I have seen providers for about 15 years now. I always wrote honest reviews. I have had a few providers contact me after and get upset, even threatening to blacklist me. But all they had on me was that they didn't like my review of them. I always paid. I was always on time. I always communicated well. I was always well groomed. I was always well behaved. In fact, I have had several providers tell me I am the ideal client because I make everything easy.

I don't think it's true, at least on TER, that "A provider can choose to not allow reviews of them."
Last I heard (and unless that's been changed) a "no reviews" policy is grounds for delisting.

I am sorry that happened to you.  Seems like a nightmare scenario.   I have heard of Mr Number but have never seen it.  

Extоrtion/blackmail and then folowing through with exposal.

A burner number like Google Voice avoids this problem since the number is not associated with a name.  

By no reviews, I mean delisting.

You are correct, but it's not simple per se. Some providers won't see you if you have an unlisted number. And, if you are to successfully do this, it requires changing your number every so often, otherwise they eventually figure a way out to tie your information to that number. But after what I went through, I would say being okay with the providers who won't see you and changing your number every so often is worth the trouble.

You talk about honest reviews, so you should allow us to see them.  If you have changed your username as you claim, it shouldn't matter revealing the name he reviews are under.  If you are not carrying your old reviews through to your new handle, the people of which you complain cannot find your new info.  Just give us your old username and we can look up your reviews on our own.   It's difficult to understand how this happened without access to the reviews in question. BTW, TER does not allow multiple aliases, so I hope you misspoke when claiming to have them.  

What they did was blackmail.   It's a serious felony and if you have the emails, etc., that back up the charge, and you can find out who they are in real life, you have a case.

Might be not a bad idea to ask how they want the 25k.maybe you get a btc wallet or drop-off point.

This is a serious federal crime.  

Too bad it did happen to you and unfortunately sometimes the more trusting get burned. The lesson to learn is that if you have something to lose by you involvement getting made public you really should not be using a number that directly traces back to you and your real life. Same goes for things like emails.

They will remove all of your data on there with one email.  They wont even fight it.  Just send a request with your name and number and let them scrub their database.  I check once a year to see if anyone has posted on me.  Had a provider get mad once because I wouldn't pay a deposit when she had no reviews and blast me.  Was removed within hours of me sending a request.

The real phone # is how they got ahold of the info.

Wait... but what is the point then if anyone can just remove themselves from it.

I believe Mr Number started off as a spam identifier and blocking app, but then the features became useful for girls to report stalkers, shady guys from dates, etc. Which then extended into provider blacklist through word of mouth.

What is their email address? I was only able to find a support form.
"Remove inaccurate or offensive comments
For businesses and individuals

Oh same old CDL hell bent on seeing my username. But it doesn’t work like that. My old username no longer exists on TER. My new one is now attached to the reviews. If I was to post that here, then I’m just being stupid and asking to be figured out. Now, some of the reviews are attached to other alias as well.  

What is the URL for the site. Whenever I search I just get links to the app you download from the Apple Store or GooglePay Store. Perhaps that is what everyone is talking about and I'm wrong in think it is something else.

It was all text messages from unlisted numbers. And I deleted them all from my phone. Full disclosure, I have denied everything to those who have been told. Going to LE and making a case out of this would make the lie harder to stick by. Not willing to risk that. It’s already hard enough that not everyone believes me and is making my life more difficult.

It is the app. There is no actual website. Sorry if I implied that was the case. My understanding is that it’s a subset somehow of the app that requires access be granted. Tbh, I’m not 100% sure how the user end works. I only saw what was written about me because it was one of numerous screenshots used to threaten and then expose me.

I searched the web and found no contact. I assume if you’re doing this you have the app. I do not want to download the app. I’m on a family network with 8 people. Everyone can see if I’ve downloaded an app since we share access to everything.

OK, this post has me very confused. I have never used Mr. Number, I only communicate with gents via email. So....I did some research. This looks to be an app that a person can install on their phone to block calls or texts from someone and also provides caller ID. There is nothing to join. You have to pay for it, but there is no blog or whatever.  Mr. Number is for anyone, this is not just for sex workers. If you try to call or text someone and they have you blocked by Mr. Number your call or text will not go through. Are you talking about some other website or app? There is nothing to expose or share on Mr. Number. It is just an app that each person can install on their phone. Each individual person that has it installed on their phone would see if you tried to call them on their call log and what time etc. but no one else can see this, it would just be on their personal phone.

It is 100% Mr. Number. This app has been discussed here in the past. Honestly, I cannot get into the specifics about how you join/get access to the part that is used by providers. Most don't seem to want to share these details. It's like some secret society. Others on here might have successfully pulled this information from a provider and maybe they can share more. Otherwise, you can probably find a provider in your friend network that can share more with you.

I have a Provider friend that uses Mr. Number.  You can write notes on it that others can see.  So for instance, If the Monger is a stalker, she can denote that and it can be seen by other Providers.  

Mr Number has a paid option. Once you pay, you are allowed to check and leave comments under numbers.

What is the url of Mr Number?

Who determines what is "accurate"? That seems ridiculous.

I would definitely go back to Mr Number then and let them know someone put information on their site that then resulted in extortion threats, reputational damage and harm to your family life when you have never harmed anyone else. You might ask them if that is the intended use of their app. If not they perhaps need to consider better filters to prevent such use. That might get them to put some checks in place that would make it more difficult for some provider to through a fit about a bad review and post information that doesn't seem appropriate for what the main goal of the app seems to be.

It's an app you find in the app store on your phone. There is no url.

There was another website that I was a member of briefly and I found useless, kind of like what you are describing here with Mr. Number. These stupid comments mean nothing to me. I don't care if someone tried to negotiate, asked to not use a condom, or is a pic collector. From my screening I want to know if you are a murderer, a rapist, abuse animals or your wife, or are into kiddie porn. I will take the rest from there. Someone trying to extract money from you is complete bullshit and I hope you do follow up on that legally, but these petty and stupid comments when I see them I roll my eyes and move on. The only thing I keep on file for clients is their email address anyway, I don't want phone #s for your protection and mine. I am very sorry this happened to you and I can tell you the level headed providers are not even going to take this shit into consideration when it comes to booking an appointment with you. I do wish you the best of luck in getting this resolved.

Your link is to Hiya. That’s a different app than Mr. Number.

Well, I don't want to pick on someone when they are down but have to say you might not have really thought this through

I think that is the company that makes the app (https://sourceforge.net/software/product/Mr.-Number/).

It's not some "secret society" - you pay for premium and you get access to the number info/comments.

Ya know, we often think we are invincible and it, whatever it may be, won’t happen to us. And for 15 years it didn’t. Then it did.

They don't dispute any claims. The point of the app is to track spam numbers. If you just say it is a private number they will basically remove all comments.

Ten years in I've never met a lady who refused to see me because I used a secondary number.  All they care about is if you have reference.  So, if you're active you have plenty of reference ladies do not care what number you use.  I assume most men use a burner number or second number.  It's common sense.

I'll also say you dont even have to be a provider to abuse the system it seems.  

Did she mention how she limits that visibility to just other providers? From the little I've seen about the app it seems like the comments on the Rap Sheet logs are available to anyone who pays for the premium service.

I assume that is just the comments after entering some phone number to look up. That the number of the person entering the comment is not listed makes sense given the actual purpose of the app but I would be very surprised if system or app logs do not have a record of the account and phone that submitted the comment. That would be bad for the company behind the app and probably the app itself if people just wanted to have fun abusing numbers -- like the local number of City Hall or the Police Department or some kids high school teacher or just the out of the click person the gang wants to pick on.  

Sure they might have your device ID, but what are they going to do?

Really? If they have the device ID and the sim info tracing the location is a piece of cake. The US telcos have been handing over that type of information to LE for years without even asking for a warrant. And, yes, no on is getting charged off any statement like that but not to hard to setup a sting with that info. Not too difficult to map the movement patters and to correlate to other real world info if someone is not expressly trying not to be tracked.

When I first started, I tried references. It didn’t work out so well. I rarely saw the same lady twice. I sometimes went months between seeing a provider, and we’re talking two, so the second reference could be a lady I saw 6 months ago. They didn’t always remember me. Some just didn’t care and didn’t respond. Then there were the ones I didn’t review well. I wasn’t about to ask them for a reference. I guess giving a reference for another escort was a low priority for them. I think the reference route is much easier if you’re a frequent flyer.  

ONLY if the reviews did not carry forward to your new username.  You clarified that you had divine intervention on your aliases.  This is new info I did not have from your OP.  Consequently, I withdraw my suggestion.  However, carrying forward your reviews still leaves a trail to your new username for anyone who had more than a passing interest in your prior reviews.  I would have abandoned the prior reviews and started fresh with the new username.  Just my opinion.  Despite your attitude, I still was able to give you a constructive suggestion based on my experience once I had more info.  I hope carrying the reviews forward does not come back to bite you in the ass.  Go in peace.

Perhaps you meant that, and that is fine. But your wording didn't exactly say what you're saying now. You started with this, "You talk about honest reviews, so you should allow us to see them." Then you say this, "If you have changed your username as you claim, it shouldn't matter revealing the name (t)he reviews are under." So let's disect this just a little. You first suggest you want to see the reviews. Techically, you can see them. They have not gone away. So, I have to assume you mean me posting in this thread the username attached to these reviews. And, by your second statement, you at this stage assumed those reviews were left with my old username. Let's say that was the case. Can you not see how dumb that would be? That would be outing myself. The very username that was used to expose me, you want me to post here? I'm trying to disconnect from that name, not leave the most obvious trail from that name to the one I am posting with here.

I found 2 reports on my burner number related to sub-par reviews I left (nothing insulting, just honesty about my experience) and one of the providers posted my name and email address as well.  
Mr. Number removed it after I contacted their support, but my info was exposed for a month.  
Worth checking it occasionally if ladies are this vindictive.

I'm sorry you got into it with bad apples. Contact support and they will help you.  

I contacted Mr. Number. It took about a week. But I did get the comments removed. Only if I knew about them before I was threatened and the damage was done. At least this should stop it from happening again.

So I checked my fun number due to this happening to you. Someone made up a lie about me.  I asked Mr Number to take it down. They did so within two days. Crazy vindictive people 😂

Did you pay for the service or was triаl version enough to see the comments?

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I used the trial.

If it’s intention is for spam numbers (and that’s what the site says - haven’t checked so just going off what’s in this thread) then they should be running checks to make sure numbers are NOT private. Just allowing anyone to upload any old shit is nefarious to say the least…