It always confuses me the number of men that I see looking for a provider to peg them. Why not just cut out the middle (wo)man and go right to the trans girl. That shits strapless Boys 😂😂, an we know what we're doing with it.

to some guys that a TS does. Whay you claim makes sense but it's all semantics.

I mean even done not get it.  Either case dude is still getting fucked. So if it's about perceptions of what it means, that kind of breaks down the moment something goes in your ass, as that gendered/masculine expectation is already being transgressed and subverted.

for years, every time an ISO goes up for a strap-on girl.  I suggest just going with the real thing if they want to get fucked in the ass, and not one guy has ever given me a reason why it has to be a woman with a fake dick when there are TS providers that can supply them with the real experience.  

My ass is strictly exit only, but I have often wondered for those who like it, what is the difference between getting "pegged" by a female, or fucked by a TS?

thrusting angle for a woman.  If a guy want's a good ass-pounding with a thick 10-incher getting way up inside of him, why wouldn't he want the REAL DEAL?  Although, I heard they make dildo's now that recreate a creampie when loaded up with milk or cream, but I still have to think if that's what you're into, the real thing would be better.  I gotta support RiverS on this one.  

We're two drinks behind you here in California.  

I've never done it, so I wouldn't know. But don't you think it's possible guys aren't interested in synthesizing the feeling of a dick up their ass, and more in just stimulating their ass with a hard object to feel pleasure from a woman?  

Does that make be any less feminine? Um no. IMO ass play isn't gender specific. Some people dig it, others don't. Both genders have assholes,  but GGs are born with vaginas and genetically born males have penises. Those are gender specific sex organs.  

Everybody is at least two drinks behind me. No matter where they are.

I think you're onto something. I would have no desire to be given a HJ by a male provider, for instance, despite the fact that if closed my eyes I probably couldn't tell the difference. (Discounting for the moment things like scent and hand strength.) I want to have sex with women, not men/TS's.  

It's about what gender a person is attracted to *if*  they aren't bi sexual or, brace for it, gender fluid (don't puke GaG, lol).

REALLY? I know exactly what I am doing. Maybe most don't. It's offensive to imply others don't have a clue what we are doing.

that most heterosexual men aren't attracted to transsexuals. At least not as attracted as they are to regular girls, and not enough to have sex with them/pay for it.  

You said you've never done it doesn't mean shit because  you're just speculating. I'd like yo hear the reasons from a guy who HAS done it.

If each means shit, what's the difference? It's just the internet.

then making a whole other post apologizing for it?

I disagree.  I think most hetero men who are attracted to women don't want anything bigger than a finger up their back door (we all need our prostate exams whether we want to or not), and certainly not a device that is purposefully made to look like a man's dick, that is going to be strapped on in order to look like a dick and work like a dick. So this comes back to the the Op's question; if you want to be fucked in the ass by an exact replica of a dick, why not just use a real dick???

They put things in themselves designed to look and work like a dick, too. So why don't they just go get a real dick? Because they're lesbians, that's why.  

I SAID mine was a guess. You're trying to pass yours off as a legit explanation when you have no experience and don't know what you're talking about. I have a few guys like that who work for me.  They're called millennials, and like you, they talk a lot but don't know shit.

you'll see I said "so I wouldn't know." It was in the first sentence I typed. I was about as upfront about my ignorance as possible without putting it in the subject line.  

I'm from Generation X. Still, allow me to tell you to get back on your porch, grandpa.

with GG are being honest about whether they're enjoying anal play with a TS or even another guy for that matter. And while your sampling of experiences with men is much broader than mine, I also wouldn't assume you can speak for all men, like the 10s of thousands that don't post to TER or other boards where they might want their "privacy" protected.

And I used he word "some" not all.

Exactly how do you KNOW so much about the angle of penetration? 😉 And perhaps, and I guess I have to say my "guess" to be SAFE on the fuck board, the guy MIGHT want some pussy after their assfucking. Just sayin ... I mean guessin

or would I try to.  Stop being such a piss ant. Basically when you posted further down that some men want anal play/penetration, or whatever the hell. they want a pussy attached to it is what I was saying. Thanks so much for making my point.

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Maybe guys see it as foreplay before fucking. You've heard of foreplay, right. Of course, and to make y'all feel I'm not pontificating with more knowledge than the rest of y'all, I prefer anal play and the size and shape is secondary. It's foreplay with a GAL I trust who has the skills to satiate my spontaneous desires.
As you may know, I'm not a "scripted performance" kind of guy. I go with the flow and that would include anal play.  

Btw  
.. calling me a piss ant LMFAO very classy Steph. I'll try to be more careful when you're online. 💔

Now you are admitting you like a finger up your ass? Someone could easily turn that around and say what's the difference between a finger and a small finger sized dildo or dick?

I have not seen edit this post in the new format. I did report the post, but sometimes the mod is not waiting for me to screw up. Hence the apology. And now a whole thread on my mistake . lol

...so someone else can report it and get two free VIP days.

Honestly, I don't have fucking clue as to why some people like what they like, and I think everyone who has voiced an opinion speaks for at least "some" of the guys who want to get fucked in the ass, but I am positive that no one can speak for them all.

Yes, I think the biggest reason guys don't see TS is because although they might like a finger up there or to be pegged, he may very well want to lick and fuck the pussy and seeing that kitty turns him on. Not something offered by a TS.  

should have been deleted is still here with it's own branch.

It's the difference between having sex with a guy or a women... duhh You can use that example about almost any sexual act, hey why don't I just get a bbj from a TS instead of a women??? Because I don't want a TS mouth on my dick, it's the same thing.
I'm not judging for those who see a TS, I don't care what anyone else does, these are my reasons.

I can only hope you're threAD is all in jest.  
   
By your estimation of the procedure in question,  a lesbian Gal could  be as easily pleased with a man , his dick & tongue while closing her eyes, as with her lady lover and  her strap on.   ROFL...  Get the picture ?  

to being a one-girl-a-month hooker expert . . . . in Moose Turd, Minnesota of all places.  Like you're really going to learn anything there.  This "Grandpa" is fucking three or four different 30 yo girls a week.  You only wish you were in the shape I'm in.  

I can't speak for everyone, of course, but those who pointed out that some men like an extra kinky activity, but want a pussy to fuck for the main event, are right on the money.  Now in my case, I was actually starting to develop an interest in TS, but wasn't quite there yet.  I mentioned it to my ATF, and she suggested pegging.  So I went for it (and damn, did she ever get turned on and go buckwild riding my cock later), and once I was used to it, and more comfortable with the idea, then I took the TS plunge.  So to answer your question, River, you should be thankful that so many men are interested in pegging, because of certain percentage of them are later going to become your clients.  Don't worry about the ones that never go beyond pegging; no provider can get every single client, and no client can get every single provider.

At least I didn't get some long drawn out PM off topic message this time.  Notice I didn't share the details!

and one of mine was, I thought you were open to Trannies, weren't you one of "O's" staunchest supporters a while back? You were one of her clients, weren't you?

>>Get a grip on reality.  

women because I'm fucking 3-4 girls a week.  The vaginal opening is below the pubic bone, so women are used to thrusting upward, not outward as they would with a strap-on or dick.  The angle makes no difference to the guy getting ass-fucked.  

It only involves YOUR dick, not the other person's.  Its apples and oranges.

but maybe it's a way to both "fuck and be fucked" without doing a MMF?

You're such an douche ... lol. I'm beginning to think you need a date with the OP.  

Many want nothing to do with penetration.  Ask one.  Lesbian porn with a double dong is not the norm for Lesbians.  Its for men to watch and fantasize about.  Once again, you have no knowledge, so you're making shit up to try to look smart, but achieving just the opposite.  

a Doctor's finger for an annual digital prostate exam.  Nothing faggy about that.  Not doing it is more potentially dangerous than the discomfort of doing it.  

anyone who could put Asscalade in his place like she did was alright in my book.

As for the OP, don't know anything about him/her.

I might go for twice a year physicals if that's the new standard. lol

As I have been pegged and have seen Transgenders. Overall preference is for pussy. As far as men goes, no thanks, too masculine. Surprisingly enough, the most intense play for fee experience has been with a TS, now unfortunately for me she has retired. I wish her the best.

It is different, but the analogy I was going for might be expressed as "a hand is a hand," much like a dildo and a dick are both dick-shaped hard objects to stick up your butt.  

Many men want nothing to do with anal penetration. Just as there are male pegging enthusiasts, there are penetrative lesbians.  

you were buying a few beers for your fridge.  

If you're precise in your word usage in the first place, then you don't have to keep doing damage control because you're not being understood.  

>>There is not a specific label that can be attached for those who go down this route by choice.

an actual guy who has done this and is here commenting.  I hope Darmody gets down here to read this.  Then he can stick his "theories" up HIS ass.  I had a feeling that the experience would be more intense with a TS, as you say, but that still doesn't explain why a guy would want a strap-on over a T-Girl.  

Is there something you would like to tell us? lol

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I'm glad you could comprehend my use of "some" when I weighed in.  

It's just sex play but I would think for some there is a  conscious choice or preference for strap-on vs t-girl due to homophobic tendencies.  The t-girl of choice for me has to exhibit feminine qualities with hormone treatments physically changing them so they feel like a woman with the assumption they already think they are a woman. I've seen a cross dresser and that doesn't work for me. Again too masculine. Being pegged with a strap-on by a GG doesn't quite work as they can't seem to get the motion of the ocean quite right, the thrusting. Hence the TS route. I haven't played in this arena for some time now as the choices don't meet my criteria.  

the psychology of it all.  IBeCurious answered some of my questions about it.  With that said, I think you know what my POSITION is on this topic, and that position is upright, not bent over.  However, if that female Asian doctor wanted to massage a little semen out of my prostate again someday, I would spread my butt-cheeks for her.  

BUT MY FEELZ😩 Pretty much. 🙄

My straight guy friends who like me pegging them only like it because I am a female. They are horrified at the thought of playing out their fantasies with a guy or trans. One of my guy friends told me that he feels more comfortable with pegging because its just a fantasy for him. Obviously if he was into trans girls he go for them instead. Another guy friend says that he likes the transition of power and it isn't really about being with a guy or a trans but the fact that he is supposed to be a straight guy who abides by his gender role but allows me, a straight female to fuck him which in his eyes weakens his authority.

Having sex with a trans woman is an experience. Being pegged by a cis woman is another. No one has to choose, they're both out there and you can try and enjoy one, the other, or both.