Hi All,

One of the reasons that the escort industry thrives is that the ladies ARE willing to do things that average wives/girlfriends won't do.  We all have fantasies on our bucket lists, and this world makes it a little easier to actually fulfill those fantasies.

... and they see providers, then it's at least partly because providers will do things their GF/SO won't do.  It could be something like you described. It could be something as simple as making love to the guy, or merely kissing him.  

But I'm the sweetheart type (HA! lol), so I don't generally attract people looking for rough play or a porn-type fantasy.

This business is alive and well because wives and girlfriends are not willing to do things that  
They do not like to do or do not want to do.

you are more the norm than what you described you read in that review.However,I have done that a couple of times not my fav.Some of the guys are no longer intimate with their wives or do not have a significant other and are looking for an intimate experience.So I fill that void during our time together.I am sure there are guys who are looking for more of a PSE encounter than GFE.Being a member here you can find a provider to satisfy your desire for intimacy,quickie(if that is your thing),multi-hour dates,or more PSE.I don't like rough and I don't encounter rough guys but there are guys who have fetishes and providers who are willing to satisfy their desires.

With the first one, it was her idea.  She did it with everyone who reviewed her.  It was how she set herself apart.

Some providers specialize in some rougher/edgier things.  Others are more about the GFE thing.    When I am in the mood for Chinese, I go to a chinese restaurant.  When I am in the mood for Steak - go to a steak house.

I think many guys are settling for less than they should in their civvie relationships.  I've never done anything with a provider that I haven't done in the past with one or more SO's, and I've done EVERYTHING with various providers.

Yaasssss

But there's some non-sexual aspects of SO relationships that aren't present in p4p relationships.  

I represent myself as a GFE provider and not PSE. Because of that, I tend to have guys that looking extremely passionate, but non rough experience. I'd say maybe 10-15 percent of clients that I see, like rough stuff. And most of us prefer clients just like you

Not every gal can do that...  and those that do, probably don't want to be choked / gagged...  though it is certainly a risk with that.  With that, there's certainly the chance it can go wrong very easily...

an SO that is a retired provider.  Best of both worlds, and many are open-minded about OUR need for variety from time to time, so you don't get the drama you would get with a strictly civvie girl.

a woman for the first time. There are hard and fast rules that are best respected and then there's those time when the provider can
sense what you might like and opens herself up to you. You'll know when it happens as long as you're open to feeling it.  

explore new sexual adventures, that is why I became a provider.  I don't get to explore different crazy sexual adventures in my conservative real life or career.
That is why providing is so much fun for me!
Kisses
Frederica

Thank you everyone who shared your thoughts.  I've learned a lot in the last year.  Love getting to better know the wonderful ladies that are here  too!