I recently found out from a provider that all my references in Date-Check (about 7)  have described me as "highly recommended". Before this goes to my head, I wanted to ask the providers here at TER just how common is it to give out a "highly recommended"? I know every provider will have her own standards, but overall are the standards high or low? What is the difference between a client that you would rate as "recommended" and one "highly recommended"?

Really... sorry but I'd rather some cushion and a sense of humor than some one with too much money and not a lot of respect. Give me fluffy all day long!

because you obviously care what hookers think.

I don't need to see more than my rate implies. And this gent in love with himself

Just spell out asshole.  Asterisks are lame.

When a man is kind and respectful that will get you very far.  The men that don't treat us like blow-up-dolls, but instead like real women.  You can't just tip your way to "highly recommended" or "whitelist" status.  I ask myself, "Do I wish every single client would treat me this way?"  If so, that's worth a "highly recommend."

Woo-hoo!! I would be highly recommended!

And here I thought we were getting along famously, LOL!  OK, I'll play.  If I'm the head cheese, what are you.  Let's see....

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to the "highly recommended" type clients? This might encourage the "big spender" type clients to act a little more gentlemanly. They probably act that way because they want to get their "money's worth" out of a session.

Jade, I could not agree more.  A provider once emailed me during the process screening to tell me it was unusual that a dozen ladies on Date-Check all gave me "highly rated" for which I was flattered.    
In addition to what you mentioned, I must add being non-judgmental is a big virtue, on both sides.  On one end of spectrum, this could be perceived as a prostitution board for whores and johns (like myself), or a platform for providers and hobbyists (like myself as well).  It never hurts for our perception to be on the latter end.  It's like half glass full or empty.  Being a respectful gentleman who treat providers with kindness and generosity goes a long way.  P4P is the essence here, but it's about how we conceive things and conduct ourselves.  

Any more effort would just not be worth it.

Because troubles can be with anyone of them

Note to self...stay away from the Russian mafia  

it is funny to be afraid of Russian mafia. To tell you the thruth it even doesn't exist. Well, in Russia only. No, in America too, but American mafia. Are there is such a thing as American mafia? Please someone explain this to me!