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Now here's one for the board. If an ATF Provider asked you for a favor that would require you possibly being seen in civie land would you. I mean if you were asked to let's say take her to Toys-R-Us to pick up something would you ? Would you ask for compensation ? Would you expect something in return ? At this time of year I feel it is important to be generous with our time and was wondering if any of you had thoughts on this. ...... I am now strapping on my Kevlar clothing so as not to be too bruised from the bashing !!! Have Fun !!!!!

I don't expect my friends to give me shit for free, just like I don't want them expecting sex for free...this is a pretty simple business, yet some still manage to fk it up by blurring the lines. Buy at your own risk. No, I would not ask her for anything, because if you feel you are owed then it's not a damn gift to begin with. If you truly want to do this, do it. If you are having to ask the board about compensation or a free blowjob to do this, you're not the type of guy who can afford it without asking for something in return.

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Simply how would it appear to be "seen" with a young gal buying her own gifts.

And just how did you manage to "earn" that MBA?   ;)

Posted By: London Rayne
I don't expect my friends to give me shit for free, just like I don't want them expecting sex for free...this is a pretty simple business, yet some still manage to fk it up by blurring the lines. Buy at your own risk. No, I would not ask her for anything, because if you feel you are owed then it's not a damn gift to begin with. If you truly want to do this, do it. If you are having to ask the board about compentation or a free blowjob to do this, you're not the type of guy who can afford it without asking for something in return.

His post read...going to toys r us WITH HER as if he was going out in public and did not want to be seen. He then said, "Would you ask for compensation" and the list goes on. I understood it just fine...start drinking motha fuka.

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reading  LOL

No problem...but I think that you and Taylor may be twins.

She only "scans" and then replies...often times missing the key point(s).

But blow jobs have a way of making everything right with the world...at least for me  ;)

Posted By: London Rayne
His post made it sound as if he was going out in public with her to toys r us to buy the gifts. He then said, "Would you ask for compensation" and the list goes on.

It did read "What if she asked you to go to Toys R US WITH HER, meaning together. Now, why the hell would she ask him to go with her if she was not in some way suggesting she hoped he would pay? As if lol. You're smarter than that.

I don't certainly think your reading comprehension is all that bad LR... OTOH, I am sometimes quite guilty of not reading the posts properly before responding, but that's more a function of my personality than reading ability. But I always tend to blame it on English not being my mother tongue.. Bwahahahah :D

I'll defer to the OP for additional clarification...but it sure seemed like his ONLY concern is being seen at a toy store with a gal that could perhaps pass for his granddaughter.

Nowhere does he seem terribly concerned about his being asked to pay for her shopping.

The reality is i've had gals ask to head out to a shopping mall or grocery store for "supplies".  Never once felt that I was being "used" as the ATM for that shit...and never was.  Think about it for a moment...if you had cooked when we met and needed something...off WE go to the store to get that item.  I doubt you were suggesting that I am supposed to buy it.  And if you were thinking that...you'd be SOL  ;)

Posted By: London Rayne
It did read "What if she asked you to go to Toys R US WITH HER, meaning together. Now, why the hell would she ask him to go with her if she was not in some way suggesting she hoped he would pay? As if lol. You're smarter than that.

as if he is giving her something and getting nada in return? I am not saying he is worried about the money issue (just pointed out how odd it was she needs a CLIENT to go toy shopping WITH her), but he is asking should he get something in return for this deed. I said no. Either go, or don't go. If you need a reward, then it's not a 'favor' in the first place.

I wouldn't ask someone I considered a friend to pay for me to help them out.  But then I'm that kind of guy.

Perhaps the OP is not that kind of guy...and I'm guessing he is tad confused here.  He wants to help his ATF out yet maintain certain boundaries.  Hence he is asking "us" if he should charge her for his time to take her to a store.

Had he asked directly in his OP if he is expected to buy the toys for her friends/family then I would agree with you.  But trying to abstract that from his OP is a serious stretch.

I'll also guess HE isn't her ATF  LOL

Posted By: London Rayne
as if he is giving her something and getting nada in return? I am not saying he is worried about the money issue (just pointed out how odd it was she needs a CLIENT to go toy shopping WITH her), but he is asking should he get something in return for this deed. I said no. Either go, or don't go. If you need a reward, then it's not a 'favor' in the first place.

The OP's topic sentence: "Now here's one for the board. If an ATF Provider asked you for a favor that would require you possibly being seen in civie land would you." (punctuation should be a ? but I left it as it is in the OP.)

Anything written after this has to be taken in context of that beginning. He is not asking if he should buy her something and take her out in public to do it. He is asking about complying with her request (the favor) if it meant being seen in public with her. His example may not be clear but his topic sentence makes it clear what he is asking.  With this understanding buying her a gift card would not be the proper response to her request. That would be akin to her asking him to call her a cab and he says here is a Visa gift card. Nice but not what she asked.

Your question of why would he ask for compensation is a good one. If he does decide to do her a favor why would he consider compensation. He may have merely thrown that out there as fodder for comment or maybe he does think even if it's a favor compensation is a consideration. I agree when you said this: "If you need a reward, then it's not a 'favor' in the first place."

I first thought he was going to go on about if he were seen in public with her there could be repercussions but he didn't say that. (Though I still think that's what he is concerned about I can't assume I'm right since he doesn't specifically say so.)

To answer the OP. I would have no problem complying with a request like this from one of my favorites if it was possible for me to. I have done so a few times.  

If the OP's concern is about being "seen" by someone since everyone's situation is different I can't say. As for me, I am retired, single, and don't have anyone that would care if I were seen in public with a young or younger woman. I have many friends both male and female (young and old) from my former career. We often get together for lunches/dinners and so on and my family knows this. Any question could be answered as she is one of them. I don't care what anyone thinks when they see me with a provider while out and about. My family doesn't know I frequent escorts but someone asking: Hey, who was that lady/woman I saw your Dad with? wouldn't be a problem.

No I wouldn't expect compensation and would likely turn it down if offered. I would not let it become a regular thing though.

I'll save the good stuff for some other time  ;)

Posted By: Courtney.ova
This is entertaining. Go on...

have a bit of OCD...just a 'tad' perhaps. But I think you've gotten a lil carried away with the 'reading and comprehension challenged' bit  this evening. However, you have neglected to add....there are just as many 'reading and comprehension challenged johns' here if not more than the gals :)  

It's not fair to leave them out now CPA.......or did I miss that somewhere along the thread here ;)

Of course, I will be the first to admit I'm a scanner....no big deal in my book. Now if it's interesting, that's a whole other ballgame my friend, but I think you've forgotten where we are for all intensive purposes.  

Btw, I'm putting in my order, this one time, I'll consider flying coach instead of first class to Chi-town this round...I know it's the coldest month, but February will do just fine. Let me know when you've purchased the tix. Been itchin to get out there, the one city I've only flown in and out of, never the chance to explore. Oh and while we are at it, your time is always OTC (advice included) but MY time....ha, you know my answer to that one LOL.  

And since it is Christmas, Panthera's looking for a ticket to 'London' too. Perhaps you could lend a helping hand, or bring 'London' to him. I took the liberty of informing him for you already. I won't charge you for that service. Promise. ;)

Tis the season to keep on giving............

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Put a puzzle together right now. That's why he didn't answer yet. :D

I read the posts...not always, but sometimes ;). Of course you know me well enough by now it has to interest me on some intellectual level. Yes, I'll admit I 'scan' the first line or two and if I continue without boredom, well there ya go lol. You know I'm not a fan of the infamous 'dick' size threads lol, come on.

Anyhow, regarding this 'broken' english post, no comprendo lol. Not sure what he or 'she' was trying to convey or whatever you and London were bickering about.....but it is cute tho when couples fight ;)

Did I read that right amongst my scan....did say pay 'him'? Is that a joke? In any event, he should clarify his words a bit imo.  

Btw, makeup sex is usually pretty good, how bout you book her a ticket you cheap ol' son of a gun. ;)

I did agree with LR that notbornyesterday is a putz asking the board if he should get paid for his "precious" time  LOL  

You and most others know that I don't charge my gal pals for OTC time...even though many seem content to pick my brain during that time  LOL

I'll check with macdaddy1964 and see if he's willing to pop for LR to make a return trip to the very fucking cold and windy city (It's a whopping 13 here...with wind chills in the single digits).  I don't pay for gals to go on tour...just not my style...but you knew that as well  ;)

As for the OP's English...it wasn't terribly difficult to decipher.  Simply don't read into a post things that aren't there.

As for your reading...HA!  You are a self-admitted scanner  ;)

Posted By: TaylorSteele
I read the posts...not always, but sometimes ;). Of course you know me well enough by now it has to interest me on some intellectual level. Yes, I'll admit I 'scan' the first line or two and if I continue without boredom, well there ya go lol. You know I'm not a fan of the infamous 'dick' size threads lol, come on.  
   
 Anyhow, regarding this 'broken' english post, no comprendo lol. Not sure what he or 'she' was trying to convey or whatever you and London were bickering about.....but it is cute tho when couples fight ;)  
   
 Did I read that right amongst my scan....did say pay 'him'? Is that a joke? In any event, he should clarify his words a bit imo.  
   
 Btw, makeup sex is usually pretty good, how bout you book her a ticket you cheap ol' son of a gun. ;)

What kind of jerk off brings his favorite hooker to toys r us?  What do you get off going down the barbie aisle....freak! Then again Maybe she would compensate you with lunch at chuckie cheese or a quick handy in the parking lot? Good luck dude! Xo

Go and read the OP's post again.....

The hooker asked HIM to take her shopping.

Did you actually get a GED?  Or is this something you are planning on getting soon?

Seems like too many of the hookers on GLS are simply dumber than boxes of rocks  LOL

Fortunately most guys don't read your website drivel or idiotic posts....they just look at the pictures  ;)

Posted By: danicany
What kind of jerk off brings his favorite hooker to toys r us?  What do you get off going down the barbie aisle....freak! Then again Maybe she would compensate you with lunch at chuckie cheese or a quick handy in the parking lot? Good luck dude! Xo

What type of genius takes sarcastic posts on a fuckboard way too seriouslyyyyy ...and no one was taking anyone shopping ....it was an inside joke so please stfu  

Posted By: ChgoCPA
Go and read the OP's post again.....  
   
 The hooker asked HIM to take her shopping.  
   
 Did you actually get a GED?  Or is this something you are planning on getting soon?  
   
 Seems like too many of the hookers on GLS are simply dumber than boxes of rocks  LOL  
   
 Fortunately most guys don't read your website drivel or idiotic posts....they just look at the pictures  ;)  
   
Posted By: danicany
What kind of jerk off brings his favorite hooker to toys r us?  What do you get off going down the barbie aisle....freak! Then again Maybe she would compensate you with lunch at chuckie cheese or a quick handy in the parking lot? Good luck dude! Xo

Yet you couldn't figure out where to post it to the OP.

OK...you'll have to sit with BigPapi for another class on internet sarcasm.

Nice attempt at catching your faux pas.   LOL

Posted By: danicany
What type of genius takes sarcastic posts on a fuckboard way too seriouslyyyyy ...and no one was taking anyone shopping ....it was an inside joke so please stfu  
   
Posted By: ChgoCPA
Go and read the OP's post again.....  
     
  The hooker asked HIM to take her shopping.  
     
  Did you actually get a GED?  Or is this something you are planning on getting soon?  
     
  Seems like too many of the hookers on GLS are simply dumber than boxes of rocks  LOL  
     
  Fortunately most guys don't read your website drivel or idiotic posts....they just look at the pictures  ;)  
     
Posted By: danicany
What kind of jerk off brings his favorite hooker to toys r us?  What do you get off going down the barbie aisle....freak! Then again Maybe she would compensate you with lunch at chuckie cheese or a quick handy in the parking lot? Good luck dude! Xo

eally guy? What faux paus? I posted in the wrong place who gives a shit ?You apparently !! Its ter get a fucking grip!! You must pull some hot chicks with that sparkling personality of yours.... fuck off already  

Posted By: ChgoCPA
Yet you couldn't figure out where to post it to the OP.  
   
 OK...you'll have to sit with BigPapi for another class on internet sarcasm.  
   
 Nice attempt at catching your faux pas.   LOL  
   
Posted By: danicany
What type of genius takes sarcastic posts on a fuckboard way too seriouslyyyyy ...and no one was taking anyone shopping ....it was an inside joke so please stfu    
     
Posted By: ChgoCPA
Go and read the OP's post again.....    
       
   The hooker asked HIM to take her shopping.    
       
   Did you actually get a GED?  Or is this something you are planning on getting soon?    
       
   Seems like too many of the hookers on GLS are simply dumber than boxes of rocks  LOL    
       
   Fortunately most guys don't read your website drivel or idiotic posts....they just look at the pictures  ;)    
       
   
Posted By: danicany
What kind of jerk off brings his favorite hooker to toys r us?  What do you get off going down the barbie aisle....freak! Then again Maybe she would compensate you with lunch at chuckie cheese or a quick handy in the parking lot? Good luck dude! Xo

Back_In_Black991 reads

If your trying to get me jealous , its working .........xoxoxo....

Posted By: danicany
 
 Really guy? What faux paus? I posted in the wrong place who gives a shit ?You apparently !! Its ter get a fucking grip!! You must pull some hot chicks with that sparkling personality of yours.... fuck off already  
Posted By: ChgoCPA
Yet you couldn't figure out where to post it to the OP.  
     
  OK...you'll have to sit with BigPapi for another class on internet sarcasm.  
     
  Nice attempt at catching your faux pas.   LOL  
     
Posted By: danicany
What type of genius takes sarcastic posts on a fuckboard way too seriouslyyyyy ...and no one was taking anyone shopping ....it was an inside joke so please stfu    
       
   
Posted By: ChgoCPA
Go and read the OP's post again.....    
         
    The hooker asked HIM to take her shopping.    
         
    Did you actually get a GED?  Or is this something you are planning on getting soon?    
         
    Seems like too many of the hookers on GLS are simply dumber than boxes of rocks  LOL    
         
    Fortunately most guys don't read your website drivel or idiotic posts....they just look at the pictures  ;)    
         
   
Posted By: danicany
What kind of jerk off brings his favorite hooker to toys r us?  What do you get off going down the barbie aisle....freak! Then again Maybe she would compensate you with lunch at chuckie cheese or a quick handy in the parking lot? Good luck dude! Xo

"He shoots spider in the foot, spider tells him to go fk himself...good for you Spider." :)

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Back_In_Black953 reads

Spider and spider , ummm , well , they dig another hole ?  

Hmmmmm, oh he says fu she says fu then > they fuck ? most movies on the we channel ....;).....xoxo

Posted By: London Rayne
"He shoots spider in the foot, spider tells him to go fk himself...good for you Spider." :)

Sorry if I offended you  london with my foul mouth I find your comments funny  and entertaining ...you sound like a cool chick ;)  that douche comment was classic! One of the reasons I keep getting sucked back into peeking on this bs board!

So I guess I can scratch that off my Santa Claus wish list letter "A free Christmas time blow job from London!"

Posted By: London Rayne
I don't expect my friends to give me shit for free, just like I don't want them expecting sex for free...this is a pretty simple business, yet some still manage to fk it up by blurring the lines. Buy at your own risk. No, I would not ask her for anything, because if you feel you are owed then it's not a damn gift to begin with. If you truly want to do this, do it. If you are having to ask the board about compensation or a free blowjob to do this, you're not the type of guy who can afford it without asking for something in return.  

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I think under these conditions
-If she's your ATF
-You genuinely like her
-You're going to an area where you don't think you'll see anyone you know
-You have some free time that won't inconvenience you

Then why not? It doesn't seem like it will hurt, though just make sure it's not a common thing where you turn into her errand boy.

Plus she might treat you to something afterwards :)

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Cosette825 reads

Do you live in such a small town?
Do you not have women friends?
Do you never go OUT on dates with providers?

I'm confused.

Cosette730 reads

make other efforts, because yes you will seem a bit odd to say, "no, I don't want to take you to Toys R Us." Get a delivery service for her or something. This isn't rocket science. Personally, I don't think I would see someone who wouldn't be ok taking me to Toys R Us if we had a lose relationship. Maybe it's just me.

If that's a problem, stay home. If I were to worry about being seen in this case, even if someone paid me, Nope.

But I get that some dudes would be mortified to be seen with a gal 20+ years their junior by someone they knew.

If you have no issues with being seen by someone then I can't imagine why taking her shopping or out to eat is a problem.

Charge her?  For what pray tell.  Oh wait...the gals expect to be compensated for their precious time, so I guess you figure that you should as well  LOL

Posted By: notbornyesterday
Now here's one for the board. If an ATF Provider asked you for a favor that would require you possibly being seen in civie land would you. I mean if you were asked to let's say take her to Toys-R-Us to pick up something would you ? Would you ask for compensation ? Would you expect something in return ? At this time of year I feel it is important to be generous with our time and was wondering if any of you had thoughts on this. ...... I am now strapping on my Kevlar clothing so as not to be too bruised from the bashing !!! Have Fun !!!!!  

ATF's remember favors and doing something expecting nothing in return will payoff in the long run.

ROGM658 reads

I've been seen in public with her. I take her to Dinner and Shopping every now and then.  When we do go it's not in her immediate area around her home. Too much chance of being seen by her Friends and Family. She wants to go to Toys R Us to buy Gifts for her kids. Will go with her on this event.

oryx32584 reads

No problem, I've done it several times but I'm a widower and I'm old enough to look like her grandfather.

and her a mailing address...or something like that?

 
I think you were aborted yesterday.

Posted By: notbornyesterday
Now here's one for the board. If an ATF Provider asked you for a favor that would require you possibly being seen in civie land would you. I mean if you were asked to let's say take her to Toys-R-Us to pick up something would you ? Would you ask for compensation ? Would you expect something in return ? At this time of year I feel it is important to be generous with our time and was wondering if any of you had thoughts on this. ...... I am now strapping on my Kevlar clothing so as not to be too bruised from the bashing !!! Have Fun !!!!!  

.but frankly these girls make great coin. One that can't manage her own affairs is a red flag for me. Maybe she just needs company. I've been the subject of needed company lol. Then she went off and got married. Guess she figured out what she DIDN'T want lmao

Say Ms ATF wants to buy a large swing set for her kid...  it won't fit in her compact car.  Ms ATF knows I own a big truck & asks me to transport her purchase for her.  Will she offer to compensate for the fuel?  Big trucks are notorious gas hogs!  Should I ask her?  
This all depends...  I have done transport for others & they always offered to compensate for expenses.  It's probably better if they do a defined reimbursement instead of a loose 'I owe you' can be misinterpreted or mistaken down the road.  

I have done lots of transport for friends & rarely accept reimbursement.  I would be more concerned over whether being seen together would be damaging or the 'just a friend' story will work.  Or is there a hidden agenda...  you shopping at a toy store...  Is there some subliminal message here?

...to help her PICK UP something.  He wasn't concerned about whether she wanted him to pay for it.  If so, he wouldn't be wondering about getting paid for HIS time?  His main concern was being seen with her.

My impression of the OP was that she wanted him to help her schlep some huge-ass toy home.

Give my posts another read there BigPapi....then let me know.

Or am I going to have to put you, London and danicany in the same reading comprehension class together?

Well, maybe I'll need to put you in a separate one as I doubt you'd pay any attention to the lecturer if LR and danica were sitting in the same room with you  LOL

Posted By: BigPapasan
...to help her PICK UP something.  He wasn't concerned about whether she wanted him to pay for it.  If so, he wouldn't be wondering about getting paid for HIS time?  His main concern was being seen with her.

My impression of the OP was that she wanted him to help her schlep some huge-ass toy home.

Well, now that it's cleared up and CPA lost lol, I was about to ask if this broad did not have transportation which is why she needed the ride, and the help.  

Posted By: BigPapasan
...to help her PICK UP something.  He wasn't concerned about whether she wanted him to pay for it.  If so, he wouldn't be wondering about getting paid for HIS time?  His main concern was being seen with her.

My impression of the OP was that she wanted him to help her schlep some huge-ass toy home.

Back_In_Black689 reads

FUCK ! problem solved , crap delivered and everyone's happy ! Ho ho ho ....;)....

 
 

Posted By: London Rayne
Well, now that it's cleared up and CPA lost lol, I was about to ask if this broad did not have transportation which is why she needed the ride, and the help.  
   
Posted By: BigPapasan
...to help her PICK UP something.  He wasn't concerned about whether she wanted him to pay for it.  If so, he wouldn't be wondering about getting paid for HIS time?  His main concern was being seen with her.  
   
 My impression of the OP was that she wanted him to help her schlep some huge-ass toy home.

depending on who might see you and the ATF together.  The OP does appear to not want to be seen with his ATF.  Regarding the compensation question, sounds like a penny pincher to me.  You would wonder how he can afford to P4P if he has to worry about being compensated for doing someone a favor.

"fantasy world" seperate at all times. They never mix, otherwise they will implode.

Posted By: notbornyesterday
Now here's one for the board. If an ATF Provider asked you for a favor that would require you possibly being seen in civie land would you. I mean if you were asked to let's say take her to Toys-R-Us to pick up something would you ? Would you ask for compensation ? Would you expect something in return ? At this time of year I feel it is important to be generous with our time and was wondering if any of you had thoughts on this. ...... I am now strapping on my Kevlar clothing so as not to be too bruised from the bashing !!! Have Fun !!!!!  
I say why not help them out.  If anyone you know sees you just tell them it's a friend, which is true.  

Probably the determining factor would be, have you trusted them enough to tell them your real name.  Because that's the kind of thing that would come up if you ran into anyone you know.

If you want to help her out, see her a couple of  extra times . . . She gets more $ and you get more attention. Like London says, this is a real simple biz - don't complicate it!!

tg_baby548 reads

choose the manner and place of doing so, and arrange things to they can be done at your own comfort level.

A favor is a favor is a favor...if someone lent YOU money, would you tell them to meet you at XXX branch of XXX bank, underneath the Grandfather clock while it chimed 12 and not a second after the last notes faded out? No.  

Tell her, "I'd LOVE to help you, but I really can't meet you at XXX." What can we do?

Problem solved.

there are no issues such as you are married and you may run into the town gossip at the store, then sure, why not help her out?

Don't insult her by trying to ask her for money.  If you do, that will be the end of that relationship.

If she appreciates your help, and she is a person of some integrity, and she genuinely likes you, then don't worry - you'll see some positive karma eventually.  At least that is my experience.

The thing about that is..
Most religions say that even a selfless deed is selfish.
Bear with me, and think about this for a moment..

When you do a nice deed.. Like donate money, or community service..
You get a good feeling. A buzz from doing what society considers valiant…
That is the reward… So you are really doing good deeds to make yourself feel good…
Feed an addiction. So to speak….

So the real heroes are pissed off because they don't want to do it.  
Something makes them. What do you think that is

Cosette864 reads

But I do agree with you. Doing good deeds is an addiction. From donating to the inability to say no to people, an unsatisfying need to please people and not disappoint them are all serious.

Are you asking what makes someone who doesn't want to feel good do a good deed? A type of sociopath in reverse?

How did you know I was wasted?
But yes... Here is a hangover metaphor, (or whatever you call it) it's mixed with weed.

Two guys see an old woman crossing the street..
She has many bags of groceries, and the light is about to turn green... It's NYC, so they WILL run her over.

One guy goes running out into the street to help her. Taking her bags chest out shoulders high.
"Oh thank you young man" she says as he fills with the goodie two shoes feeling.

The other starts yelling at traffic, getting inbetween said old lady and cars.
"Fucking assholes wait!" "Can't you see the old woman?" He says as trucks, and cars beep, and rev.

Who is the better person? They both are compelled to help someone in need.
One of them gets nothing out of it. One rewards himself.
In OP's case...
He wants a reward.. Great men do not need these boosters OP.

Moral of the story?
Help someone because you know it is the right thing to do...
If you are looking to get anything out of it..
You are doing it for the wrong reasons.
Bad for the soul..

How much community service have you actually done?
Eventually. You loose that good feeling you know. You actually feel pretty shitty after.
Then you face a real moral decision..
You don't want to do it anymore. But do you continue? Or do you quit?

 


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Immanuel Kant argued that a person who performs good deeds but hates doing so is more moral than the person who performs good deed because they enjoy doing so.

The former is making a sacrifice while the latter is following their own selfish ends.

On a strictly logical basis, the statement is unassailable, but personally I'd rather have a world filled with the latter than the former.

89Springer713 reads

Why not ask notbornyesterday to clarify his question?

I go out with my escort friends all the time.  Usually OTC lunch or dinner before, after or during a date.  Even gone apartment hunting with one for her new incall.  What's the big deal?   If I run into someone I know, she's my niece or a friend from work.  Maybe I'm not understanding your issue.

hotplants857 reads

I've not read any other responses. I can only hope someone else has already deconstructed this for you.  

No. I would not ask for compensation from anyone who asked me for a ride  to Toys-r-us. Even if she was a whore.? And no, I would not be worried.  

WTF?

Sorry gang...technical difficulties hit today and..well..that's a whole different post . It seems that Big Papasan is the winner DING DING DING !!!!  

1st----I sucked in English way back when so whack away.....

2nd------All I did was throw out a hypothetical question to see the reaction and BOY WAS THAT FUN!!!!

3rd----I love reading all the snide give and take but I'm a putz as CPA pointed out  so what do I know.  

It was again just a hypothetical question based on a conversation with an ATF that I would without hesitation help in a heartbeat. I would never ask for anything in return as she well knows ( maybe a handy with a  small order of fries and a cold glass of Belvedere but only if it was offered ). Civvie world can be full of accidents waiting to happen especially when there are S.O.'s involved ( on both sides ). I was asking for your opinions on what you the All Knowing Board would do, not your blessings . But hey it was a lot more fun bashing this putz than reading anymore BBFS posts !!

Feel free to carry on .....

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Posted By: realtongueman
Sorry gang...technical difficulties hit today and..well..that's a whole different post . It seems that Big Papasan is the winner DING DING DING !!!!  
   
 1st----I sucked in English way back when so whack away.....  
   
 2nd------All I did was throw out a hypothetical question to see the reaction and BOY WAS THAT FUN!!!!  
   
 3rd----I love reading all the snide give and take but I'm a putz as CPA pointed out  so what do I know.  
   
 It was again just a hypothetical question based on a conversation with an ATF that I would without hesitation help in a heartbeat. I would never ask for anything in return as she well knows ( maybe a handy with a  small order of fries and a cold glass of Belvedere but only if it was offered ). Civvie world can be full of accidents waiting to happen especially when there are S.O.'s involved ( on both sides ). I was asking for your opinions on what you the All Knowing Board would do, not your blessings . But hey it was a lot more fun bashing this putz than reading anymore BBFS posts !!  
   
 Feel free to carry on .....

Purposely but then you knew that LOLOLOLOLOL BWAHAHAHAHAHA

GreekDeprived697 reads

is that I can do whatever I please. A large part of that freedom stems from one of the few quotes I've been able to memorise, "I neither need nor want your approval."

The only other I've been able to retain is "There is no justice more keenly perceived that that of injustice." Oliver Wendell Holmes

Huum come to think of it, I remember "Some people paint pictures and label them, I just paint pictures." or something similar--Sam Ervin during the Water Gate hearings when asked if Nixon was "guilty".

Deprived
Bob

Would you take Civvie friend to Toys-R-Us if, she asks?

If no what is the difference? Are there some neon sign hanging on the neck saying I am an Escort?

These stupid questions come now and again. The answer is, those men with self confidence, knows how to behave as gentlemen in public and carry on normal civilized casual conversation will.

Those men who is asking the question will not because they are self conscious, they think the whole damn world is watching their every move, lacks self confidence will not. You can ask the same question million different ways, the answer is the same, NO, THEY WILL NOT.

Just to answer question straight up. I have taken providers to Macy’s, Dinners, Malls, Apple Store, AT&T phone store, Best Buy, etc. Guess what, not single sales person or cashier in any of those places asked, WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH A PROVIDER?

We also passed, probably, 100 passer, they did not ask, WHY ARE YOU TAKING A PROVIDER TO MACY’S and paying for her dress? Don’t recall the cashier or my bank asking the question when I put it on my Debit Card.

Any questions?

-- Modified on 12/7/2013 12:30:26 AM

perhaps you missed the point of S.O.'s..... Sometimes at this time of year their are maybe 1 or 2  people shopping and maybe ....I know it's a stretch but just maybe someone might be concerned about someone they know seeing them in civvie land which was exactly what was originally posted. It was a simple question and it provided much relief from the squirting , am I Big enough and does she love me that we usually see ....

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