TER General Board

I could not agree more, that was my first thought!
SinCitySinner 65 Reviews 1496 reads
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I am all for new software updates.. Large and Small...  

However, most people have inertia when it comes to new software. They just don't embrace the look and feel and features like others do. Also, any new software has its share of defects, so things almost never go as smooth as planned. Most people just don't have patience for that is something I've noticed - and that seems to a be a bit pronounced in this field.  

I still remember when they moved away from the Original TER to next version (later renamed as Classic), which was then updated again in 2010. Every single time there was lot of fuss and angry guys and gals that just didn't like the change.  

I still have guys that I talk to on a regular basis that are clinging on to the Classic TER.

ThePeopleRule 1259 reads
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when you changed a few years ago, my first reaction was that I liked the old way....

and now I'm even older.

Signed,
Sometimes Newer Is Not Better
(e.g., Are Smart-Phone Users Smarter?)

JohnyComeAlready 508 reads
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Meh

-- Modified on 6/2/2015 11:46:12 AM

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 350 reads
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I am not overly for change but perhaps I may enjoy some new things. Willing to keep an open mind.

Posted By: London Rayne

ex 9 Reviews 326 reads
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6 / 244

It must be something great
if your calling it a revolution!!!

I hope the message boards and
email will be better... However
I really like the professional look
and layout right now, including the
colors used.  I'm excited to see
what TER thinks is a "Revolution"...

jc316 87 Reviews 214 reads
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7 / 244

This site has had a very positive change for me and I will be happy to share
feedback. Unlike less than 9/9 reviews you'll welcome constructive criticism!

NickyBarnes 527 reads
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8 / 244

From what I get the last version of the site is years old, A lot of advancements have been made in technology since then.

More than 50% of internet users are on tablets/mobile now, this didn't exist when this version launched

The same goes for Social Media, HTML 5 and a bunch of other techy shit.

A few old-times are going to bitch like always when anything changes but the quiet majority will be happy

Mona_Talbot See my TER Reviews 659 reads
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9 / 244

For the new TER to give providers the option to leave our profile active without allowing new reviews to be posted. Or a place on the profile where we can check yes/no as the whether we "prefer" to be reviewed.

Joy337769 See my TER Reviews 299 reads
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JohnyComeAlready 236 reads
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12 / 244

Who cares about the colors, as long as the photos show up in the colors they were posted in. Everything else can be in black and white.

1192967 45 Reviews 311 reads
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...of being reviewed on a review site what's the point? I don't see TER's policy against providers having a No Review policy going away.

I'm not saying you shouldn't be able to have a No Review policy but if you have one there is no need to be on TER.

 



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KissMyAxe 187 reads
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1192967 45 Reviews 226 reads
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...the review process. I hope those are addressed.  

I hope the unwritten rules get written down somewhere in this new version.

I'm looking forward to the changes.

I like the look of the header you have on the page here.

-- Modified on 6/2/2015 10:20:43 PM

Sculptor69 54 Reviews 157 reads
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I'd like to understand what the "revolution" is all about; and yes, I'd like to try it out.

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 186 reads
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i love to reveal new and exciting things..that is what this hobby is all about..

nom_de_plume 379 reads
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19 / 244

... a banner ad on every page, as a permanent feature.  

:)

JackDunphy 212 reads
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21 / 244

For a second, I thought you were going to tell us you were changing genders.

MojoRizon 232 reads
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22 / 244

I think you may have forgotten the purpose of this site, which is to....

drumroll please....

review escorts!

If you don't want reviews, then don't have a profile - period.

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 337 reads
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23 / 244

Going to agree with XYZ on this. Either all or nothing. Can't freeze your reviews and reep benefits.

Unless you are me, who uses TER mainly for fun.... there really is no need for TER to do you the favor and stop reviews and let them stand so you can enjoy them. And by me, I mean that I use TER for fun and wouldn't care if I had reviews up or not, it is a good outlet for me regardless. Most use it as an advertising site.  

Be one thing if you wanted to work with no reviews, quite another to use old ones as a reason for guys to see you without allowing updated reviews. I don't know you and am not saying this is you... but I could see gals asking for what you just did to make money and never have to answer via a bad review for anything they do after "freeze" time. How is that fair to those that can get reviews off their actions in the future?

We all got to answer for our actions via reviews and I don't think anyone else should be different unless you want zero reviews to work off of.

I don't even agree with the no review policy to begin with as I do feel we all got to answer to our reviewers.  
Posted By: xyz23
...of being reviewed on a review site what's the point? I don't see TER's policy against providers having a No Review policy going away.  
   
 I'm not saying you shouldn't be able to have a No Review policy but if you have one there is no need to be on TER.  
   
   
   
 

-- Modified on 6/2/2015 7:58:42 PM

RRO2610 51 Reviews 156 reads
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24 / 244

Loss of VIP credit for things like reviews and problem reports

russbbj 89 Reviews 114 reads
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Most of the ladies in here will not even know what those are, or what they're for.

Too funny, but then I'm a nerd, so.

in_vino_veritas 352 reads
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26 / 244

the death of you if the wife sneaks up behind you while you're perusing the site. It was bad enough with the small SuxVerify, oops, LuxVerify :), on the right, but that big banner up top on every page? I don't want to have to disable loading of all images in my browser. How messed up is that?

Drumsticks 90 Reviews 164 reads
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27 / 244

...conversational than the standard format that every other hobby board uses. It's nice to be able to respond directly beneath someone's post instead of the format where any new post automatically goes to the bottom of the thread. Remember a few years ago when TER went to that other primitive format? It was a disaster and it didn't take long before we returned to the normal and much easier to follow format. And...NO BUMPING of threads. A thread should die a natural death and fall off of page 1 in a matter of days, never to return unless someone posts a link to it in a new post.

I'm hoping you're giving us Avatarability...that would be so cool...and more emojis!!!   :D

discover99 24 Reviews 191 reads
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The whole point of the site is the reviews.

discover99 24 Reviews 206 reads
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If new revenue streams help keep the company running, i wouldnt care

NickyBarnes 503 reads
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30 / 244

I wonder how this addition to the siet will turn out

delete

Superstar! 384 reads
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AlexaV See my TER Reviews 134 reads
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CorbinCandor 184 reads
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ClaireGFE See my TER Reviews 190 reads
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Dear all,

I see here how the older gents could be intimidated by the new. No offense, really! In the past, "new" did not always mean "accessible" or "inviting". It often produced a quantitatively inaccessible new, but not improved system to have to grasp entirely. Nowadays, this is no longer the case.  

I say, LET 'ER RIP! If The Erotic Review is going to stay on top of the provider-networking game, it must improve. Both in capability and aesthetic. Unless they're working on something like a red book horror story all over again, "new" is almost always the equivalent of "improved" these days because the standards are so damn high! Take it from me, I'm a San Francisco girl *sigh*.  

With my redesigned website on the way, I for one am more eager than ever to accommodate the competitive and comprehensive trajectory in industries catering to the escort, masseuse, dominatrix and all else. WooHoo!  

Go Hoes!  

Love ya,
Claire

Superstar! 240 reads
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35 / 244

If we could delete one review per 20 or 50 or year or 5 years whatever number.  If someone says something really nasty or hurtful, I'm sure a lot of girls would appreciate throwing one out instead of it hanging around forever.

Nineguy919 17 Reviews 193 reads
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More than anything I really want TER to offer lifetime memberships. I am excited about the new site but I really hope lifetime membership is a new feature.

pleaseme 23 Reviews 254 reads
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With the new revolution and $2.25 and $260 to Anna you can get a cup of coffee at Starbucks and a blowjob from Anna

[
q
   
 We want

pleaseme 23 Reviews 147 reads
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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 230 reads
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I'm with xyz and alex here. TER is a review site. I have no problem with a lady having a no review policy, but I have a problem with a lady having a no review policy and using a review site for free advertising.

Posted By: Mona_Talbot
For the new TER to give providers the option to leave our profile active without allowing new reviews to be posted. Or a place on the profile where we can check yes/no as the whether we "prefer" to be reviewed.

itscheesewhiz 3 Reviews 236 reads
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42 / 244

Hoping the changes involve a search by state feature. Not all ATF live in one of the big cities and so it's rough finding em.

segarrajaime 29 Reviews 185 reads
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Will this be a 2015 or 2016 roll out?

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 147 reads
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I always enjoyed being involved when introducing new system upgrades at work, even if just as a tester.  Looking forward to it if I am selected.

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 106 reads
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That was my only real issue when the last upgrade was introduced, and once the tree format was restored, I quickly adapted.   So long, Classic version!

Todd43 21 Reviews 239 reads
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First, there are a ton of good ideas out there to change the site. Mostly all small stuff I bet. All important and all together will I am sure will make the site better. Good. But an adult still can't sit in the back of a $80K GMC Yukon Denali comfortably and GMC makes a LOT more money than TER, and have a ton more "process" people working on things. They still fucked it up and have even doubled down on the the mistake. They will wait until there is ANOTHER OPTION for all that truck in the bask seat and then they will make a move to change it. That is not revolutionary, that is big business being (smart) reactionary. So I am not holding my breath that TER has the balls to actually be revolutionary on this.  

So let's not use the word revolution unless we are willing to lay it all out like a revolutionary, OK? Let's ask the right question, first. Let's ask the big question, the solution for which could REALLY change things. The right question is how can we securely and with privacy let the cats chase the dogs (when the dogs want to be chased)? Now, THAT is the right question. All other considerations are small and normal by comparison. Because when cats are chasing dogs and dogs are still chasing cats, then all hell is gonna break lose. Well, I have the answer to the question that nobody is bold enough to ask. If TER does my answer, then and only then will they have set the world on it's ear. If not, then this is just an update. GET READY FOR AN UPDATE would be a better punch line. But I can't judge yet. When I hear "revolution" then I am expecting a real one. Let's see it.

TheOriginalFucker 175 reads
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48 / 244

Is it possible that you just don't want for bad reviews to appear? like 5/6's???

TheOriginalFucker 363 reads
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49 / 244

Yeah, it would be really good if TER at least could remove all your fake 10/10 and 9/9 bahahahaaa

TheOriginalFucker 362 reads
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50 / 244

True, we wouldn't want old names to come up and everyone to know who changed the names.... Let's hope TER will prevent that

Mona_Talbot See my TER Reviews 269 reads
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It's the "explicitness" of the reviews which cause my to cringe. I enjoy using the PO board and keeping up with and researching the local boards wherever I travel. You're correct, this is a review site. However speaking for my own reviews, having 10+ pages of reviews seems like a bit much. But then that's just my opinion. :))

Epsilon_Eridani 255 reads
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52 / 244

... that was one of Apple's biggest clusterfucks.  

Re: Just test test test TEST before releasing: anyone recall Apple Maps? E

Epsilon_Eridani 237 reads
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53 / 244

... care about YOUR opinion?

all I care about is what this new version of TER will be like and helping TER fix any issues that might come up during the testing phase.  

your opinions won't help with that part of it.
Posted By: London Rayne
Re: Hell yes lol! I always have an opinion, and you know this... MAN! E.

TheOriginalFucker 245 reads
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54 / 244

Same as your existence on TER...

TheOriginalFucker 218 reads
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55 / 244

Bahahaha, like yours would help, unless TER would need some lame lessons how to be a stalker... You poor poor old lonely stalker...

scoed 8 Reviews 153 reads
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I am curious yet cautious. TER had mad some great improvements in my time here like a review alias as an example. And some real bone headed ones as well like the time they brought back the old reviews of retired providers that they wisely later pulled. I am wondering which this is. Most likely it will be like moving from classic TER to current TER, mostly the same stuff with a different colors.

hbyist+truth=;( 279 reads
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58 / 244

Why put an image of what seems a tortured female ripping off her fishnets? Could you not have put a woman at least somewhat happy about being a hooker...laying on a bed bathing in money or a hooker at the very least smiling? Why perpetuate the fallen woman or someone who looks like she might have been forced to fuck old man.

Never ceases to amaze me the portrayal by our own. Oh well an image says more than words ever could ...well done TER.

travbiz 27 Reviews 209 reads
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59 / 244

Some basics I'd like to see changed:

Search - some things should be searchable for multiple values - take "build" for example.  Maybe I like skinny and athletic women.  Many fields are like this.

I'm all for getting reviews from the ladies.  If nothing else, something more than the whitelist as it clearly isn't sufficient (why would p411 exist otherwise)

There are probably some fields on the profile you can rid of to make the display cleaner - like phone type?  Does anyone care?

If you want to get rid of fake reviews, do what airbnb and homeaway do - make TER a way to "book" my date.  If I do, I will be allowed to put up a review with minimal validation needed.  So good or bad, at least the date happened.  These can be separated out in the reviews, just like Amazon Verified purchases.

SCBodyRub 13 Reviews 174 reads
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60 / 244

then maybe request they limit reviews 3 pages or some random number. That way only the most recent ones show up... How a publicly listing the most recent three pages, then have a LOOK AT OLDER reviews button... Or a TER PROVIDER SINCE 1967 banner under the TER ID number... (Random year put in above, not to say there might not be someone here that has been around since then)

HarryWotton 11 Reviews 194 reads
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Very unattractive, almost disturbing photo depiction, fucking horrible.  I  hope this is not representative of the "improvements."

GiantBombing 196 reads
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Posted By: SCBodyRub
then maybe request they limit reviews 3 pages or some random number. That way only the most recent ones show up... How a publicly listing the most recent three pages, then have a LOOK AT OLDER reviews button... Or a TER PROVIDER SINCE 1967 banner under the TER ID number... (Random year put in above, not to say there might not be someone here that has been around since then).  
   
 
There is a provider that has 'Est. 1814' featured prominently at the top of her site.

...Is the implication there that she's been an escort for 201 years, or she's 201 years old?

Sexy Carolina See my TER Reviews 306 reads
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63 / 244

Yes smart phone users are smarter
Because we use tools that are available that make our daily tasks faster and less complicate

numpty88 14 Reviews 236 reads
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To me it was a young woman discovering she has the power to change her wardrobe, and cast off the fishnet stockings society has expected her to wear.

It's an image of empowerment and change, by someone who's not sure where it will lead but open to finding out.

But what do I know, most art still confuses the heck out of me.  I'm the guy who goes through most museums looking at the architecture and how things work!  I've seen many of the world's masterpieces, yet remain more fascinated by Roman aqueducts that are still in use today.

lendavid 95 Reviews 296 reads
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I would not be a fan of that I must be Discreet

GaGambler 201 reads
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67 / 244

I imagine it's quite relevant to them to keep the database as large as possible. For us however, I don't see much purpose in reviews much older than a couple of years, certainly reviews from a decade ago are hardly relevant to anyone

freebore 80 Reviews 193 reads
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68 / 244

...for making TER the largest adult entertainment community on the internet!"

So when something is working great we need to change it, right? Sure, that makes sense.

JohnyComeAlready 148 reads
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70 / 244

I feel the imagery is unnecessary.

For some reason the woman looks Asian to me.
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
Why put an image of what seems a tortured female ripping off her fishnets? Could you not have put a woman at least somewhat happy about being a hooker...laying on a bed bathing in money or a hooker at the very least smiling? Why perpetuate the fallen woman or someone who looks like she might have been forced to fuck old man.  
   
 Never ceases to amaze me the portrayal by our own. Oh well an image says more than words ever could ...well done TER.
-- Modified on 6/3/2015 3:56:20 AM

GaGambler 202 reads
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71 / 244

and after reading your post and checking out your reviews I have had a 180 degree change of heart about keeping old reviews.

I think that pages of mediocre reviews followed by a huge gap of time, followed again by page after page of 10-10 reviews is VERY relevant. I find it amazing that a woman who was getting sixes in appearance 12 years ago has somehow managed to turn herself into a 10. The performance numbers are one thing, I can see how a lady could "step up her game" and increase her performance scores, but a twenty something "6" who is now a thirty something "10" is quite a different story, and I think deleting those old reviews would be doing the members here a huge disservice.

as for using TER as an ad platform, but opting out of being reviewed here is a no brainer, I concur with the consensus  here that not only is that NEVER going to happen, but that it should not ever happen either.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 219 reads
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For someone who does not care about what I have to say, you sure do STALK my every post lol. Thanks for playing... again.

electr0nsrealm 45 Reviews 147 reads
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eztrick 29 Reviews 158 reads
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I  hope in include the ability to filter DIY massage providers in Mpls.  If I wanted to do it myself, why pay her?!

hbyist+truth=;( 234 reads
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So now when TER is referenced this is what they will see. As if we are not linked with trafficking and forced hooking already.  

We need to be showing the women in a much more positive light OR is this how TER really sees us? I know it is a fuck board for men but this is sad, really, really sad.  Fucking deplorable if that is the case.

hbyist+truth=;( 159 reads
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AND it looks like she is sitting in a black hole of despair. I am very visual and images tell more than words to me.

Alexandra Kole See my TER Reviews 203 reads
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ahahaha! He tried to say on the Ohio board in response to me that he was never blacklisted...
 

Posted By: London Rayne
For someone who does not care about what I have to say, you sure do STALK my every post lol. Thanks for playing... again.

Alexandra Kole See my TER Reviews 251 reads
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You want to be discreet, yet you've reviewed 47 different women detailing illegal sex acts you've had...makes perfect sense.

Posted By: lendavid
I would not be a fan of that I must be Discreet

Alexandra Kole See my TER Reviews 244 reads
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80 / 244

From a looks/performance perspective, not at all called for or fair to the guys, however, from a safety/hygiene perspective, why not? That would actually speed up the screening process!

It would also, in my opinion, cut down on the fake or unwarranted nasty review wording. Because the fakers know they're going to have the other side posted too.
 
Posted By: NickyBarnes
I wonder how this addition to the siet will turn out
-- Modified on 6/3/2015 12:46:35 PM

electr0nsrealm 45 Reviews 177 reads
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81 / 244

Now that's a revolution I can get behind!

I mean "get behind" as in support...

Get your mind out of the gutter, people.  Geez.
 
Posted By: Drumsticks

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 153 reads
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HarryWotton 11 Reviews 156 reads
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83 / 244

I know that they probably did not mean it that way consciously but the subconscious can speak volumes.   To top it off, now I have that banner up there where it can be seen if I open the site at work, brilliant all around!

SCBodyRub 13 Reviews 300 reads
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So, let's see, an iPhone and Android TER App. Automatically transfer funds into providers accounts (anonymously of course).

It will call you when a new provider is in town and will tell whomever answers that info.

It will alert you when one of your favorites is within "x" number of miles of you based on GPS coordinates.

Automatically notify you of your appointments.

At the end of your booked appointment, it will open up a review tab.

Automatically make appointment confirmations and send out alerts when one or the other of you don't respond.

Automatically turn off phone's GPS when within 30 minutes of appointment

scoed 8 Reviews 207 reads
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I do give a fuck about them announcing exactly how much of a issue I sometimes have down there. I will not ever see a lady on a site that the ladies review and there is any form of sexual detail allowed. I will give the hobby up first. I am not selling a service so unless I harm someone somehow I shouldn't be reviewed.

GaGambler 160 reads
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but what I do have a problem with is being reviewed about "how good a customer" I am. Fuck that. I am paying, unless as you say, I am a danger to providers, I am not going to compete to be a better customer.

Any woman that I find is reviewing customers will immediately go on my "must miss" list on general principals of "discouraging bad behavior" I am sure there are plenty of BSUs who would love to compete on who can be the "very best customer", but count me the fuck out.

I was going to say that there a plenty of manginas that would welcome this, but even the king of manginas has just come out condemning the policy, so I guess it's only the BSU's who support it. lol

Mona_Talbot See my TER Reviews 167 reads
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I never posted anything about "removing" reviews, however the option to "prefer" not to be reviewed would be nice.  

10+ years ago I was NOT GFE and answered the door in a towel. I should have never been in the hobby as I didn't take it seriously. Now I take it very seriously and enjoy every minute of it. I'm also 41 this year, maturity can say a great deal about how we approach relationships- hobby & real life

NYGrumpy 214 reads
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88 / 244
AZCandy See my TER Reviews 122 reads
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89 / 244

Change is the only thing constant!

TER is here to help our community stay safe and protected as a priority and that is a major undertaking...thank you TER!!!

I am partial to chat room, messenger and social media for more community connections.

Yes, tablets, smartphones and lap tops have all upgraded and TER should too to stay in the forefront of technology.  

It's true that you can't please everyone all the time.  As long as TER keeps the protection of its huge community in front of greed everything should be ok in the long run.

let's not think of it as change let's think of it as an upgrade!!!

So when will this upgrade take place???

I For one am VERY excited and Impatient.

Kudos for TER!

Just my opinion of course.

Candy Cane
Xoxoxoxoxoxox

squire4040 54 Reviews 175 reads
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Hi Devin.

Long time admirer of your razor sharp wit on the NY regional board.

Personally, I would vote to leave them notwithstanding their limited relevance.  It can be useful to get a sense of how long someone has been around (although I recognize that this is by no stretch of the imagination a precise measure of anything given a lot of factors).  While the upside of keeping them seems very limited, what is the downside of keeping them? Let each person decide how far back he or she wants to look

AFICIONADO13 229 reads
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I am 50lbs overweight in which I tell every new provider I book with. I don’t have a big dick. Probably terrible in bed compared to other clients she has seen. Sometimes I only last 3 minutes and only a one pop guy.  Out of all my bookings I have never been turned down because of this or been refused a repeat appointment. Sure it may happen on day but I rather be told we are not going to click than spend my money and be disappointed.  

Of course something like this could be used for evil. A provider gets a bad review then post a review that the guy was smelly had genital warts ect. Just for revenge. Of course this could be done right now without the guy review.  

Being clean and respectful is key. If every provider screened for male models with huge dicks and 10 in performance well I am sure a lot of them would be out of business

hbyist+truth=;( 255 reads
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Your prowess is not a concern unless you use your dick to hurt a woman. I have not seen this feature as has possibly no-one else so I am going to guess that THE ONLY THINGS a hooker need to know is cleanliness, a time waster, shorts or not, rough or not and respectful to name a few qualities that clearly has nothing to do with how your dick functions or not.  

How many times does it have to be said on here...those are the things that matter NOT how you fuck, unless it is painful or rough (some actually like that) and your looks are of no consequence to a large percentage of hookers as well.  

Safety and the ability to deal and do a great job are more on a hookers mind that if she gets off or if the guy is hot.  

No, hookers are not buying and tricks are not selling HOWEVER how a trick is, his cleanliness etc. directly impacts whether a hooker feels safe and wants to book a guy. A restaurant does not have to screen it's customers for safety and cleanliness (well they can refuse service and ask a filthy person to leave the premises) and worry about whether the waiters have clean dicks and asses.

I think that if TER has added this a hooker possibly has drop downs to choose certain things from and there might not even be a "details " section. Let's all wait and see.

hbyist+truth=;( 145 reads
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hbyist+truth=;( 167 reads
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Possibly the same guys who want hookers to post face images all the while they are hidden doing their illegal soliciting.

GaGambler 210 reads
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95 / 244

but nothing as stupid as adding a feature that not only allowed, but encouraged hookers to rate their client on anything but safety.

Guys would be leaving this site by droves if TER ever did anything even close to being THAT stupid, and the fact of the matter is, TER already knows this. It's been the overwhelming opinion voiced everytime the subject comes up. TER knows who pays the bills around here and they are not possibly dumb enough to chase off that many paying customers.

But if they are that stupid.......

I would cancel my VIP here IMMEDIATELY

1192967 45 Reviews 144 reads
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96 / 244

...them. It is what it is. I didn't see it the way you did. I like the look of the photo though not the photo itself. However I just don't see all the gloom and doom you see.

hbyist+truth=;( 192 reads
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97 / 244

And do you really think TER is going to give the hookers ammo to hurt the guys?  

I would advocate drop downs for the most important things relevant to safety and health and attitude. The details may or may not be available but for instance here's a sample of what I might write.

" Being a hooker that likes the more gentle approach, Client 11 was perfect, gentle, respectful, clean and respected my physical boundaries. Arrived on time, no issue with the donation and a friendly, likable attitude. Would safely recommend this guy in a reference.

JohnyComeAlready 94 reads
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99 / 244

I didn't like the red bra image, there is no reason that this site should be recognizable by on lookers.

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 182 reads
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100 / 244

I wouldn't review a guy.  

If I did, I would be viewed as a kissass for giving him a great review (whether he really earned it or I am being nice to keep the guy coming back)

or... if I said something mean, it would bite me in the butt (from him and also anyone that sees the review and think I am being hateful)

So although I would love to read the reviews of guys, I am not doing that. I see nothing good coming out of it. That's why us ladies call the references and ask about him.

Much like many gals avoid the guys who can't ever leave a nice review (or even a decent one), guys aren't going to flock to see a gal who has too many bad reviews of the guys.
Posted By: GaGambler
but nothing as stupid as adding a feature that not only allowed, but encouraged hookers to rate their client on anything but safety.  

Guys would be leaving this site by droves if TER ever did anything even close to being THAT stupid, and the fact of the matter is, TER already knows this. It's been the overwhelming opinion voiced everytime the subject comes up. TER knows who pays the bills around here and they are not possibly dumb enough to chase off that many paying customers.

But if they are that stupid.......

I would cancel my VIP here IMMEDIATELY

JohnyComeAlready 168 reads
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I see you were caught with your foot in your mouth. :-D

JohnyComeAlready 148 reads
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...but you guys crack me up, because you all are so adamant over something that is not likely to happen.

I would lose no slerp over such a revelation.

hbyist+truth=;( 205 reads
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And safety is all I am worried about. Safety covers a lot of things, health safety, size safety (dick size) attitude safety , cleanliness safety.

Nothing to do with his looks or his lack of sexual prowess...I would say a huge percentage of ladies know this and realize that if a guy is good looking and great in the sack she has hit THE diamond in the rough.

I expect unattractive and not my type in the sack. That is what I get paid for.

rrasha88 See my TER Reviews 108 reads
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The image showing the tearing the stockings is just playing off the word “Reveal” in the headline.

hbyist+truth=;( 198 reads
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Hardly any lady wants to give details. I ask specific questions and I would say 25% of the time they get answered. A lot matters to me as to whether I will see a guy. Some hookers could care less

hbyist+truth=;( 105 reads
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Hey not my site and I am not on here so just one hookers immediate opinion.

GaGambler 156 reads
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I also agree that reviews from women that leave only great reviews would be meaningless, and that "hard graders" would find themselves without any customers, and then there are guys like me who would refuse to see any woman that reviews, without any regard to whether she is a hard or easy grader.

1705218 10 Reviews 250 reads
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Doesn't that imply that someone is revolting? As an old fart who still hasn't figured out all the ins and outs of the current it may be annoying but if you are  responsive to problem emails, I'll still stick with you.

DrivenHarder 13 Reviews 159 reads
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I haven't seen or experienced it yet but I most definitely hope that if you're going with a pre-loaded hashtag and the strong statement of revolutionary that you acknowledge you're setting an expectation and had best deliver.

But that's an empty threat... A few thoughts:

People will bitch and moan about change. The slightest of changes to experiences people are use to will garner strong response. If you're changes are based on metrics the long tail will win.

-So, I hope your changes are based on metrics that you've been monitoring that result in increased engagement and opportunities towards innovation for the betterment of the "hobby", not just your bottom dollar.

-That the design will be responsive as mobile devices far out number desktop

-That you'll have evolved the experience for all categories of end users to grow the community in regards to the values of ease of use, security, and fun.  

-Selfishly, I want stronger opportunities for visuals of the providers so we don't have to rely on their shitty website designs that aren't responsive and get pay walls to see galleries.  

-Evolution to validation. Hope you aim to compete with the likes of P411.  

I look forward to bitching about your new site. :-D

Here's to evolution for the better. Cheers!

1192967 45 Reviews 137 reads
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...on a discussion board. The only one with hoof and mouth disease here is you.

1192967 45 Reviews 122 reads
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"Plenty of sexier and brighter ways to "reveal"."   On that we agree.

KissMyAxe 132 reads
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...and I actually think the photo is sound and the right match for the punch line. Its transmits something about to be uncovered in a exciting way...

JohnyComeAlready 137 reads
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You even "modified" your post after you realized you sounded whiny.

skarphedin 105 reads
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SirWilliam00 16 Reviews 149 reads
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Posted By: scoed
I do give a fuck about them announcing exactly how much of a issue I sometimes have down there.
The way I see it, I *do* want them to know if I have issues, especially sexual ones.  As I age my ability to do multiple shots an hour is pretty much gone.  Due to the nature of our activities here we can't discuss sexual matters or preferences ahead of time, so I can't say upfront I'd like to go slow for a while and ramp it up at the end, and it spoils the mood to be in the heat of things and say "we've only got one shot at this".

Provider reviews of clients would let them have a peak into what other providers thought I enjoyed, or prepare a plan ahead of time for how to manage our time best given what I'm capable of.

My ideal form of this would be a kind of online sexual profile that providers could add notes to for each other.  I don't know that's quite what we'll get but it would be closer than what we have now where the provider knows very little about you before you meet.
I will not ever see a lady on a site that the ladies review and there is any form of sexual detail allowed. I will give the hobby up first. I am not selling a service so unless I harm someone somehow I shouldn't be reviewed.
Here's the thing though, if you don't want others to see your reviews you never need to give them your TER handle, you cna just read reviews and go through standard screening (or se a different service for the screening part)

%) 96 reads
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nicolet 175 reads
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I can't wait to see the new site!

Pavliena See my TER Reviews 229 reads
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If you have a fixed mind-set, you believe that we are each born with fixed intelligence and abilities and that our personal efforts have relatively little impact on those abilities. However, if you possess a growth mind-set, you believe that our intelligence and abilities can grow and improve over time through personal efforts and CHANGE

To stay young and in mind and in body - you always have to be ready embrace new and accept adjust and benefit from the change.

It is simply sigh of being youthful..

I LOVE that there  even idea about new TER!!! We are alive and we are moving not seating or laying down and resting out mind and body ..
 Any..

It be fun:)

Love,
 
There you go !!!
 TER .. to NEW T

hibknobadob 145 reads
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LEAVE TER ALONE.

TER is one of the few sites left on the 'net that hasn't embraced 2.0 (or 3.0) web development (thank god).

TER is lightweight, simple and fast. Leave it the hell alone. God knows what kind of cumbersome nonsense mgt will introduce.  

TER is perfectly fine. Say it with me. TER IS PERFECTLY FINE.  

Don't turn into Google, changing shit for the sake of changing shit.

Pavliena See my TER Reviews 92 reads
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why then to be TER member if not reviews to be allowed ?

Let me  to share with you my way of thinking- I think many ladies and many nice gentlemen would agree  

First of all - TER is the place where people come to meet each other and be sure that people we are meeting here  are  real and safe.

We do not come here for reading of all juicy details - my clients admit they even never made not to reading all juicy details  

I would not read about other woman as well ..

As well i do not want other lady to be able to red about me
 It is simple privacy.

I think that new TER need to be  the next level for those established ladies and clients ..
 may be new once still need to earn some creditability with reviews.
 But it is nice to have  intimate place to meet nice intimate private gentlemen who have high standards and  may feel a bit uncomfy to be obligated to write review or to be asked for one..  as well as to bring out to public eyes private time

Why it is hard to believe that  for many many many nice men juicy details as well as  open porno pictures do nothing? and rather would be repulsive then enticing and motivating?

So all what we need to know -  ladies and gentlemen are legit and safe  ..  leaving private details behind the close doors.
 
It is simply calls to be discreet ..

I would choose now  this option - not to be reviewed , yet i want to be KNOWN .

But of course for new members .. may be review policy should be kept to lets say 10 reviews?  
Just  to be sure person is real?

Do not know .. but it is my thinking .

1192967 45 Reviews 77 reads
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Sancho2 13 Reviews 74 reads
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That's just great TER, like I need another thing on the internet related to tits, ass, and sex to waste my time with. Now you can just forget about my figuring out how to make spaceships go faster then the speed of light like I was going to. Hope your happy.

hbyist+truth=;( 71 reads
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bigguy762001 11 Reviews 97 reads
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Excited to see the changes! Hopefully a more modern and fully functional mobile experience..

Todd82 8 Reviews 111 reads
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When I first read the e-mail saying TER became the largest in this industry, my thought was that we needed to be more cautious. The leader of this industry will always be the #1 target for LEO. No good. I hope TER can take serous actions to enhance the security and protection of users' information.

drjhorn 124 Reviews 89 reads
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New software, hmmmm, I have been down this road many times in the past 25 years working in industries which have tried to reinvent the wheel.  For the most part the changes were made as absolute changes and the systems failed miserably.  One changed from DOS to windows which should have been an improvement but the people they hired to administer the system had little knowledge of the intricacies of the system and their best answer most of the time to a fix was "I don't know".  I hope that the people that are upgrading the software are proven in their knowledge of the capabilities and fixabilities of the software and are not some scalawags who sell a bright picture but when the mortar tween the bricks start falling out they run for the nearest exits.  Now you may understand why some people are resistant to change--especially when they have witnessed what change can do!

tnt14 12 Reviews 110 reads
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Yes I would like to take a look and provide my thoughts....

tanj07 14 Reviews 86 reads
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I would love to test it out.

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 85 reads
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It's use as an advertising platform for ladies, and even these commentary boards, are secondary features.  As a hobbyist, I need to know what to expect before laying down my hard earned $ from my fellow hobbyists, and reviews have proven to be pretty reliable over the years.  It's the most important feature here.

If you are uncomfortable with having reviews posted, why not just ask your clients to refrain?  Most of us won't if you ladies so request.

oargerela 110 Reviews 109 reads
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My input/suggestion. I like to see at My TER...

THE BEST WRITTEN REVIEW OF THE MONTH objectively selected by the Review Board and publish front page on News of TER. Instead of the poll.

And the Reviewer and the Reviewed will be rewarded of some kind of additional points..To tweak or challenge the reviewer the most erotic essays or novels solely for entertainment..

And also automatically publish in Social Media at #TheNewEroticReview @BestReview...Twiiter,Facebook,Instagram etc,etc...

 

 
-- Modified on 6/3/2015 11:55:31 PM

-- Modified on 6/4/2015 12:09:15 AM

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 91 reads
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Sure old reviews might not be relevant, but folks can read back as far as they want. While I wouldn't decide to see a lady or not see her based on 12 year old reviews, I enjoy reading old reviews just for history sake. After all, I am known as the archivist, so why would I want any old information to disappear? :)

Pavliena See my TER Reviews 90 reads
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we say it something like that - let me try to translate '
" What kind of Jewish boy does not dream to make a revolution"
Wink wink ..::))I guess I know now a bit more .

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 81 reads
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A lady rolling around bathing in cash would not be suitable.  But I do agree with you that image currently displayed could be more warm and positive, while still preserving an air of mystery and understated elegance, with a dash of decadence, that our game has when it's at it's best.  This is a naughty indulgence, after all...

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 80 reads
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If there are false ones on your profile, you can contact Admin., and have them removed if they agree.  It should not be at the discretion of providers to remove reviews they don't like but are true.  The site becomes useless if so.

newsunnn See my TER Reviews 97 reads
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Hi im rachel an illinois provider..that is a really good idea! I can imagine how that would make a married man or family mans ter browsing more limited and restricted. Some of these ideas people are coming up with im confused if they are real changes ,potentially possible changes ,or just something they thought up or agree would be a good idea with some of the other members. I understand yours is just an idea you came up with...but a darn genius idea if you ask me. I wonder if theres a place where people can individually list some of their idea(s) they have for the new site..this would be an excellent way towards the site making everyone a part of making the modifications we choose as a community rather than the modifications that only the company itself sees fit.If they are/ were to make Such efforts in acquiring or eventually achieving these brilliant ideas we have then I truly believe that would be our best bet at enabling ter to reach its absolute potential..But we shall see ..either way I'm sure thats what they are  looking to achieve with or without the members input . Id really like help with a step in that direction if there is any more time to make suggestions for the new site.Sorry in rambling..but this really had me thinking  Because really thinking about it if I were a guy I'd much much rather have my wife catch me on a porn website then to have her drawn in by the erotic image thats on every page on TER  right now, and then of course ultimately leading to her doing some further investigating!

xxxkathywillets See my TER Reviews 151 reads
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Keep it like it is, it's tried and true, changes colors if you want, change graphics, otherwise leave it alone, what?  You have competition?  Are they breathing down your neck?

Are you losing people to this "phantom" entity ?  I am still on the Classic, I don't have time in my busy life, to try and figure out some new fangled contraption.  Hell, I don't even have, OR need, a smart phone.

If you can't handle your life without a smart phone, then you're relying too much on gadgets, and not brain power.

2444737 15 Reviews 164 reads
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Another site removed their "ads" section, the TER ads area has been very helpful for me.  
Please try and keep that area

2236707 3 Reviews 218 reads
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I did NOT request to preview the new website, yet this morning my login to TER was delayed by a grandiose notification that due to "my" request I will be one of the "few members to exclusively try" it out. Hey good luck with the new format and I hope it benefits us all, but don't suck me into your disingenuous marketing.

wwayne 45 Reviews 118 reads
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Another review site died last year because of a major overhaul. If you change appearance... GOOD. If you change policy ... BAD. I am eager to preview.

GaGambler 124 reads
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IMO Paid advertising for hookers here will equal "promoting prostitution" in the eyes of Uncle Leo. Just because the servers are all over there in Tulip Land doesn't mean that the long arm of the US law can't reach over there and touch someone.

Truck21 24 Reviews 179 reads
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DeliciousRaspberry See my TER Reviews 132 reads
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U may want to rethink the #NewTER  hash tag as it's associated with Newt Gingrich research...  

Bummer

Maybe you can change it for #NewTheEroticReview ???

GiantBombing 76 reads
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Posted By: oargerela
My input/suggestion. I like to see at My TER...  
   
 THE BEST WRITTEN REVIEW OF THE MONTH objectively selected by the Review Board and publish front page on News of TER. Instead of the poll.  
   
 And the Reviewer and the Reviewed will be rewarded of some kind of additional points..To tweak or challenge the reviewer the most erotic essays or novels solely for entertainment..  
   
 And also automatically publish in Social Media at #TheNewEroticReview @BestReview...Twiiter,Facebook,Instagram etc,etc...
Never going to happen. Admin is already reading thousands of reviews a day, never mind a month, do you honestly think they want to go and read through any of them again just to determine which is best? Now, if the men and women here wanted to hold their own competition, that would be a different kettle of fish - but there's no way admin's going to do this.

If you worked in a sausage factory, would you want to go home to a dinner of yet even more fucking sausages?

scoed 8 Reviews 79 reads
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It is more than ED I am worried about. I announce that to the world. I have severe ED. I also have a real small penis that is 4.5 inches long with a loss of 1 inch do to fat leaving 3.5 to play with and I only have a diameter of 2.5 inches. Yes, I have a damn limp golf pencil for a pines. It often take 45 to an hour and a half to get me off. I need a HJ to get there and often I must call no joy. I cum only about 25% of the time. Half the time I fail to get hard enough to play. Now the ladies are warned I am a lot of work. That isn't what I worry about getting out, but it is related.

Look I am known. My hobbying isn't exactly secret. But life happens and some things are not for public knowledge. Something that a sex worker would likely figure out. And for the provider knowing about me, well given I use my real name and my P411 has my issues or enough so providers can see what they are getting into by seeing me. It does nothing but put my privacy at risk. There are somethings I am ashamed of. You just wouldn't get it.

If TER does this. I will end my account not just my VIP but all of it. I will not see any lady that I have not already seen that has a membership here. It is just to risky. Good news is I have excellent reason to believe provider reviews are not coming. For that I heartily thank TER. It will hurt men and ladies alike.

Now it TER wants they can add a blacklist. Ladies do need to warn each other of the bad apples out there. Now that is an idea.

rawvet 10 Reviews 80 reads
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We need to be open about the changes and not negative give everything a try and chance  
then make up your mind.

citizen59 39 Reviews 62 reads
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Provider's Appearance should permit multiple values

scoed 8 Reviews 98 reads
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I have not hid my dick don't work. Do you honestly think that that was my big worry?  

I am all for keeping the ladies safe. If TER wants a blacklist I would support it. I want the ladies to feel comfortable with me. I give my real name five references and my P411 account info if she is a member there so she can look me up and have recourse should I be dangerous in some way. And the degree of my physical issues is minus a few details is on my P411 profile. I am not trying to spring the fact I am hard work on anyone.

And think for a second. If you call out a client in a review more than once or twice, how many men would see you? Few I would guess. Only the truly clueless. Many men would avoid you if you review at all. I would. Hell I would avoid you for even belonging to a site that allowed me to be reviewed. And if you are always posting good reviews well you lose all credibility with your fellow sex workers that you need to stay safe. It is a lose lose.

Now if TER wants to up its whitelist so it has a pull down that included basic attitude, cleanliness, and safety ratings and add a blacklist for those that are a threat that is fine. Sex workers leaving comments is a real no go for me and would make this site a risk in my eyes I just could not afford even more so if non sex workers seen it.  

Not all you ladies are discrete. Part of what I pay for is discretion. Reviews aren't discrete. I had a lady talk about my issue that I am ashamed of already to a client of hers I somewhat knew. He gave me a heads up. If she told the wrong person and that person told others in my personal life, my real life, well it wouldn't be good. A public review from a woman that lacks discretion would guarantee the wrong people would know. I would give up the hobby first

victoria_wilde See my TER Reviews 94 reads
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Thank you TER for being the best, most reliable service for providers & clients. Thank you for the opportunity to be part of your new reveal. I think it is awesome of TER to value both provider & client opinions in your new endeavor. I look forward to being part of the TER Revolution!!

Wishing you the best of luck & much success.

Fondly,

XO Victoria Wilde  
TER ID: 129502

scoed 8 Reviews 91 reads
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If she isn't taking in private she differently will not on a review where she has lots to lose. So these reviews will help you have given ladies can't afford to give negative details if she wants clients exactly how?

Good news I have every reason reviews of clients aren't coming and that makes me happy.

ExecutiveCompanionsAtlanta See Agency Profile 69 reads
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Not sure what it is though

smallsteps 4 Reviews 97 reads
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Although those are a part of how I decide who to see; most of my decision goes into viewing her profile and website, if she has one.  And then, after first contact, how she communicates with me is VERY important.   Her reviews and "scores", since being from a third party, are then meaningless to me.    

I realize that TER is a review site, but that is only a small part of what it actually provides for ALL of us.

Lastly, and most importantly, don't forget that without all of the lovely providers out there, TER would not even exist.   It's the ladies who are mostly impacted by this site, and have the most to gain or loose.

WildJimmy! 91 reads
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Even if the format for discussion boards change slightly, it might be harder to follow who's responding to who.
We know where to go to check our mail, our favorites, new reviews, etc. Will the new layout change so that the first week consists mostly of relearning how to navigate the site? And will the payoff include more information made possible by providers being able to easily add comments to their profile?

The sound ("revolution") suggests that more information will make life easier by facilitating connections. I hope that's how it goes.

CaseyLuv See my TER Reviews 65 reads
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skarphedin 53 reads
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END OF MESSAGE

WestsideS 92 Reviews 96 reads
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I like new new woman are always good (well sometimes) umm humm not that last one but the one before was good... new is sometimes good... umm new is fresh... ooh wait that new one was not fresh... dam.. New is NEW!!! always looking forward to trying something new.. :)

I actually like TER we have my biggest gripe is that the first reviewer always sets in stone the summary profile of a girl... or those fake reviews that most of us can see but never get thrown out. What would be good is if when you click on the review a person can also see that reviews summary of the girl and services.  (one can dream) ha ha.

Peace  

WS

victoriasmith See my TER Reviews 268 reads
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whats supose to be better?  What kind of changes are they doing.... I hope a bit more user friendly... Most of my clients are not very computer savy...

Misstylerraye See my TER Reviews 92 reads
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I think this is a fabulous idea ! Great job TER

hbyist+truth=;( 124 reads
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Getting an email from a strange hooker out of the blue asking details about illegal activities can and quite often does scare off ladies from being frank.

Like on here, if she uses an alias and directed me to her review of said guy I can then see for myself and she is no danger of revealing who she really is to me or to him.

Now if reviews are not coming that's fine too. If I get a guy I cannot get any details about he will have to deal with what I won't do just like I have been doing for years. I would not review a guy but I will let a hooker know if there is something amiss or a john has some issues.

-- Modified on 6/4/2015 9:06:01 AM

hbyist+truth=;( 90 reads
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Hookers do not have that luxury, their privacy is shot all to hell with reviews mentioning all sorts of illegal stuff. How can you rightly justify your privacy is more important than a hookers? Age old argument. And backed up with the buyer/seller angle, which means nothing to me, not when this situation is so intimate and the differences in hobby style ranging from the short and sweet to the work her into the mattress types.  

I feel your pain and would not review a guy. This can give you some insight into how some hookers feel when reviewed. The total lack of privacy...

Alexandra Kole See my TER Reviews 108 reads
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Exactly! But the ones that bitch about discretion the most have written reviews of hookers detailing their illegal sexual escapades...

They don't want us to review because they'd punish us for bad scores by not seeing us, yet they complain when we won't see tricks that consistently review ladies low. They bitch there are too many overinflated 9/10's on women, yet they themselves wouldn't be happy without a 9/10.  

Can't have it both ways, guys.

The problem with solely using references is a guy won't give the name of a lady he's seen that he doesn't think he'll get a golden reference with. Then I don't necessarily get the information I need to make a good decision on whether he'll be a good match for me.

I'm only concerned with safety and hygiene, not anything else.
 
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
Hookers do not have that luxury, their privacy is shot all to hell with reviews mentioning all sorts of illegal stuff. How can you rightly justify your privacy is more important than a hookers? Age old argument. And backed up with the buyer/seller angle, which means nothing to me, not when this situation is so intimate and the differences in hobby style ranging from the short and sweet to the work her into the mattress types.    
   
 I feel your pain and would not review a guy. This can give you some insight into how some hookers feel when reviewed. The total lack of privacy...  
   
 

WildJimmy! 56 reads
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I saw a girl who had eczema or some kind of dermatitis, but she was working or at a dinner or something and couldn't scratch it, so she ducked into this dark broom closet and tore her way to where it itched.

hbyist+truth=;( 96 reads
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If there is a john review board and the ability for hookers to use an alias, then that would prevent the johns from knowing who the lady is...like some johns do.

And what about public reviews from indiscreet johns, hookers deal with that a lot. Again, why is your privacy more important than a hookers? You said it yourself ...Reviews aren't discrete....yet hookers are subject to this with NO thought about privacy or discretion.

You seem to feel this is not going to happen so why so much angst?

-- Modified on 6/4/2015 9:04:45 AM

mariagoddessny See my TER Reviews 72 reads
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I wish the chat section would be a little more updated and used. As well as the ability to post a new thread more than once in a 7 day period. Or maybe have a last min cancellation board for both providers and hobbyist

hbyist+truth=;( 117 reads
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Great idea in theory but if she said a guy had bad hygiene, she is identified and could pay for that. She would lose far more business than a hooker who reviewed under an alias.

Lee2000 42 Reviews 60 reads
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Looking forward to the progress this site makes.  Thx.

1192967 45 Reviews 54 reads
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...Plus if you want to have input click the link they placed in the OP and volunteer to test it.

Chase51 6 Reviews 79 reads
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The design on this web site is so out of date.  The programming can't be much better.  The data is great but could be much more useable to us in the hobby.  

The site could be more useful, better direction and suggestions.

Frankly for a quick lookup I use a competitor.

I much preder the depth that TER has but it has use problems.

Chase51

BaltimoreBetty See my TER Reviews 213 reads
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And they sent only the guys email!! I was shocked. Nothing else was provided so I could verify him. Seriously?! Is an email enough to verify anyone!? IMHO No. It's not. I requested more info and they sent it. I am simply unimpressed. And I told them that too.

I would also never download any app to my phone that might have the ability to infiltrate my personal info and photos.  I highly recommend staying away from the Facebook app for this very reason! Google it and read all that FB can see in your phone using this app! You will not like it. I also never use my phone to access anything to do with this hobby.  

I look forward to the new and improved website. But I will not be using any apps connected with it. And I will never use my phone to access it.

scoed 8 Reviews 93 reads
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Like posting reviews of ladies that was retired. And have reversed themselves more than once. So I can't be sure dispute having talked with them in the past. I know of three review sites that allow sex workers to review their clients. One publicly and in a way I screen all provider members out of seeing me.

And as for reviews of sex workers there are a few differences. One is you already outed yourself with ads and websites. Those things are not discreet ether. Hobbyist don't normally do ads. So you put yourself out there first, with hobbyist that is not the case.

Second it is a business norm. Outside of the banking industry industry customers aren't reviewed business are. Everyone knows this. Most ladies know they are going to be reviewed coming in. Who is going to warn the guys given there is only one industry reviews clients that this is the other exeption?

But guess what I agree with you in many ways. Your privacy is important. It is why I have never once reviewed a lady without her permission to do so. I really dislike how porn like TER reviews are. I don't think it is necessary. I do think guys need to know what you offer but there are better ways to put that out there. I would be in favor of making reviews of providers reviews more discreet.

scoed 8 Reviews 104 reads
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Alias reviews did not increase honesty in reviews. And most sex workers know exactly who the aliase is that reviewed them. Many ladies freely share these aliases. Do you think guys would be any different? In fact most hobbyist would figure it out easier than providers do as most see fewer ladies then ladies see guys. Aliases offer no real protection.

sitaradevi See my TER Reviews 77 reads
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This site that so many of us depend upon has been so tricky to navigate. I know that I would be much more apt to contribute on threads and participate on a regular basis if it were more user friendly..thus I am delighted to see what the TER folks have come up with to make this small part of the internet world a more pleasurable experience for us all.

Sitara Devi

asalerno01 99 Reviews 75 reads
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its cool...wanted to know more info on the hottest on here before making a plunge into the hobbist world.....but so far the info and description of everyone advertising and the opinions are accurate.....thanks

lordchesterfield 2 Reviews 85 reads
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joecarter 91 reads
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let's not forget that fiasco!  

Anyone who expects someone who has never done anything, except community organizing, to do stuff right is a dumbass - a little more than 50% of voters.

squire4040 54 Reviews 79 reads
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I would not have a problem with that per se.  But the more reviews, the less of an impact each review has on the averages (sorry to state the obvious).  As one can see if there are trends like that pretty easily by scrolling through the pages, it does not seem like a big deal to me either way.  I know I have noticed when there is a disparity between a significant number of recent reviews and the averages and taken that into account.

Of course, if they were getting really sophisticated in the update, perhaps they will allow one to choose to see the numbers based on 1, 3, 5 and 10 year performance (something like what they do with mutual funds, etc.).  Personally, I do not place that much stock in the numbers anyway.

-- Modified on 6/4/2015 2:15:42 PM

Ravakman 4 Reviews 62 reads
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It's about time this change to take place . It's been long over due

LasVegan 144 reads
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Good for you!  You posted something controversial and it was not censored.  Am scratching my head, wondering how one of the screeners did not catch it and allowed it to post..............simply AMAZING!!!!!

Sexy Toni See my TER Reviews 80 reads
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I am an active companion with older reviews. Why should the old reviews fall off! It is part of my history! It shows years of reviews and a pattern. If a business has been in business 50 years, why should older comments be disregarded. Just my opinion

Sexy Toni See my TER Reviews 87 reads
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... an educated hobbyist will take into consideration the review is "400 years" old.   Why should a steady, constant provide with reviews of more than 5 or 10 years be punished. Those reviews were earned and a part of the total package and who we are

Workout45 See my TER Reviews 76 reads
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As Charles Darwin said"it is not the strongest that survive nor the most intelligent.It is the ones most adaptable to CHANGE.

2236707 3 Reviews 94 reads
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On re-reading the note that I received AFTER some coffee the general idea of my post is correct. TER actually said that I had REQUESTED an invitation, which I had NOT. Then they went on to tell me why I should hold my breath and try not to pee with excitement.  I just am not excited about a new version of a website and don't like having my intelligence insulted by a "you asked for it, you lucky dog". Very small stuff, but felt like posting a counterpoint view.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 70 reads
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Just using the last year, or 5 years, or whatever to compute averages. I just don't want to see the older reviews disappear.

On the other hand, I have been saying for a long time that they should eliminate the top 100 lists, since those lists have been the biggest cause of grade inflation. Not that grade inflation didn't happen prior to those lists, but it certainly has gotten much worse. If those lists disappear, then averages are not as important.

-- Modified on 6/4/2015 1:33:05 PM

cashorcredit 104 reads
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How will the new site differ from the old one, will there be any significant changes?

baby_one_more_time 36 Reviews 119 reads
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Posted By: Alexandra Kole
Exactly! But the ones that bitch about discretion the most have written reviews of hookers detailing their illegal sexual escapades...  
   
 They don't want us to review because they'd punish us for bad scores by not seeing us, yet they complain when we won't see tricks that consistently review ladies low. They bitch there are too many overinflated 9/10's on women, yet they themselves wouldn't be happy without a 9/10.  
   
 Can't have it both ways, guys.
Of course we can.  That's how it works in any other business.  I can review a restaurant on Yelp, but they don't get to review me.  I can leave a review for a product on Amazon, but they don't get to leave one on me.  I can review a hotel or attraction or airline on TripAdvisor; they don't get to leave a "customer review" on me.

I'm the paying customer.  I should be able to fairly review the service I paid for.  Of course, ladies should have a blacklist or similar function to report guys who pose a safety or hygiene risk.  Otherwise?  Forget it.  You're the paid provider in this scenario, so what you think of the client (again, outside safety/hygiene) is irrelevant.

On a somewhat similar note, I hate that Uber drivers can rate their passengers.  Yes, again, for safety purposes they should be able to report someone.  Like an erotic provider, they are alone with their customers, and have an element of personal risk.

But otherwise?  What right should a paid service provider have to rate customers?  I had an Uber driver in DC a few weeks ago who picked me up in the wrong place, took the wrong route, and asked me to pay the tolls for him -- all big no-nos for Uber.  I refused the latter request, was unhappy with his service in general, and I let him know that.

Before that ride, I had a perfect 5-star Uber passenger rating (as told to me by a different driver earlier that day).  Afterwards?  I now have a 4.5, which means the driver I complained to gave me a 2- or 3-star rating.  I wasn't abusive, or dangerous, and didn't refuse to pay the fare.  I just refused to accept subpar service, and expressed my unhappiness.

Again, in a situation like that, I don't think the business or provider should be able to rate the paying customer.  It's irrelevant.

baby_one_more_time 36 Reviews 93 reads
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Posted By: Mona_Talbot
10+ years ago I was NOT GFE and answered the door in a towel. I should have never been in the hobby as I didn't take it seriously. Now I take it very seriously and enjoy every minute of it. I'm also 41 this year, maturity can say a great deal about how we approach relationships- hobby & real life.  
I dunno....opening the door in just a towel is kind of hot, to be honest!!  :)

hey mikey 8 Reviews 72 reads
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If a woman has been in this business for 50 years, I REALLY want to know up-front.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 68 reads
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Lots of guy would be right behind you too. TER's not the only board in town.

Posted By: GaGambler
but nothing as stupid as adding a feature that not only allowed, but encouraged hookers to rate their client on anything but safety.  

Guys would be leaving this site by droves if TER ever did anything even close to being THAT stupid, and the fact of the matter is, TER already knows this. It's been the overwhelming opinion voiced everytime the subject comes up. TER knows who pays the bills around here and they are not possibly dumb enough to chase off that many paying customers.

But if they are that stupid.......

I would cancel my VIP here IMMEDIATELY

OldRanger 62 Reviews 74 reads
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People listen to this lady. She know what she is doing in the business and security and discretion are on the top of her list.
That is on top of being a first rate scheduler for some of the best.

juicyjuice90210 25 Reviews 73 reads
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Will the new site of the capability of searching by keywords within the juicy details? I know as a fellow hobbyist sometimes we are searching for specific details that can only be described as oppose to categorized

MasterZen 33 Reviews 101 reads
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No one has yet seen the feature (if it exists at all) and we are at our worst using the mere theory of it to "make a point".

You gals can review me on Date-Check in fact - "Not Recommended", "Recommended" or "Highly Recommended". You can blacklist me. To neither do I have any recourse. At least you can challenge or speak out about a bad/fake review here (agreed, no guarantee you will prevail) but it is in fact more than the dude on DC or a BL site has.  

I suspect most guys respect those who have a "no reviews" policy, and the mention of one for a hobbyist is a bit misdirected?

I would be fine with less explicit/detailed reviews of women, and fine with that Date-Check style of review for the guys. What I am NOT fine with is the tenor of the discussion between a hobbyists and one or two gals on this particular part of this thread. Talk about indicative of abuse of a review process?

Yes, I get it ladies... and I support to a point. But save your "pimp-hand" for a dude that really deserves it, not one who bared a lot and in fact supported a large portion of your own points.  

FUUUUCCCKKK!

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 110 reads
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Posted By: meganfan
You're the paid provider in this scenario, so what you think of the client (again, outside safety/hygiene) is irrelevant.
In any other business, you'd be right. But this business is completely different due to two factors: a) illegality and b) level of interaction. A guy can be the most safe, hygienic person in the world. That same guy may also be rude, indiscreet, demanding, standoffish, creepy, or obnoxious. Maybe he'll overstay his time, ask inappropriate questions, use every clean towel in sight, have sandpapery body parts, or do weird shit that would make some women uncomfortable. None of those things necessarily fall into the category of "dangerous" or "unhygienic," but they're all things that could make engaging in sex acts with that person miserable for the provider. Just because you're safe, clean, and spending money doesn't mean that everything else is irrelevant. If I'm serving you a burger, sure. But if I'm giving you access to my body and personal space, no.  

In terms of having TER reviews of clients, I'd never do it (chiefly because I wouldn't want to deal with the backlash of writing a bad review), but that doesn't mean that I have to put up with everything that comes my way just because a dude showers, pays, and doesn't hurt me.

HectorBlack 12 Reviews 65 reads
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balljointnut 23 Reviews 128 reads
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I can't fucking wait. They will have to start a "He said, She said" board. I am seeing epic meltdowns when both sides can review and read the others review. Could backfire on the Hookers. I might wait to see what she had to say about me and then write my review accordingly.

In addition the reason our privacy is more important is because that is what we are paying for.

Not really for a "blacklist". Can I be blacklisted for offending a ho on a fuck board? How will they verify she has a legit reason for a blacklist? Yes, I know that sounds hypocritical, but once again I am paying you for a service. I am allowed a public opinion. You are not. Your recourse is to refuse future service.

Toodles

CompassionateGuy 4 Reviews 51 reads
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If it is beta testers you seek, count me in!

CG

hbyist+truth=;( 73 reads
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As well no acronyms or ANYTHING on my site that can incriminate me. I worded it that way for a reason.

Those hookers who place their face in ads etc. fine, they don't seem to care. Many of us do and we go to great lengths to be discreet.

This is like no other business so it is not part of the business norm. First, it is illegal, second, it is more than personal, it involves men doing things to our bodies not us just serving a meal or selling an object...we are the meal or the object and we can be treated in so many different ways that it amazes me that guys to not see that.  

A hooker might need to know what type of man she might be meeting so she can either except or refuse his appointment on how he is. I know I do and I am not alone. That is why I ask specific questions when contacting references. I am not in the habit of putting up with something makes me uncomfortable or painful. That is not part of my job description and not necessary to succeed here

hbyist+truth=;( 73 reads
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The level of intimacy and no two guys are the same with what they want and how they do it.  

 



-- Modified on 6/4/2015 6:10:06 PM

hbyist+truth=;( 74 reads
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What you are stating is also applicable to johns but that does not stop them from writing reviews, honest or not.

LongerMonger 103 reads
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scoed 8 Reviews 99 reads
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Or fails you screening in any way. Hell you can refuse for any reason what so ever. And many if not most guys will respect a no review policy as long as you deal honestly with them. I know I do. I have never, ever reviewed a lady with out her permission. So stick with guys whose references answer you questions, check blacklists, send 411 on provider only boards. Do your homework and you will be better off than trusting reviews from random ladies. Trust me reviews aren't that reliable. I don't trust them as my full screening.

scoed 8 Reviews 81 reads
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Bragging is another big one. I have done so more than once because a lady asked it of me as reviews bring business. Then there is the vengeance reviews and a few honest warnings. Then some guys do it to please a lady. And some small percentage do it to help their fellow mongers. The reasons are as varied as there are guys who wrote then and do is the reliability of reviews. But as many men use aliases to review honestly some point they can't do under their normal handle some clown is abusing it to some degree.

As you yourself have pointed out before fake reviews happen. Do you honestly think the ladies will be more honest? I doubt it. They have just as many reasons to lie as the men, more even.  

Note the of the women arguing for reviews most swear they will not write them. You included. So if the ladies begging for reviews will not write them who will? As one provider pointed out reviewing will hurt the ladies business. As I pointed out guys will know who wrote them. That info will get outed just like our aliases often are. Hell do you know how often some lady outs an alias to me without me asking? More than a few times a year. Do you honestly believe guys will be different?

balljointnut 23 Reviews 72 reads
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There is nothing more elegant than when a 20 something takes my cash and then deep throats me and lets me fuck her in the ass.

Drumsticks 90 Reviews 89 reads
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...for the privilege of reviewing me, I might consider it.  ;)

-- Modified on 6/4/2015 9:55:35 PM

balljointnut 23 Reviews 93 reads
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That would mean you were just having NSA sex and she wasn't a hooker and you weren't a john. I eagerly await the day I hand my ATF x amount of dollars and she hands it back to me

mercedesann See my TER Reviews 77 reads
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Should ladies be allowed an opportunity to respond to a review?

Enserch 73 reads
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Thank you, I would love to see the Beta site.  

Best,

Marc

scoed 8 Reviews 49 reads
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rcflyer 11 Reviews 113 reads
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Looking forward to it!

justintime2985 2 Reviews 72 reads
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I agree.  I don't really see any added value for including scores from 10 years ago. People change over time, both physically and their personality.  So the old scores most likely wouldn't mean much years later.  I still think they should be on the profile, just not included in the average score.  

I also agree that the scores are relevant to some degree.  I would say it's far from an exact science (chemistry, preferences factor in), but I would most definitely say it's relevant.  In general, I think I would have better time with a lady that averages a 9/9 or 10/10 than a girl that averages a 6/6.  I know some may disagree, but that's my opinion.  However, obviously I am more concerned finding girls that match my preferences than just high numbers.

my_dixie_wrecked 108 reads
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I Think it would be fair if the ladies would be able to review us in regards to cleanliness and safety/attitude.  Maybe not a long review of the guy, but possibly some pulldown answers to common concerns with the option of adding a personal note after.  However, I don't see the benefit of the reviews being visible to everyone.  The information should be limited to providers and only when the guy wants to see her.  The guy should only see aggregate information of himself after a certain number of reviews.  That way there is a certain level anonymity to promote honesty.  The guy can also see how he is viewed in general and change his approach if need be.

-- Modified on 6/5/2015 1:40:33 AM

Never.Landed 347 reads
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Are you on P411?

Are you on DateCheck?

Do you ask for whitelists on here?

Then sit down and calm your tits. You're already actively asking for reviews. Don't pretend to get your panties in a wad about it now, and act like you would leave. The reality is you would probably pay them more. Like you already do for others...

Funny though, the indignity at the idea of being treated better than you treat us. A woman saying you're safe is enough to cause a massive thread full of whining about being a customer and teeth gnashing over how you don't want to have to be held responsible for being a decent person, and yet you want to describe the way our pussy tastes for the entire internet to see. You want a reviewer only board, and you want to back channel about which girls you don't like because you spend too much time on the boards, and have the nerve to talk flat out shit to the women on here as if that's how adults behave and yet THIS is going to be an unfair representation of you?  

Please! As if your words mean literally anything. And those of you afraid of how your actions will be discussed know it.  

And the comments on discretion? Don't make me laugh. Most of you don't even know the meaning of the word. It goes far beyond not calling your wife, and clearly just as far over your head.  

Remember: observation does not equal anger. Someone had to tell you what you sound like.

Never.Landed 69 reads
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This image is just their public reveal of the attitude they've had behind closed doors for years.  

I mean, show of hands of ladies who have ever felt respected by TER staff?  

They don't even respect the clients. Why else would they leave fake 10/10s in favor of their "database" than their paying customers

Never.Landed 103 reads
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Posted By: balljointnut
Yes, I know that sounds hypocritical, but once again I am paying you for a service. I am allowed a public opinion. You are not. Your recourse is to refuse future service.  
   
 Toodles
You (and others) have expressed the sentiment that you have money, so we should shut up and put your dick in our mouths a number of times on this thread.  

Now, I realize that you don't think any of us have the right to an opinion, or feelings, or happiness in our work, so let me just ask you a simple question instead: how red is your face going to be when you stand up in a court of law and read this out loud before telling the jury that you really weren't harming anyone, and you're really just such a great guy who likes to have fun with nice ladies?

Or would it be red at all?  

After all, you keep saying you don't care what a bunch of lowly hookers think of you, maybe we aren't that special and you just have no shame in general.  

I deeply regret the amount of human studies classes I've taken. Ignorance really was bliss.

sidny See my TER Reviews 83 reads
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Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 103 reads
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Will the long lost chat function be restored, and once again be promoted by TER Central?  This was, before the current update was made several years ago, a central feature of great value...many friends were made, both with the lovely ladies and fellow hobbyists, but it has been essentially dead for years.  This needs to be restored!

Hard8inVegas 31 Reviews 66 reads
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mash1000 11 Reviews 56 reads
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I was thinking the same thing!

Posted By: meganfan
Posted By: Mona_Talbot
10+ years ago I was NOT GFE and answered the door in a towel. I should have never been in the hobby as I didn't take it seriously. Now I take it very seriously and enjoy every minute of it. I'm also 41 this year, maturity can say a great deal about how we approach relationships- hobby & real life.  
   
 I dunno....opening the door in just a towel is kind of hot, to be honest!!  :)

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 53 reads
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Mama Betty is top notch!

Posted By: OldRanger
People listen to this lady. She know what she is doing in the business and security and discretion are on the top of her list.  
 That is on top of being a first rate scheduler for some of the best.

hbyist+truth=;( 58 reads
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Like I have said I would not review a guy. This is exactly how I feel about reviews of hookers. No need for the explicit shit, just if she was who she says she is, safe, clean and delivered services with a great attitude. Then you may not have guys whining...I didn't get Greek or a BBBJ like the other 15 guys got. Hell the slate is clean until I meet a guy and it is then I decide what I will do.

hbyist+truth=;( 53 reads
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I got into this because of the feeble arguments the guys were using such as lack of privacy etc was laughable. Both sides are breaking the law but you guys want us to lay it all out there, just because you are paying...well I think Tobi and I spelled it out, this is not like any other business.

The review system sucks from any angle. Like I have said, there is no need to be that explicit and I would most definitely accept them if those details were not added. And there is great room to lie (guys have been doing as long as the site has been up ) and abuse the system. And you wonder why the ladies behave the way they do when there is no recourse and the pressure some use to get what they want via the system. There was bound to be some backlash and some vindictiveness on the part of the ladies.

But hey not my site and the powers can do whatever they like. I stood my ground and refused to be apart of something so one sided so I have no dog in this fight. I just thought it hilarious when tricks whined about their privacy.

hbyist+truth=;( 67 reads
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And since there was only the two of them in the room, it would be a he said, she said. But that sometimes is better than nothing. People can decide from there what they want to believe.

And if some hookers would take a breath and not post bitchy retorts they would be taken seriously more of the time.

darrell01 29 Reviews 61 reads
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Remember Windows 3.1?
 

Posted By: LongerMonger

gatorjimmy 33 Reviews 44 reads
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hbyist+truth=;( 30 reads
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hbyist+truth=;( 48 reads
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And how he treated the ladies. Says it all right there and doubt if the present owners give that much of a shit.

RRO2610 51 Reviews 73 reads
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Usually an OP no matter how relevant or edifying is "Closed" in 1/4 the length of THIS thread. :D

Elisabeth See my TER Reviews 40 reads
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Gosh, Claire.  You write so well!!!

I'm looking forward to seeing the new site!!!  But I agree that often, the older crowd (of which I'm one of!) might find it a bit daunting to figure out all of the changes, if indeed there ARE a lot of changes.

Still ... looking forward to it!!!

Sincerely,
Elisabeth
Posted By: ClaireGFE
Dear all,  
   
 I see here how the older gents could be intimidated by the new. No offense, really! In the past, "new" did not always mean "accessible" or "inviting". It often produced a quantitatively inaccessible new, but not improved system to have to grasp entirely. Nowadays, this is no longer the case.  
   
 I say, LET 'ER RIP! If The Erotic Review is going to stay on top of the provider-networking game, it must improve. Both in capability and aesthetic. Unless they're working on something like a red book horror story all over again, "new" is almost always the equivalent of "improved" these days because the standards are so damn high! Take it from me, I'm a San Francisco girl *sigh*.  
   
 With my redesigned website on the way, I for one am more eager than ever to accommodate the competitive and comprehensive trajectory in industries catering to the escort, masseuse, dominatrix and all else. WooHoo!  
   
 Go Hoes!  
   
 Love ya,  
 Claire

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 54 reads
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Why would you wait til she put her review up and change your review accordingly? You are suppose to write honest reviews, not a get even one. Just like that is what she should be doing.

You just stated another reason why a gal should not review the guys... the get even factor.

I find it amazing that a guy can trash us and we don't get a say. Not saying I will ever write a review... but figure this, if a guy had such a bad time, don't you think in some cases we had a bad time with him? Sometimes it is completely her fault and other times it had to do with the way the guy was acting. I am just speaking about the legit ladies, not the ripoffs etc.

I think TER should not allow a guy to review us once a review of him has been done, it prevents backlash.  

Of course I am of the mindset not to review a guy. What if I gave him a 7 and hurt his feelings? He'd be all butt hurt but it is fine to give me a 7 and gush about how great I am as if I was a 10.  

I would only want to attach a comment to my fake review letting others know that it is fake. That way a provider during screening will see that he writes fake reviews. Some don't take the time to look up BLs, which would indicate the same thing.

You think I am going to review a guy and give him a 2 and get a nasty review? Heck no. You think I am going to give a guy a 7 and have him butt hurt and not see me? Heck no.  

I'd be forced to give 10's if I wanted to keep him. I am not doing that either.

I do agree you are paying for privacy, All of our privacy is important. I do not agree that we don't have a right to our opinion. The gals can review all they want and you can chose to not see one who reviews. I do not feel it is a smart thing no matter what she puts and will bite her in the butt eventually.  

I just find it amazing that it is ok to review us in any manner a guy sees fit with no regard to how we feel about what is written, but those same guys don't want us ladies to review them based off their actions. If you can ruin our business in circumstances where we were very nice to you and delivered, why can't we also make informed decisions on who we trust our bodies with?  

I am speaking in general here, not all is directed at you Balljoint. I am making a point that I 100% feel a lady has a right to review a guy and I am also making a point that it is not a good thing for us to review the guys. Let them review if they want to. Anything we do does come back to us. I am fine with the BLs and the screening/reference check.  

Even if the reviews on guys has to do with being safe, hygiene, NCNS or timely etc rather than talking about how great he is in the bed.... I am not going that route.  I just see a bunch of issues that could come a gals way if she doesn't give a guy the exact review he wants. I just call references and go from there.  

As it is, the BL system is abused by some. Some gals use it for legit reasons, others overreact and BL for just about everything minor. I am sure it can and will happen that if gals are able to review guys, this will be another way to manipulate each other. Like you even said, you'd change how you were going to review her based off whatever review she gave you, Who is to say she won't tell a guy "Give me a 10 or I will leave you a bad review too"? It already happens with a few gals forcing guys to leave a 10 or he is afraid to review her.  

Stalking on the boards should be able to be BL'd. If a guy is that crazy/stalker on the internet, how do you think he is in RL? Offending someone shouldn't be. But hey, a few of us have gotten fake reviews by BSC guys who got offended off this very board.  

There sure will be plenty of meltdowns over gals reviewing the guys. They have a right to if they chose. It is not for anyone to say we don't have a right purely because we get paid. I can easily see gals leaving nasty reviews because a guy stopped seeing them.  

No thanks, I am not partaking in this meltdown. Be happy to watch it blow at a distance.

 
Posted By: balljointnut
I can't fucking wait. They will have to start a "He said, She said" board. I am seeing epic meltdowns when both sides can review and read the others review. Could backfire on the Hookers. I might wait to see what she had to say about me and then write my review accordingly.  
   
 In addition the reason our privacy is more important is because that is what we are paying for.  
   
 Not really for a "blacklist". Can I be blacklisted for offending a ho on a fuck board? How will they verify she has a legit reason for a blacklist? Yes, I know that sounds hypocritical, but once again I am paying you for a service. I am allowed a public opinion. You are not. Your recourse is to refuse future service.  
   
 Toodles

Freya Fantasia See my TER Reviews 34 reads
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Freya Fantasia See my TER Reviews 32 reads
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I'm mostly referring to all the things I hated learning on my smart phone that now I couldn't live without.  I just hate when passwords have to be so complex than I can't use one of my two go-to's!

Alexandra Kole See my TER Reviews 27 reads
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That is NOT all that matters. Do I want to take that green money to deal with any rude, obnoxious asshole with bad breath and overstays his time or pushes boundaries? No. And while that may not make him unsafe, it's someone I'd want to know about so that I could avoid him at all costs. There are too many guys out there willing to pay that aren't like that. And using references in that case won't help. Because some ladies won't care and will see them anyway and give them a good reference, and other times he won't use the girls he knows will be real for a reference...
 

Posted By: lordchesterfield
is it green? and, the right amount.

Alexandra Kole See my TER Reviews 35 reads
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That only goes so far. Do you know how many times we request references and get a simple "he's okay" back. Again, "okay" is subjective. There is no lady on the earth that's going to take the time to answer every single question I need to know, and he's surely not even going to give me references he doesn't think will give him the best reference possible...

Posted By: scoed
Or fails you screening in any way. Hell you can refuse for any reason what so ever. And many if not most guys will respect a no review policy as long as you deal honestly with them. I know I do. I have never, ever reviewed a lady with out her permission. So stick with guys whose references answer you questions, check blacklists, send 411 on provider only boards. Do your homework and you will be better off than trusting reviews from random ladies. Trust me reviews aren't that reliable. I don't trust them as my full screening.

Alexandra Kole See my TER Reviews 41 reads
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Pretty pathetic that anyone would claim to just leave it all because the playing ground evens out a bit...yeah, sure.

And the ones that want to punish those that would review guys simply to keep it more safe and better for the best clientele wouldn't be anyone I'd want to see either anyway.  
Posted By: Never.Landed
Are you on P411?  
   
 Are you on DateCheck?  
   
 Do you ask for whitelists on here?  
   
 Then sit down and calm your tits. You're already actively asking for reviews. Don't pretend to get your panties in a wad about it now, and act like you would leave. The reality is you would probably pay them more. Like you already do for others...  
   
 Funny though, the indignity at the idea of being treated better than you treat us. A woman saying you're safe is enough to cause a massive thread full of whining about being a customer and teeth gnashing over how you don't want to have to be held responsible for being a decent person, and yet you want to describe the way our pussy tastes for the entire internet to see. You want a reviewer only board, and you want to back channel about which girls you don't like because you spend too much time on the boards, and have the nerve to talk flat out shit to the women on here as if that's how adults behave and yet THIS is going to be an unfair representation of you?  
   
 Please! As if your words mean literally anything. And those of you afraid of how your actions will be discussed know it.  
   
 And the comments on discretion? Don't make me laugh. Most of you don't even know the meaning of the word. It goes far beyond not calling your wife, and clearly just as far over your head.  
   
 Remember: observation does not equal anger. Someone had to tell you what you sound like.

GaGambler 20 reads
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237 / 244

and it's the primary reason I don't write them, but the fact that I DO pay is the reason that I disagree with most of your other arguments on the subject. I am NOT going to be rated on how good a customer I am, and I will boycott any hookers who embrace the policy and TER itself if they are foolish enough to do anything this fucking dumb.

I am sorry if I am sugar coating my feelings on the subject, but I am sober today. I will check back in a few hours after "happy hour" and try to put my feelings in clearer terms. lol

Geministar See my TER Reviews 35 reads
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238 / 244

is there a way the guys can choose what version and I am not tetchy so please don't bash me!  But I think with the HOT and dark back it would be more visible if they are not careful!  I totally love it but jus thinking also some guys don't log-in and are not always on here and this is more discreet if they sneak on at work or if the wife passes by!  

The new TER is definitely beautiful but an eye catcher for sure and I love it! But would there be a way for the members to have an option of using or picking between the two depending on their situation.  I mean like could there be both in use so the people that have a harder time with nosey Significant others they could choose the old site or have the option?

Forgive me as I am definitely non techy and not sure if it could be done due to lack of skills in this area but if it could I think it would keep both parties happy but also don't know if it is feasible financially or even possible for the site!

Thanks!

Gemini Starr

scoed 8 Reviews 31 reads
posted
239 / 244

It isn't me. So I am pathetic. You have no idea how close I am to leaving the hobby anyway. It isn't as fun when you feel your being judged. I know you ladies know how that feels but to find out a lady is telling her clients about my issues. I almost fucking lost it. I don't care if just basic safety info is given like am I respectful, clean, safe, and the like I am fine with it, but more personal information well I would give up sex before I let the full nature of my issues to be posted. You have no fucking scared I am now each time I do this as is. I own that I am pathetic, what the fuck is your point?

zisk 86 Reviews 21 reads
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240 / 244

and not highjack this into a political rant? There is already a board devoted entirely to that nonsense.

Signed,
A less than proud ex-regular "contributor" to the politics board

-- Modified on 6/5/2015 3:50:16 PM

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 27 reads
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241 / 244

Posted By: Never.Landed
Are you on P411?  
   
 Are you on DateCheck?  
   
 Do you ask for whitelists on here?  
   
 Then sit down and calm your tits. You're already actively asking for reviews. Don't pretend to get your panties in a wad about it now, and act like you would leave. The reality is you would probably pay them more. Like you already do for others...  
   
 Funny though, the indignity at the idea of being treated better than you treat us. A woman saying you're safe is enough to cause a massive thread full of whining about being a customer and teeth gnashing over how you don't want to have to be held responsible for being a decent person, and yet you want to describe the way our pussy tastes for the entire internet to see. You want a reviewer only board, and you want to back channel about which girls you don't like because you spend too much time on the boards, and have the nerve to talk flat out shit to the women on here as if that's how adults behave and yet THIS is going to be an unfair representation of you?  
   
 Please! As if your words mean literally anything. And those of you afraid of how your actions will be discussed know it.  
   
 And the comments on discretion? Don't make me laugh. Most of you don't even know the meaning of the word. It goes far beyond not calling your wife, and clearly just as far over your head.  
   
 Remember: observation does not equal anger. Someone had to tell you what you sound like.

Alexandra Kole See my TER Reviews 29 reads
posted
243 / 244

Then quit your bitching and leave.

Posted By: scoed
It isn't me. So I am pathetic. You have no idea how close I am to leaving the hobby anyway. It isn't as fun when you feel your being judged. I know you ladies know how that feels but to find out a lady is telling her clients about my issues. I almost fucking lost it. I don't care if just basic safety info is given like am I respectful, clean, safe, and the like I am fine with it, but more personal information well I would give up sex before I let the full nature of my issues to be posted. You have no fucking scared I am now each time I do this as is. I own that I am pathetic, what the fuck is your point?

FoxyNC See my TER Reviews 15 reads
posted
244 / 244

Posted By: Never.Landed
Are you on P411?  
   
 Are you on DateCheck?  
   
 Do you ask for whitelists on here?  
   
 Then sit down and calm your tits. You're already actively asking for reviews. Don't pretend to get your panties in a wad about it now, and act like you would leave. The reality is you would probably pay them more. Like you already do for others...  
   
 Funny though, the indignity at the idea of being treated better than you treat us. A woman saying you're safe is enough to cause a massive thread full of whining about being a customer and teeth gnashing over how you don't want to have to be held responsible for being a decent person, and yet you want to describe the way our pussy tastes for the entire internet to see. You want a reviewer only board, and you want to back channel about which girls you don't like because you spend too much time on the boards, and have the nerve to talk flat out shit to the women on here as if that's how adults behave and yet THIS is going to be an unfair representation of you?  
   
 Please! As if your words mean literally anything. And those of you afraid of how your actions will be discussed know it.  
   
 And the comments on discretion? Don't make me laugh. Most of you don't even know the meaning of the word. It goes far beyond not calling your wife, and clearly just as far over your head.  
   
 Remember: observation does not equal anger. Someone had to tell you what you sound like.

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