the appointment? I always tell them I can just get a pre paid american express and its 25 per picture and I d pose in thier requested pose just for them for the picture request. Then do it.
                 Oddly enough actually the phone i use to take calls on is a trach phone and i just realized it doesnt even have a camera! oops. So much for that.
                I know for me i have a dated photo gallery with un edited cell phone photos {update monthly}As off right now there are un edited cell phone photos dated Nov 22, 2014.
                Then i just got glamour shots done and that gallery is up , its obviuosly not doctored up my imperfections like all the weight I have gained from being 4 months pregnant are there clear to see. They are obviuosly not overly , fake and overly flattering, they are very accurate . I still look great ! And am still working and having a great time too!
                        But last night a new customer whom i dont know from a hole in a wall. I was actuaqlly talking on my landline to a close friend of mine, But my work cell is in front of me, a text comes in, . The client whom i am not going to bother with now because when some one shows signs of being well, needing excessive time from me when its my oersonal life, and especially when I have no idea if they will even show, You dont want to spend over an hour with a new client you have no idea if they will even show.
               In my experience the ones that show to be requiring alot of your time and energy, they usually are also the ones that are pranking people and just wasting peoples time.
                      Another guy whom i have met once before, Several weeks ago he did the same, He booke days in advance for an 8 o clock on a sat,  
at ten of i begin recieving a text asking me to if I will, to send a pic of the outfit i will be in that night.
                My ad and web site had un edited accurate and dated cell phone photos, from only 3 days prior.
And again he was texting the track phone each text also cost money.
I also as usual was fiddling with eye lash glue and getting dressed, and running around , putting a fresh linen on bed and pillow case for him. I definetly wouldnt have been able to stop getting ready and start posing and taking pics on my personal cell, which is the one with the nice camera and it is an android however, i dont use that phone to talk to clients on, I do use it to EMAIL with clients though ! Even when out running errands or like at my first ultra sound other day in waiting room i was actually busy emailing with clients while waiting.
                           But this one guy asked for the photo, I didnt send one then  at twenty past 8 he texts to cancel. I was wondering if recieving a personally texted photo taken just for you,,,, is a deal breaker for some guys?
                         Today i am going for a second ultra sound by foot i dont have a car, and doin this stuff all on my own. I just think do the guys ever care that we have busy lives too? and that asking extra things like this is if you ask me I feel unless they want to make a deposit and pay me 25 , for each specially catering to you photo.
 I wont do it.
                   I havent even put on make up or sexy clothes since my last appt which was last sat!
So for some random young kid that MAY or MAY not get an appt tomorrow? To be textn me in my down time when i am in sweats and a 1980'S HEAD BAND LIKE A TOTAL DORK!
 bUT I DONT LIKE WITH HOLD THE "GOOD " PICS FROM YOU GUYS!
 I always put my most current and best and only photos up on ads and the galleries on the web site, I honestly dont have any other photos right now for people. I dont get where this request especially with out offering an incentive for me, I mean To go do all my make up and get in lingeraie on my day off, and do a shoot, I dont get it?
   do the guys fear we are not putting accurate dates on out photos?
    I cant see why unless they are looking to give the hpotos to a girl that they are dating that wants to steal them for her ads, Which happens to me alot, i have had my photos stolen many a time and found them on another ladies ads on weird sites. My photos right now are on like 15 sites i didnt even ever join, if you google my old phone numbers.  
                The other thing i was thinking is maybe its a neighbor or some one whom recognized face in ads and is treyin to gps the photo pcation to see if that is in fact me like they suspect.
                   Or is it just they think we have a back store of better quality photos we may be holding on too ?
 I know my laST PROFESSIONAL SHOOT HE GAVE ME BACK LIKE A FEW PICS AND EACH AND EVERY ONE IS ON THE SITE,  
              just want to hear from people about thier opinion on requesting we text you personal pics, In addition to all the effort for me i put alot of effort into updating my galleries And i DATE THEM, and I HAVE NOT ONLY CELL PHONE CANDIDS BUT PROFESSIONAL.  
            ??????  So what possess a guy to annoy us before even meeting? lol.....I know for me thats not the way to get a good oerformance, If I am spending time i am supposed to be spending on waxing, hair , french mani and oedi, doctors, therapist, family, friends, my pets, keeping my apt clean, not skipping work outs.
 i always notice the ones that try and take alot of my time before the appt even rolls around, I always end up being un prepared by the time the appt comes,  
but any hoo I never had good clients do this only annoying ones i end up not even meeting, but what is the deal with that?

He was inquiring about an appointment and asked for pictures to be sent to him. Never happened. Asked a couple other girls in the area too. Weirdo. Be careful and keep doing what you do! Who wouldn't want a personal photo of you? Not surprising but surely creepy.  

If I were in your shoes, this type of behavior would suggest a time waster at best, a needy, clingy, border line stalker at worst.

If I am worried that her pics are fake or photo shopped, I always reserve the right to turn right around at the door without leaving a dime If I felt I was being deceived,

What I am not entitled to, is making the lady run around and jump trough hoops trying to satisfy my curiosity. I think guys like this simply use the pics as "jerk off" material, and never plan on paying for a date in the first place. You are well rid of him and anyone like him IMO.

??????  So what possess a guy to annoy us before even meeting?  

I have bad news and worse news for you.

My moron is a mortal lock for overall SPOTY again this year, but neither of our morons is going to have a snowballs chance in hell on the P&R Board. A newcomer has shown up and in just a couple of months in DaffyDuck style of sheer volume of stupid posts, he has about lapped the field and the only way for him NOT to win is if maybe his mother takes away his computer privileges before Christmas.

While you're here check out the hundreds of posts by our newest and stupidest moron bigguy30 AKA fatgirl. He has made a few posts here, but on P&R he puts even the biggest blabbermouths to shame, even me. lol

I was hoping for the main character to fall in love with the antagonist though. Such tragic ending, I wish the ending was happier...

fine.  No need for anybody to be asking you to text photos of yourself.   The guy probably had cold feet and you not sending him a pic was as good an excuse as any for him to justify to himself not showing up.    

I never send other pictures,  mine represent me and anyone asking for pictures "to see if it's really me" is either too stupid to function or a timewaster. I have no time or patience for either, NEXT! Trying to figure out if it's me, just ask! You best have a good reason behind your inquiry.  Four years of dealing with skittish guys who don't know how to hobby and then call me after they've been burned before. Hey I'm willing to appease but I've got a life also. I don't sit around with my thumb where the sun don't shine staring at my phone! I know I've crushed some dreams, my bad.  

if he has other provider references or 3rd party verification, I will send him one

That would make it 7,345 dudes exactly

I trust Rod is reading all of these posts.

I had to embark on an expansive journey through the TER universe to meet with each gal and get this data.

Wish I was there.  Remember those shots I took of you a couple of years ago?  Remember the one you briefly put on your site?  It was a bit indiscreet, shall we say, and you took it right down.  I loved it.
All the best to you with the baby.

Life isn't fair...sorry  

could not believe she put that up and, yeah, it was gone quickly.

I still have my copy, I don't know about Angel. I wish to point out that I no longer have a gut and much less chest hair.

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I did ask a girl a long time ago if she would send me some pics before we met, I cannot really remember now exactly why I did that probably just wanted something to jack off to lol. I have not asked anyone else though some girls have just sent them to me on their own.

You really need to stop telling yourself this!  All you lost was a major headache and waste of your time. At this point the only time that matters is yours. Use it wisely, on those who actually come through without the three ring circus .  Your reviews are enough to say that you are represented or not. If they rather be swindled by somebody who knows how to share pictures of pretty girls (rather elementary IMO) then allow them to waste their time with someone else. This whole circle jerk I want no part of! Hope you feel better now. :3

who have no intention of setting up an appointment. So they call the ladies to get all excited. They might even set up a session with no intention of following through. I think guys who request a pic prior to a session fall into this category. Many do it to get off early. After doing so, no longer needing your services, they either cancel, or flake. If you send them a pic, they get all the more excited.  

Seems that the usual suspects don't use an alias.

ike I remember your gut or chest hair. All I saw was your dick in her mouth. Getting rid of a gut is easy. Not so much chest hair. Not that I have tried either. No gut and content with my chest hair.

I don't just screen for safety, I screen to see whether or not he is a gentleman. There are many clues and I can totally tell . Somehow it works. I just don't accept any time wasters and I can spot them right away.  
 the type of guy who goes through my screening in a respectful manner and in the way I ask would never be unprofessional or try to take advantage of me in any way.  He knows that my time has a price on it and he respects that, and himself.  Anyone less doesn't deserve my time or presence.
There are plenty of respectful gentlemen out there. I don't want to miss out on them because I'm wasting time with a time waster, lol

I don't think you've really lost that many appointments, because lots of dudes that ask for pics don't ever plan on making an appointment. So, you're doing the right thing by declining, don't worry!

On the other hand, a true gentleman, who is interested in meeting you, yet confused by your multiple ads, might respectfully ask for clarification. He's not a time waster, but truly wants to meet you, yet feel comfortable in your presence. However, your screening is so tight, there isn't room for respectful clarification. Such a gentleman, who was recently called a 'gem' by a high end lady because of his respectfulness, positive attitude, and dependability, may have gotten away from you. In certain instances, you might want to possibly reconsider one or two of your tight screening measures.  

i just went to agent provocateur yesterday i bought 2 new pairs of thigh highs a new g string. i couldnt afford anything else, i will pair them with a matching bra from the dollar store for now, I also got a 75 dollar custom air brish tan ! I am now going to go to a hotel and take new cell phone candids for a dec gallery.
               I am anal about nice and accurate phots but when they want me to messily hastily go snap a photo, to me its like i dont want un planed not sexy photos out there, i actually plan a new outfit and get dolled up, like to ask while i am trying to get ready to drop everything and go start posing, then texting.  
         Or worse book an appt then badger me with texts after booking even though appt isnt for over 24 hours!  
          I dont walk around dressed and looking like a doll {like i do for the appts@!} like in my every day life. I am about to be a single mom and I have a bunch of rescued pets i pay for thier vet care food and cleaning up after them ect.  
           it just made me feel so exploited and like disregarded, like I am not a person that ever changes out of false eyelashes and lacy lingeraie or has any hobbies of my own aside from sucking dicks i may be busied with in the free time i have aside from hooking.
             I had found myself fuming with anger after being treated like this over and over, so  thought I would post a topic on it.............................And sure enough even the more seasoned hoobyist like ga agreed its not cool to be asking a lady to jump through hoops before an appt. so i am glad i posted this and seen i am not in the wrong to have thought this seemed unreasonable.
                  My new december professional shoot is in 2 weeks, and a new candid shoot will be this month so additonal time soending dressing oike a slutty doll in lingeraie and make up, It can take me easily 2 hours to get dolled up for an appt. EASY.  so askin me to halt when rushing to get ready to start snappin candids and posing, or worse askin me to stop everythin and get dressed up and do a shoot on a day off. I was like my god, how rude!

they can take pics or see me when they are here, and i am busy in mean time! they have some form of consideration, yes,

week and this week i havent seen one customer yet! busy bein prego.........xo

Also, I didn't mean to say that a man who doesn't provide a work, provider, or p411 reference is not a gentleman. I just meant that one who does provide it probably is...if that makes sense...basically if he goes through my process, then I think he will be cool. And if he doesn't, that doesn't necessarily mean he's a bad guy, of course!