It's been a while.  I wonder if anyone's still around who might remember me?  I recall some interesting and sometimes very funny threads.  I remember some PMs from both hobbyists and providers that shared some intimate details and might have lead to valuable friendships had I stuck around.

Well, I remarried.  BIG mistake.  My first wife (some of you may recall that I'm widowed) was a gem.  But I'm afraid I may have acted too soon regarding my second -- there was baggage hidden in the attic.  Actually, it was a steamer trunk.  In any event, I'm learning that being alone is better than being with the wrong person.  I just have to get up the courage to do something about it.  The problem is; she's actually a very nice person -- she's just wrong for me (and her family is right out of an Adams Family episode, right down to Pugsley and Wednesday).

Anyway, I kind of missed the old banter and signed up for TER again.  I'm on a business trip and was flipping through the reviews when I stumbled across two ladies with sterling reviews who seemed custom made for an adventure with LOW (as you guys used to call me).  In any event, I'm seeing one tomorrow and the other on Wednesday.  Two long, relaxing and intensely sensuous afternoons (big, stupid grin).

Man, is it good to be back!

Anyway, I have to get back to my tongue exercises.  I’m back to being able to peel a grape without damaging the flesh.  Ad I cad lifd dirdy pouds wid jusd by toug!


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as to your discussion on the 2nd wifey... well, yes, I am sure that she is a nice person... we all are... well, all except Hitler, PolPot, Saddam Hussain... and a few others who I won't name...

You've a good observation about "wrong for me"  Happens...  In my marriage... within 2 years of marriage it was clear that either 'things' changed or ours was to be an unhappy marriage... and then things in the outside world "happened" which made our lives more difficult, and instead of uniting us... it tore us fruther apart....  

I would offer that if you've any doubts, discuss the situation with her.  You may find she feels the same... and perhaps you could  wind up with an amicable divorce.... sure beats the alternatives....   a lot!

I am a widower, too, and had the world's best marriage the first time around.  I'm playing here until matters settle out so I don't rush into something I may regret the second time around.  Good to see you back.

That is awesome news about your son. That made me smile. Thank you for sharing that piece of information with us.

However, Do you think it is necessary to share Tiffany's information on a public board? But, perhaps she is okay with it.


Hugs,
Ciara





-- Modified on 5/21/2008 9:53:49 AM

I, too, have been away for quite a while.
I have been spending time, quietly existing on the Fla. board.

I do miss the banter with some old friends and do come back to lurk occasionally.

I'm glad to hear your "problems" have pretty much gone away.
I wish I could say the same, but, as you are aware, we adapt, we improvise, we overcome.
Sometimes it's just a very long journey.

Just my opinion...
B

You can bring back some common sense to our dilusional and horny board members. Just kidding.

Hugs
Ciara

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-- Modified on 5/21/2008 12:33:31 AM

What a dumb thing for me to do.  Bad form.  I've edited the post to no longer include the inappropriate material.  Thanks for setting me straight.

and we need to move on.  Sometimes this is temporary, sometimes semi-permanent.

Not much has changed in the 3 years other than there seems to be way more quality providers.  The choices are sometimes very difficult.  Hobby safely.

we couldn't get the grin off his face."