This is going to be a little out of the ordinary, but I don't know where else to put it. I love the feeling of being so attracted to a provider that it's like gravity pulling me to her, and the longer it gets drawn out, the more exciting it is. Getting "down to business" is great, but it's the time before, the anticipation, that force pulling me toward her that I look for. I guess that's my version of "chasing the dragon" in the hobby. I'm grateful for providers who understand that part of the experience and know how to turn that gravity on and make it last.  

What about the other 3 forces? lol

But the best part is when she's done rocking my world, she or I leave. None of the drama or bullshit. That's perfect!

it as precisely that.  When I told him about my Hobby Experiences he told me "do you realize that you describe the signs of an addict - you love the anticipation but not really the outcome"

Why not just not see any of the providers? It would be like they all left!

Unfortunately, my situation doesn't often give me the luxury of booking in advance, but when I can, yeah, there's the buildup before the meeting, but then once I'm in the room with her, I just want that pull toward her to last forever. The longer it lasts, the better it feels when that first touch finally comes.

Of course, if she cancels at the last minute, the beautiful hours or days of anticipation is like a gift.

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Why not just not see any of the providers? It would be like they all left!  
   
 I book a couple of weeks in advance, and it's difficult for me to sleep once it's down the last two days or so.

I always worry that any over-anticipation will dull the actual encounter. It hasn't happened yet, but I feel that if I get too worked up and set expectations unrealistically high, the encounter will ultimately fade in comparison. Gotta keep them emotions in check

That certain "Brown Eyed Girl". Will it be better than the first time? Will the chemistry be there this time? Will "I" be up for it? and so on.

Just kidding..

whole experience so delicious. When done right, the sensation is exquisite, and I'll often cream my panties at the mere sight of an email address in my inbox. I adore it when gents book in advance. There's a sweet spot of "in advance": too far in advance and you can run out of things to talk about. To little and there's no build-up.  

You did what with your aunt now?  What kind of desires was she seeking from an 8 year old

Ah, Sarah, it's also nice to find a provider who gets it. Some don't even give you a chance to take in those amazing moments. I'm not complaining about the immediate action, mind you, but the one who uses her allure from the moment the door opens to create a steadily building experience, full of potential and desire, will leave a more lasting impression, for me, anyway.

That's why I say it's nice to find the ones who get it and even enjoy it. It's like the art of seduction - not just relying on physical attraction, but using it as the springboard for something even more amazing to increase desire and therefore enhance anything that follows.

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even once the "waiting game" has ended and we're in the room together.  i think there are physical ways to do that that really enhance the journey.  the destination is great, but i enjoy the path there as well.

Then I definitely need to look you up if I'm in your town!

and you begin to realize that you're probably getting laid tonight?  That's what it feels like to me - my new, warm, confident smile and a new glint in my eye that she shares.