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Dallas_texan 1037 reads
posted
1 / 13

That is the question. To me, part of being with a woman is kissing her, and, having a little DATY. Although I didn't chime in on the trolls thread yesterday, I'm a huge fan of DATY.  So I wanted to get y'all's thoughts on the non GFE ladies? I get it, no fluid exchange. But come on, aren't the non GFE providers already playing with fire? Aren't we all? Personally, I won't do it again. And that really sucks because there are some SUPER HOT non GFE girls here in Texas!

impposter 49 Reviews 357 reads
posted
2 / 13

Some non-GFEs allow LFK, DFK, DATY, FIV (in various combinations) but some do not. At least that's been my experience. The cut-off, for me, tends to be CBJ vs BBBJ (and the obvious follow-ons: CIM, NQNS). I get an idea which non-GFEs allow DATY, etc. from their reviews.  

But I don't know Texas except that some things are bigger there.
Posted By: Dallas_texan
That is the question. To me, part of being with a woman is kissing her, and, having a little DATY. Although I didn't chime in on the trolls thread yesterday, I'm a huge fan of DATY.  So I wanted to get y'all's thoughts on the non GFE ladies? I get it, no fluid exchange. But come on, aren't the non GFE providers already playing with fire? Aren't we all? Personally, I won't do it again. And that really sucks because there are some SUPER HOT non GFE girls here in Texas!

GaGambler 345 reads
posted
3 / 13

Not about skipping over the Non GFE providers, just that there are so many more women who are GFE here in Dallas.

I will agree that I don't care how hot a woman is, if she's a cold fish I have no interest in booking with her.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 255 reads
posted
4 / 13

When I first started in the hobby and I use to see this smoking-hot Asian provider who was of course, not GFE. I remember her rules, everything covered, no kissing-anywhere, no FIV, nothing anal, and as far as multiple pops, she said when you cum, we are done and I leave. I was new. She knew that and she tried to make me cum as fast as possible. She also said these are the "hobby rules" everywhere. One session I was stroking the outside of her va jay jay and she suddenly screamed, "DONT PUT YOUR FINGER IN THERE !!" I stopped and said that I wasn't and she made a feeble excuse about how she't didn't like it. Funny, she was getting wet. Many times she couldn't get me off-she didn't care.  

As luck would have it I called someone else when she wasn't available. The new provider wasn't a hot Asian, but she was hot and she only had one rule - her only rule was no BBFS. She was full GFE, and I was in heaven! I never called that first provider back. I hate liars!

Edit- I'm a shit typist and I'm typing on an IPhone made by pissed off slave laborers.  
Posted By: Dallas_texan
That is the question. To me, part of being with a woman is kissing her, and, having a little DATY. Although I didn't chime in on the trolls thread yesterday, I'm a huge fan of DATY.  So I wanted to get y'all's thoughts on the non GFE ladies? I get it, no fluid exchange. But come on, aren't the non GFE providers already playing with fire? Aren't we all? Personally, I won't do it again. And that really sucks because there are some SUPER HOT non GFE girls here in Texas!
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octavia.lexa See my TER Reviews 326 reads
posted
5 / 13

So I know how it feels if provider is not gfe. It can be very awkward and clinical

davincib1 96 Reviews 224 reads
posted
6 / 13

Like one of the posters said, when I first started, I had a session with a provider who was smoking hot, non-gfe and a complete upsell. It was a very bad experience and I was sort of trained to think that this was how all the ladies where, but that didn't deter me. Needless to say I have had a great time exploring and searching for new experiences. What helps is that you know have the resources to get the information needed to make a solid decision. There are a few providers that I have solicited simply for the visual aspect i.e. huge man mades, monster ass etc. IMO it is not so much the non-gfe factor, it is the attitude, mechanical like performance and personality. I'd say whatever floats your boat and fits your budget, but as the old saying goes what she won't do, someone else will, esp in Dallas.

bocabuster 19 Reviews 270 reads
posted
7 / 13

I've worked in medicine for decades.  
The cbj, no DFK, is great for making everyone warm and fuzzy but the most dangerous STDs to both provider and hobbyist, herpes and HPV (venereal warts) are not protected against by condoms.  
Any provider that doesn't do some form of visual nonchalant exam of Mr Happy is putting all at risk
HPV often causes cervical dysplasia and cervical cancer in women
For guys the virus never leaves your body and removing the lesions when they have an outbreak is too gruesome to detail here.  
I'm not trying to scare anyone but you have to understand that just like in civie life you'd better pay attention to who you are bedding.

GaGambler 241 reads
posted
8 / 13

Or more specifically, what is your point in the context of the OP and it's subsequent discussion?

We get it, sex is not a risk free proposition. It sounds like you are arguing at first for and then against GFE services. I LIKE GFE and as an adult I am perfectly cognizant of the risks involved and accept them without needing a lecture.

If you want to start the 239,456th STD thread, please feel free to do just that, but that was not the topic of THIS thread, but thank you so much for informing us of something everyone here already knows. Now PLEASE stay on topic.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 291 reads
posted
9 / 13

"Clinical" I like that better than "mechanical" it just seems more  appropriate. Thanks.  

Posted By: octavia.lexa
So I know how it feels if provider is not gfe. It can be very awkward and clinical

MissErinBlack See my TER Reviews 233 reads
posted
10 / 13

Personally, non-gfe sessions and sessions under an hour just made me feel like a warm, living glory hole. I'm not into that. I at least need a little bit of illusion. ;)

if other ladies don't feel that way about it and other guys are just as concerned about bodily fluids, then they're probably more compatible.

Tylor See my TER Reviews 232 reads
posted
11 / 13

The non GFE providors I have spoken with simply were not that into it. They are not being non GFE as a safety precaution, they just want to get done and make money. Most had clients they liked, or times they were in the mood and then they were full GFE.  

I started with a lady that always told me try not to kiss em, one and done, if it's over in 5min so be it...I never listened to her but I was under the impression that it was pretty common to be like that in the beginning.
I personally could not do it, I can't see how either of us could enjoy it with a checklist of rules. Though I had a friend tell me the rules were a dirty turn on...

Dallas_texan 175 reads
posted
12 / 13

Funny you say that about getting it done quickly and get out. Because I have noticed that most non GFE providers have the 30 min deal. I don't get it. I want some lip(both)for petes sakes!! Kiss me woman!! Lol

Skyfyre 217 reads
posted
13 / 13

The better looking a provider is the more a GPS she got and the easier for her to put out the LEAST while making the MOST (money).

And here's a corollary to that theorem: the better a woman look the worse fuck she is because all her life she only got by on look and never had to work for anything or for that matter to learn

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