I am not one of them, but it's not anything that I see you getting attacked for.

Keep in mind that if you make a big deal out of it with her, you open the door for her to refuse to DFK after DATY, with the reason that you have "pussy breath" lol

Time to make a confession that will open me up as a sitting duck target but here goes. I went on a date last night with an amazing lady (non professional), it was our fourth date and the first three never went past lots of kissing and outside the clothes caressing. Keeping in mind we are both late 40's and these 4 dates have taken place in 9 days.

After I'd come in her mouth, she'd come up to kiss. She'd hide it under her tongue, and then slip it to me as we kissed.

It's not a trollish, stupid, or misplaced post. A lot of folks out here have a lot of experience with this so you pose legit questions in the right place. I myself am not into snowballing but there's really only one piece of advice you need here, and it's something I suspect you already know: be honest. Tell her exactly what you expressed here, that it was hot in the moment but you'd really rather not have it be part of your ongoing activities. You might find that it encourages her to be open with you about her likes and dislikes, and things get better all the way around. Good luck!

Sex is an adventure that must be thoroughly explored to be thoroughly appreciated.  Be honest with yourself and with your gal about likes and dislikes; it's certainly normal for them to change over time or even from session to session.  

She'll love you for it....jus sayin, ya know.

...and am a little envious.  Not sure I would like it every time, but as GaGambler noted... turn around is fair play... if you expect DFK after going down on her, then it seems perfectly fair that she would expect the same.  

and you are far from the only guy who never whore mongered while married. I never cheated on my wife either, but 30 seconds after she moved out, "it was on like Donkey Kong" lmao

Good luck and have fun.

Say goodbye to the hobby, and do all you can to keep her!!

My first girl friend did this with me on our second date.

I was pretty damned surprised by it but must say I love it, and still do.

She was horny as a bastard too after she did took my load in her mouth and plopped herself upon my dick and had an atomic orgasm, about a 9.5 on the Richter Scale.

Ah, those were the days.

It doesn't do anything for me but it is mine after all. I enjoy when a woman takes my load, and enjoy kissing with her fluids all over my face, so it would be a bit hypocritical if I pitched a fit about tasting myself from time to time. Besides if she gets her kinks you're more likely to get yours. It sounds like you and your lady friend had fun. Just roll with it, or if it is a real turn off let her know it is a no go. If you do just know she might not take the load next time ether.

4 dates and 1 filled with a great time and awesome sex is a great start but that is why I said I do not look past tomorrow's date.  

I don't claim to succeed all the time, but I do try. lol

People have their own reasons for what they do, who am I to tell a grown man (woman) what to do in matters like this?

Well unless they ask of course. lol

OTOH, I love and adore my wife, and yet, here I am.

not even if she paid ME!

... snowballing is THE most erotic thing in sex!   she is a keeper- extremely intimate move- total sharing thing.....

... involved me coming on the provider- tits, belly, and then cleaning it up myself by sucking it all up- and the provider motioning for me to 'give it to her' orally- like I said, very, very sexy- taste is a bit salty and sweet- not unpleasant- just way more sexy than getting a cloth and wiping it up!