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No pay???
Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 2145 reads
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Wrote a scolding profile to the cheap-o's, but congratulated the guys who aren't cheap lol.  

Figured since I'm sailing out my subscription, what the hell? I raise hell here, why not there? LOL

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russbbj 89 Reviews 809 reads
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My_New_Alias 734 reads
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If it's not P4P, why should the guy always pay?  It's not 1950 anymore.  Women can work outside the home now.

Back_In_Black 694 reads
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7 / 38

She has a good career and said it was dumb .  

And yeah she said "it ain't 1950 " !  
 
Posted By: My_New_Alias
If it's not P4P, why should the guy always pay?  It's not 1950 anymore.  Women can work outside the home now.

GaGambler 816 reads
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8 / 38

What did Courtney do to you to deserve such ire?

Wishing for someone to get outed is a kind of severe even for a little pussy brown envelope like you, Unless of course you have a good reason. If you do, let's hear it, if not please GFY

Cosette 552 reads
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9 / 38

Otherwise it was dutch so I didn't feel like I owed him anything.

If he paid, I'd pay for drinks afterwards, or dessert.

Back_In_Black 638 reads
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10 / 38

You know what , its nice .  
Personally I like little gestures , could be a card or a small gift . But it is nice when someone reciprocates back . Movie tickets . And yes when the lady offers to give me her passion the bills on me and the dessert on her xoxoxo.

Posted By: Cosette
Otherwise it was dutch so I didn't feel like I owed him anything.  
   
 If he paid, I'd pay for drinks afterwards, or dessert.
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Cosette 481 reads
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Back_In_Black 555 reads
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12 / 38

So I don't like the gay movement. Think its well, gay ???? Fred and Ted shouldn't give head .

Hey your kinda cute , well the parts I can see in your pics xoxoxo , and your sweet . Listen if you ever want to use me for sex , feel free and dinners me xoxoxo.

And I leave tips xoxoxo again cause ur so c u t e

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 727 reads
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13 / 38

If they won't pay for coffee, they're not gonna' pay my rates lmao

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hotplants 577 reads
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There is the chivalry thing. I get that. But...has been said, this is not 1950. Not even 1990. Many women (perhaps even yourself) make as much $ (if not more) than any guy they're on a date with.  

What that old fashioned chivalry really translates to when a guy is paying for everything is usually (often? always?) interpreted, by men, (women as well?) as 'paying ahead' for sex they expect to get. If that's your interpretation as well, great.  

OTOH, if you're looking to level that assumption, going dutch on a date is not a bad start. Just sayin'

Back_In_Black 542 reads
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And forgetting those big Os  ?  
Will you stop it already , you were putty in my arms . But calling me CPA ? Kinda ruined it for me !  

Posted By: hotplants
There is the chivalry thing. I get that. But...has been said, this is not 1950. Not even 1990. Many women (perhaps even yourself) make as much $ (if not more) than any guy they're on a date with.  
   
 What that old fashioned chivalry really translates to when a guy is paying for everything is usually (often? always?) interpreted, by men, (women as well?) as 'paying ahead' for sex they expect to get. If that's your interpretation as well, great.  
   
 OTOH, if you're looking to level that assumption, going dutch on a date is not a bad start. Just sayin'.  
   
   
   
   
 
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My_New_Alias 590 reads
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Cosette 645 reads
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19 / 38

A chill bar drinking alone, perhaps on a laptop.

Ladybutler 626 reads
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eally... I just want your money.   I wish I did not have to fake it.... Two hours of your shit and i want you gone....just so i can wash you off of me...ugh...really
 

Posted By: Back_In_Black
And forgetting those big Os  ?  
 Will you stop it already , you were putty in my arms . But calling me CPA ? Kinda ruined it for me !  
   
Posted By: hotplants
There is the chivalry thing. I get that. But...has been said, this is not 1950. Not even 1990. Many women (perhaps even yourself) make as much $ (if not more) than any guy they're on a date with.    
     
  What that old fashioned chivalry really translates to when a guy is paying for everything is usually (often? always?) interpreted, by men, (women as well?) as 'paying ahead' for sex they expect to get. If that's your interpretation as well, great.    
     
  OTOH, if you're looking to level that assumption, going dutch on a date is not a bad start. Just sayin'.  
     
     
     
     
 
-- Modified on 10/21/2013 3:15:20 PM

My_New_Alias 487 reads
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21 / 38

On first dates now, I always go Dutch, otherwise expectations get screwed up.  After that, I'm happy to pay sometimes, but not always.  And I find most women actually want to pay at least their own way most of the time.

Back_In_Black 458 reads
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22 / 38

Love your reviews !

Posted By: Ladybutler
 
 Really... I just want your money.   I wish I did not have to fake it.... Two hours of your shit and i want you gone....just so i can wash you off of me...ugh...really  
   
   
Posted By: Back_In_Black
And forgetting those big Os  ?    
  Will you stop it already , you were putty in my arms . But calling me CPA ? Kinda ruined it for me !    
     
Posted By: hotplants
There is the chivalry thing. I get that. But...has been said, this is not 1950. Not even 1990. Many women (perhaps even yourself) make as much $ (if not more) than any guy they're on a date with.    
       
   What that old fashioned chivalry really translates to when a guy is paying for everything is usually (often? always?) interpreted, by men, (women as well?) as 'paying ahead' for sex they expect to get. If that's your interpretation as well, great.    
       
   OTOH, if you're looking to level that assumption, going dutch on a date is not a bad start. Just sayin'.    
       
       
       
       
   
   
 -- Modified on 10/21/2013 3:15:20 PM

My_New_Alias 536 reads
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Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 579 reads
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margomatisse See my TER Reviews 534 reads
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Who asked who out...

If I asked a guy out, I'd pay. If he asked me out, he'd pay. Or she'd pay, if it was a lady asking me out. In fact, I got that whole idea from my Sapphic dating adventures...seems fair for the straights and the gays!, and everyone in between :D

oldted 16 Reviews 586 reads
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The lady may say its ok, but in her mind she thinks you are a putz, and she'd be right.

Posted By: My_New_Alias
If it's not P4P, why should the guy always pay?  It's not 1950 anymore.  Women can work outside the home now.

russbbj 89 Reviews 482 reads
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The man should pay for dinner, it's a nice gesture if the woman says "well let me get the tip then". While it's not 1950 anymore and a lot of women make very good money, I look at it this way, every woman I'be ever been on a date with has spent considerably more than I have to prepare for the date, both makeup and time. So I think I should pay for the date, but again if she wants to leave the tip o pay the parking I think that's a nice gesture. All of this comes from a man that will never go on another civie date again. The women in here give me everything I need with no bullshit and no stupid games to play. Besides now that I've had the taste of these beautiful young women why would I want to go back to the kind of women that I could attract and not be guaranteed to get laid. Hell no, ain't no upside to that equation

ArthurDent 32 Reviews 504 reads
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ArthurDent 32 Reviews 445 reads
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Geez, it's like drama land out here.  I guess I'm too old or something, but on a first date, I'll pick up the lot.  Even the cover for the swinger's club.

I'm glad you bitched them out.  Nothing wrong to ask a guy to act like a gentleman.  And if they only knew what they were missing...  It would be a dream to find a civvie with pro skills.  Or a civvie who is actually an undercover pro.

Back_In_Black 620 reads
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For the free wi fi , like a cafe ? Guess a lot of girls do that now .  

Have coffee , talk read  etc .. is that what your talking about , just curious.
Posted By: Cosette
A chill bar drinking alone, perhaps on a laptop.

nenocnir 12 Reviews 481 reads
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I always pay. Never really even considered doing anything different. I agree with the person who said women spend way more than us just to prepare for the date. I appreciate the effort. If the women really insisted on going dutch OK. But any guy who suggests it shouldn't expect a second date. (Though perhaps that might be your motivation.)

briannamichelle 470 reads
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Huh?? Who gets far enough to complain about not getting paid? no offense but if u complain about payment that means you didnt follow protocol and got to the end and got no payment. Well, i hope you learned from it and you follow the protocol next time.

go4milfsandgreek 144 Reviews 618 reads
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