Nothing against "straight ladies" but of the 4 ATFs I've had over 20 years 2 were bi-sexual (but heavy into girls) and one was 100% lesbian. I didn't know this from our initial meetings but over time I learned about their sexual preferences. I must say when it comes to certain activities, like Daty, my most enjoyable xperiences have primarily been with ladies who admitted to be either Bi-sexual or lesbian. They have also been extremely good in the other GFE arts. Even tough they were not "into men" they were great at providing BBBj and penetration. Has anyone else experienced something similar?

but wont date a woman, just like to have sex with her occasionally lol...

We are all made up of masculine and feminine sides' some of us lean more toward one or the other
As a guy with a strong feminine side (not gay) I lean toward the softer "GFE" aspects of a relationship.
Women who are able to express themselves to other women as well as to men I think are more comfortable with their bodies and open to the pleasure these encounters can bring.
I'm not advocating that straight ladies become "Bi" but just pointing out that I think there is a higher level of sexual enjoyment - from the man's point of view if he dates a "bi/lesbian: woman.

Just because a provider is "really bi" or straight up Lesbian, does not mean she is going to bring her GF along for free...this is still a business. I am Bi, but only sexually. What I mean, is I know my life mate will be a man, I will always date men, and marry a man....but, I will have sex with a woman just for fun if I am not in a relationship

You are someone I can share deep intimate sensual experiences. Even though you prefer men and plan on marrying one I think your innate appeal to the feminine side makes you a better lover overall. Since for women, the need for "romance" is a stronger drive than for men.

Hmm, I don't know about that. I have had some HORRIBLE female experiences. I don't submit that women are better at daty, either. It's not gender based, but skill based.

I had a provider tell me she likes to have sex with  a woman but does not consider herself bi or gay.  Fun  to have sex with but a relationship is another matter

I know a couple of pairs of women who are in long term relationships but who will cut your heart out if you call them lesbian. Go figure. And I once saw a duo where one woman would not let me so much as touch her but would let me touch her girlfriend and watch them get it on. Other than that I can't say I've noticed one group makes better lovers than the other.

Being that I am a sub, I am naturally drawn to aggressive, dominant men. I love Manly men... I know they have women like this, but I am not attracted to Butch women.  

I'd never thought of it until I read your comment, but I think that preferring to be the aggressor sexually may impact my willingness to be with a provider who is more lesbian than straight.

Do you think Lesbians prefer aggressive men more than straight?

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I'm not an aggressive male by any means, but have had two civie relationships with gals who considered themselves lesbians - though both ended up marrying guys eventually, so perhaps their label was suspect.