as to your discussion on the 2nd wifey... well, yes, I am sure that she is a nice person... we all are... well, all except Hitler, PolPot, Saddam Hussain... and a few others who I won't name...

You've a good observation about "wrong for me"  Happens...  In my marriage... within 2 years of marriage it was clear that either 'things' changed or ours was to be an unhappy marriage... and then things in the outside world "happened" which made our lives more difficult, and instead of uniting us... it tore us fruther apart....  

I would offer that if you've any doubts, discuss the situation with her.  You may find she feels the same... and perhaps you could  wind up with an amicable divorce.... sure beats the alternatives....   a lot!

I am a widower, too, and had the world's best marriage the first time around.  I'm playing here until matters settle out so I don't rush into something I may regret the second time around.  Good to see you back.

It's good to see you posting again. . .

That is awesome news about your son. That made me smile. Thank you for sharing that piece of information with us.

However, Do you think it is necessary to share Tiffany's information on a public board? But, perhaps she is okay with it.


Hugs,
Ciara





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Good to see you back, LOW.............

I, too, have been away for quite a while.
I have been spending time, quietly existing on the Fla. board.

I do miss the banter with some old friends and do come back to lurk occasionally.

I'm glad to hear your "problems" have pretty much gone away.
I wish I could say the same, but, as you are aware, we adapt, we improvise, we overcome.
Sometimes it's just a very long journey.

Just my opinion...
B

and we need to move on.  Sometimes this is temporary, sometimes semi-permanent.

Not much has changed in the 3 years other than there seems to be way more quality providers.  The choices are sometimes very difficult.  Hobby safely.