always wondered what one should do if the provider isn't as advertised.  do you just walk away, or do you HAVE to go through with it?

...except die one day. If you feel you are the victim of a bait and switch then you can just walk away. Some guys just let the little head do the thinking for them and continue with the switched girl anyway. Sometimes it works out sometimes it doesn't.

You have the choice to do anything you want, stay, walk away, whatever.

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I guess you HAVE to do it.

I have seen a couple where the pics were old and they look quite a bit different from their pics. These ladies are always well reviewed and I would never want to hurt their feelings so I go through with it. It's always been worthwhile and they are always sweet ladies but it's just a bit of a surprise. If there's one message I could get across to all the ladies it would be for them to keep their pictures current. You may not think you have changed much in 5 years but most of us have.

I stay.  Little head talks, and always worried if there is going to be a scene if I split.  Who wants a hooker screaming down a hotel hallway at you or even getting all out of hand in the room.  Maybe she starts calling your number to be annoying?  

I hate B&S, but do not want any trouble.

My one and only lesson in bait and switch, was also my one lesson in upselling. I went through with it and chalked it up to part of my education.

... to allow it to happen.  There are obviously enough guys who go through with the appointment, even though the woman is not the woman that was expected, to make it worth the woman's time to do it.  If every guy left, this practice would stop very quickly.

The ladies in question are making enough money off the practice they will continue to do it until we all change the way we handle it.  

I have been fortunate to have not had this problem yet but I am a UTR kind of guy and see a very select few ladies.

If you read ripoff and low rated reviews you will notice a trend. Even if you think the girl is attractive, even hotter than the pics, the deception on the pics will probably be a trend if you go through with the date. She will likely not deliver on other things that were advertised.

This is when you have to have self disipline and let the head on your shoulders do the thinking and decision making, otherwise you will probably be disappointed in the end. Again reading low rated reviews will reveal this to you without having to have a personal experiance..