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So I totally bitched out Match guys for not paying for dates...
Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 2142 reads
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Wrote a scolding profile to the cheap-o's, but congratulated the guys who aren't cheap lol.  

Figured since I'm sailing out my subscription, what the hell? I raise hell here, why not there? LOL

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russbbj809 reads

I did when I was on that loser site

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Jacque_Jenesais745 reads

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go4milfsandgreek618 reads

because they are saving their $$ for hobbying

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GaGambler816 reads

What did Courtney do to you to deserve such ire?

Wishing for someone to get outed is a kind of severe even for a little pussy brown envelope like you, Unless of course you have a good reason. If you do, let's hear it, if not please GFY

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Jacque_Jenesais587 reads

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Jacque_Jenesais727 reads

If they won't pay for coffee, they're not gonna' pay my rates lmao

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My_New_Alias731 reads

If it's not P4P, why should the guy always pay?  It's not 1950 anymore.  Women can work outside the home now.

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Back_In_Black694 reads

She has a good career and said it was dumb .  

And yeah she said "it ain't 1950 " !  
 

Posted By: My_New_Alias
If it's not P4P, why should the guy always pay?  It's not 1950 anymore.  Women can work outside the home now.

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Cosette552 reads

Otherwise it was dutch so I didn't feel like I owed him anything.

If he paid, I'd pay for drinks afterwards, or dessert.

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Back_In_Black638 reads

You know what , its nice .  
Personally I like little gestures , could be a card or a small gift . But it is nice when someone reciprocates back . Movie tickets . And yes when the lady offers to give me her passion the bills on me and the dessert on her xoxoxo.

Posted By: Cosette
Otherwise it was dutch so I didn't feel like I owed him anything.  
   
 If he paid, I'd pay for drinks afterwards, or dessert.
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Back_In_Black555 reads

So I don't like the gay movement. Think its well, gay ???? Fred and Ted shouldn't give head .

Hey your kinda cute , well the parts I can see in your pics xoxoxo , and your sweet . Listen if you ever want to use me for sex , feel free and dinners me xoxoxo.

And I leave tips xoxoxo again cause ur so c u t e

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My_New_Alias590 reads

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Cosette645 reads

A chill bar drinking alone, perhaps on a laptop.

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Back_In_Black620 reads

For the free wi fi , like a cafe ? Guess a lot of girls do that now .  

Have coffee , talk read  etc .. is that what your talking about , just curious.

Posted By: Cosette
A chill bar drinking alone, perhaps on a laptop.

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Jacque_Jenesais557 reads

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My_New_Alias487 reads

On first dates now, I always go Dutch, otherwise expectations get screwed up.  After that, I'm happy to pay sometimes, but not always.  And I find most women actually want to pay at least their own way most of the time.

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Jacque_Jenesais579 reads

they can at least spend a little on a measly meal.

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margomatisse532 reads

Who asked who out...

If I asked a guy out, I'd pay. If he asked me out, he'd pay. Or she'd pay, if it was a lady asking me out. In fact, I got that whole idea from my Sapphic dating adventures...seems fair for the straights and the gays!, and everyone in between :D

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oldted585 reads

The lady may say its ok, but in her mind she thinks you are a putz, and she'd be right.

Posted By: My_New_Alias
If it's not P4P, why should the guy always pay?  It's not 1950 anymore.  Women can work outside the home now.

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hotplants577 reads

There is the chivalry thing. I get that. But...has been said, this is not 1950. Not even 1990. Many women (perhaps even yourself) make as much $ (if not more) than any guy they're on a date with.  

What that old fashioned chivalry really translates to when a guy is paying for everything is usually (often? always?) interpreted, by men, (women as well?) as 'paying ahead' for sex they expect to get. If that's your interpretation as well, great.  

OTOH, if you're looking to level that assumption, going dutch on a date is not a bad start. Just sayin'

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Back_In_Black542 reads

And forgetting those big Os  ?  
Will you stop it already , you were putty in my arms . But calling me CPA ? Kinda ruined it for me !  

Posted By: hotplants
There is the chivalry thing. I get that. But...has been said, this is not 1950. Not even 1990. Many women (perhaps even yourself) make as much $ (if not more) than any guy they're on a date with.  
   
 What that old fashioned chivalry really translates to when a guy is paying for everything is usually (often? always?) interpreted, by men, (women as well?) as 'paying ahead' for sex they expect to get. If that's your interpretation as well, great.  
   
 OTOH, if you're looking to level that assumption, going dutch on a date is not a bad start. Just sayin'.  
   
   
   
   
 
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Ladybutler626 reads

eally... I just want your money.   I wish I did not have to fake it.... Two hours of your shit and i want you gone....just so i can wash you off of me...ugh...really
 

Posted By: Back_In_Black
And forgetting those big Os  ?  
 Will you stop it already , you were putty in my arms . But calling me CPA ? Kinda ruined it for me !  
   
Posted By: hotplants
There is the chivalry thing. I get that. But...has been said, this is not 1950. Not even 1990. Many women (perhaps even yourself) make as much $ (if not more) than any guy they're on a date with.    
     
  What that old fashioned chivalry really translates to when a guy is paying for everything is usually (often? always?) interpreted, by men, (women as well?) as 'paying ahead' for sex they expect to get. If that's your interpretation as well, great.    
     
  OTOH, if you're looking to level that assumption, going dutch on a date is not a bad start. Just sayin'.  
     
     
     
     
 
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Back_In_Black458 reads

Love your reviews !

Posted By: Ladybutler
 
 Really... I just want your money.   I wish I did not have to fake it.... Two hours of your shit and i want you gone....just so i can wash you off of me...ugh...really  
   
   
Posted By: Back_In_Black
And forgetting those big Os  ?    
  Will you stop it already , you were putty in my arms . But calling me CPA ? Kinda ruined it for me !    
     
Posted By: hotplants
There is the chivalry thing. I get that. But...has been said, this is not 1950. Not even 1990. Many women (perhaps even yourself) make as much $ (if not more) than any guy they're on a date with.    
       
   What that old fashioned chivalry really translates to when a guy is paying for everything is usually (often? always?) interpreted, by men, (women as well?) as 'paying ahead' for sex they expect to get. If that's your interpretation as well, great.    
       
   OTOH, if you're looking to level that assumption, going dutch on a date is not a bad start. Just sayin'.    
       
       
       
       
   
   
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russbbj482 reads

The man should pay for dinner, it's a nice gesture if the woman says "well let me get the tip then". While it's not 1950 anymore and a lot of women make very good money, I look at it this way, every woman I'be ever been on a date with has spent considerably more than I have to prepare for the date, both makeup and time. So I think I should pay for the date, but again if she wants to leave the tip o pay the parking I think that's a nice gesture. All of this comes from a man that will never go on another civie date again. The women in here give me everything I need with no bullshit and no stupid games to play. Besides now that I've had the taste of these beautiful young women why would I want to go back to the kind of women that I could attract and not be guaranteed to get laid. Hell no, ain't no upside to that equation

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Jacque_Jenesais624 reads

lol

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ArthurDent504 reads

I'd pay for your dinner.

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ArthurDent445 reads

Geez, it's like drama land out here.  I guess I'm too old or something, but on a first date, I'll pick up the lot.  Even the cover for the swinger's club.

I'm glad you bitched them out.  Nothing wrong to ask a guy to act like a gentleman.  And if they only knew what they were missing...  It would be a dream to find a civvie with pro skills.  Or a civvie who is actually an undercover pro.

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nenocnir481 reads

I always pay. Never really even considered doing anything different. I agree with the person who said women spend way more than us just to prepare for the date. I appreciate the effort. If the women really insisted on going dutch OK. But any guy who suggests it shouldn't expect a second date. (Though perhaps that might be your motivation.)

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briannamichelle469 reads

Huh?? Who gets far enough to complain about not getting paid? no offense but if u complain about payment that means you didnt follow protocol and got to the end and got no payment. Well, i hope you learned from it and you follow the protocol next time.

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