you basically answered your own fucking question... lol

"As she was leaving, she offered to come the next evening for a freebie. We had dinner, spent a few hours together, had sex and she went home."


Umm.... read the above. lol

I doubt she's playing with you with all that she has already offered.

BTW, is she cute?

9 times out of 10 it's a bad idea and someone starts getting clingy or wanting more.  If she wants you as a free f*uck buddy take it while she's giving it *shrugs* lol.

I don't think she is playing you, at least not yet. A lot of posters here rail against anything more than just a business relationship with these girls and for good reason - they can be very good at manipulation.  I think that if you don't lose sight of that you should be fine with any type of relationship you have with her. These providers are just girls and have a difficult time dating outside their profession. maybe she just digs you.

Do a fellow hobbyist a favor,

what's her phone #  lol   I say go for it, as long as you make decisions with your big head and not your little one!!!  Providers need lovin too!!!

I have enjoyed wonderful relationships with many friends with benefits and many long term relationships and brief relationships with providers and never did the friends with benefits ever start out as providers ever. A number of the providers became my friends (including three who are long out of the business but with whom I keep completely non sexual contact) but any sex was always always paid for.  I wouldn't want it any other way.

I don't see a down side at this point.  Be a bit cautious.  Don't lend money.  Don't give out too much personal information...  lest she show up on your door step with a suitcase...  at least, not without an invitation on your part.  You need to remain vigilant...  because you never know.  At the same time, it puts a burden on youo to be a gentleman and not take advatage of the situation.
This has taken off very fast & it souonds like "the provider has fallen for you & can't get up".  It happens more often the other way around but it was not too long ago a provider posted, having fallen for her client.
These relationships usually do NOT work ouot but just enough of them do that one can not say "NEVER".  You do not say if you are fully available for a civie relationship.  If you are then you might want to let this situation evolve.  Probably slow it down a little...  You need to decide where you are willing to see this relationship go... I expect a range of options.   Then see where she sees it going...  and see if there is suffient overlap.  If a relationship comes out of this...  you can NEVER throw the provider or P word at her.  Can you do this?

Some providers provide over a considerable period...  some only for a short time.  The wise lady plans her business with the proper credentials for the next phase of her life...  "after her life as a provider".  Nothing wrong with this.  I have noticed several who worked their way through school & graduated with no crippling student loans...  and seem to have moved on.  Good for them.  

I have jumped the gun here and speculated on a bunch of facts not yet in evidence...  but we have seen a few of these situations evolve.  I would go in with my eyes open...

but the trick is to not get over involved.  If it tuly is a FWB situation and you can deal with her still providing and she can deal with you seeing other providers, WTF!  Give it a shot!  But the first one that blinks and decides to give up your side of the business, then you are getting too close!  Have fun my friend but be careful!

We had the third date as I described and it was great. A few days after getting home I texted her and we started talking again. I'm not going back to her town until September, but I offered to fly her to my town for a 4 day weekend in August and she agreed. The ticket was only $256. She is staying here for four days and seems to expect nothing from me. I'm really looking forward to it and will keep you all updated.

This is not BS...I'm a plain, nice 46 year old guy. We just clicked and really enjoy each other out of bed. She is giving up mucho earnings to come be with me so I think her feelings are legit.  I'm not naive, I just think I've hit the lottery.

I do appreciate the responses but really don't know why some of you are doubting why I would post this if it wasn't true? What motive would I have for that?

As an update, she is still planning on coming and we are planning out activities for the weekend. We talk daily and interest in having a personal relationship is growing. We are going to use the weekend she is here to gauge if we really are compatible.

I'm okay with dating with a provider. I know what her business is, I'm not naive. I feel intimacy goes beyond sex. She is doing what she needs to do right now. I am an unattached middle aged guy with no illusions....I'm going to see where this goes and she and I will figure it out as we go.

The intention of my original post was to see if I am somehow being scammed as I do not have much experience with escorts. After reading all of the replies and knowing what I know about her, I feel this is a legitimate chance to just have some fun with a gorgeous woman who seems interested and we'll take it slow and see what happens.

Thanks!