a man who likes variety is seen by many providers as being particularly tacky.

Wow! What was so bad about that? He sent me a PM, and when I replied it said he was ignoring me! Why would you send someone a PM and then ignore him? Unless he accidentally ignored me? (It happens) Anyway will someoen do me a favor and quote my post in another reply so he can read it? Or just tell him to unignore me so he can read my PM reply. It was a friendly reply as I have no animosity to him, but apparently he can't take a joke!

Hi London,

What can I say ? It is what it is! :oP  Anyways, she says that  I always treat her right!! That's why I'll see her, again, & again!! In fact I treat  every woman in this profession w/ the utmost respect!! That's the one thing I have going for me!!

Now you weren't hard on him at all. You were honest. So what's new? LOL
And even if he is new, he is not that new. He has posted before and he should know how this board is

Most women think men that frequent prostitutes are "dirty low class men." I have been called this by a woman that knew about me fucking prostitutes.

You seem a little young at 27 years old to pay women to have sex with you. If you have some looks and game, you should pick up women in bars.

They look at us a source of benjamins. Pretty simple really.

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As she usually does. I would only add that it is not our place to judge, admonish or condemn you. Nor is it our job to justify and grant absolution. You our our clients and your goal should the suspension of reality not the analysis of it. There are many reasons why guys hobby, but most do not see it as a barometer on the health of their relationships. It is a naughty diversion - nothing more, nothing less.

I'm sure every provider has an opinion, I'm sure some of those opinions of us are common and shared. But I don't think that their thoughts on their customers are any different than anybody else in the service industry and there thoughts on their customers. I mean really don't you really think that people who clean houses don't find it amusing the conditions that some of their customers live in.

At the end of the day don't think too much about this kind of thing... Just count correctly, because bad math skills would not be an opinion that you would want providers to have of you.

You're right your knowledge like most is limited. Who can speak for most providers, but if they look down on those who like variety, then they think a large number of their clients are tacky.  That is all Hobbyist are tacky according to that belief.  I'm not going to adress 1-3.

So you are replying for "most" women...and you're not one..perhaps

And you are determining that his age makes him "a little young" to be fucking hookers...sure pal...whatever you say

You only left out your continued speeches exalting bbfs...why?  I guess you meant that the whores he can pick up in the bars are automatically bbfs candidates?  Would this make those barfly's hookers if they fuck him after he pays XXX for their drinks?

Also a man would not type the word jealousy in a post about himself on a P4P forum.
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I have disagree as I'm only a bit older than the OP but girls at the bars will want to text/call you and have a real relationship. Way too much risk of your SO finding out. I've done it and the girls become clingy I'd rather hook up with a discreet beautiful lady on my time.

If you don't find  what triggers  your  "always arguing over stuff " while analyzing your own madness , you are destined to grow old with anger  .
 If you tell her every day she is number 1 , she won't be as jealous of number 2 .

Try to think of providers as famous movie stars . Even though your favorite actress would call you a peon behind your back , you still enjoy her movies .  
 



 
 
 

LR, I don't always agree with what you have to say (and that's OK) but I really must say, I do so appreciate your candor. I do completely agree with what you say here:

Show up clean and on time for your scheduled appt. with the proper donation, don't get rough, overly demanding, or spend that time whining about your wife and how mean she is, and you will be just fine. I am not a therapist.

And I don't by any means think you care about my validation, just sayin.

Looking forward to your next Cleveland visit and meeting you in person.

One of the reasons I hobby is that I don't want some clingy woman that I could attract at a bar. I'd rather have a hot woman, that I'd never be able to attract at a bar, to spend 2-4 hours with and know what I'm going to get and also know what their motivation is. I don't have a SO anymore (thank goodness) and that's exactly the way I like it.

I still find 27 years old to be too young for the hobby no matter what. When I was 27 years old, I would bring home a civie 20 something every weekend from the Licoln Park bars. Free sex with no commitment. I would give them taxi fare to get home in the morning after I used them for sex all night.

Maybe it's the overweight/ugly men any without any game that can't pick up a civie at 27 years old!

other stuff that simply does not concern us. Now, I am sure we all have our "DNS" lists based on a few of the nut jobs who post here lol, but that is neither here nor there. When such a broad question like this is asked, there is simply no one size fits all answer. I adore 'most' of my clients, or I would not bother keeping them as clients.

But that the john needs to be a fugly...hilarious.

I fucked my first hooker at 24...in Vegas.  

And I wasn't (and still am not) overweight or ugly.

And she didn't ask me to buy her a drink..or pay her cab fare either.  I know...a shocker.

When are you going back to Tijuana?  I guess you're still looking for those young kids to fuck (and I don't agree that under 17 is legal...but I guess you do...and the BBFS shit...hopefully the Cartel will finally put an end to your trolling.

Ouch. Although, can you imagine what she would have said if she knew about your penchant for BBFS??? Hell hath no fury!

to be quite honest with you. One of the providers said it best when she said, "suspend reality, don't analyze it."

Hi Lane,

...phrase!! Where do I send the royalty check?

And you have to kids ....maybe if you didn't act shady she wouldn't get jealous?
Tell her she doesn't need to be jealous. No one is trying to steal you from her (I prefer good men)

Well,  if an opinion is specifically asked for...then it should be given.
Id say hobbying if your SO doesn't know ..is pretty indiciative of relationship health.
It would seem these questions are asked for validation.

Just a guess, based on where the keys are on the keyboard.

Girls really don't think that deep about clients as long as you are a nice guy and we are making you happy the rest is irrelevent, we really have too much of our own stuff to think about.

Let's not confuse having a good time for the session and enjoying the other person's company (even longing to see the other person again) as being confused with any semblance of a personal relationship in real life.

You shouldn't be concerned with her other than:

1.  Will she see you or see you again?

2.  Will she offer you the same menu of services as she did in the past or as advertised?

That's really it.

I believe that civie women think guys that fuck prostitutes are low class sexual deviates.

One potential girlfriend said I was too professional of a man to fuck hookers.

Nope, I certainly would not. I do not fk married men for free.

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This just made me smile for some reason. It was simple and truthful.