and since no money exchanges hands unless and until we agree that we are a "fit" and we agree to go BCD I have found myself very forgiving where it comes to being catfished, but back to the question you actually asked, in the hooker world I am MUCH less forgiving, if I feel I have been misled and that the lady lied about either her age, her weight, or anything else that I find material I will turn around and walk out in a heartbeat, and I most definitely will not leave a single penalty for "her time" if I could, I'd send a bill for my time which is worth as much as any providers. I do not believe in "rewarding bad behavior" and those guys who stick it out and go through with the session anyhow are doing us all a disservice.

 
I will confess it doesn't happen to me often, but due to some reviewers in desperate need of either glasses or taste, I can't say that it never happens either. My advice to you is to be part of the solution and not part of the problem. PLEASE don't reward B&S hookers for lying to you, it only encourages them to do more of the same.

Most on my pro visits have been to providers reviewed here, so mostly I know what they look like.   Can never be sure of getting a good performance, but mostly as expected, some pluses and minuses.  My most memorable minus experience was when the provider passed out while blowing me.  I put a blanket on her and let myself out.  But nothing really foreshadowed that when I first walked in and the money was already delivered by the time she conked out.  I wasn't going to try to steal the money back.

A few times.. sort if a feeling like.
.  Damn... I have to go through with this  
Recently saw a girl I saw on that horny jungle animal site.. she was high.. very loopy.. I wanted to review her here.. but the only web site she has is on that site..so I couldnt..

I've never turned away a girl who is an outcall and comes to my hotel. There is only one time that I should have and it was in Nashville, TN. She was a good 40lbs over her stated already Rubenesque size, but turned out to be a pretty damn good f***k. So, you never know.

The time I did turn around and walk away was when I went to her hotel room. I felt kind of bad, but by her reaction, it wasn't the first time it happened to her.

Whether a good reason or not, the reasoning on outcall, is its a lot of work, stress, expense, and effort to do outcall for a provider. Also, she now knows my location and I can't go anywhere. With Incall, I can easily turn around and walk away, and I was the one who went to a lot of effort to get there.

Ordered up some take out on eros and a totally different girl showed up. It was pouring out . Answered the door, said this isn't going to work out and let her go. I was not in the mood for bs that day.
        Two other times I should have asked them to leave. One just recently.

When you turn around and walk away how do the providers react? My fear is that they would have someone near by that will follow me to my car or something. Or simply cause a scene and draw attention.

But only when I feel the provider has misrepresented herself in her ad.  I start with the info they provide in their ad profile (not their review profile because that is done by a reviewer and not the girl), and I will add 5 years to their stated age (10 years for Asians) , 10 pounds to their stated weight up to a height of 5-6, and 15 pounds if they are taller than that.  This flexibility allows for a little photoshopping to spruce of her presentation without making an outright misrepresentation.  Anytime a girl is clearly outside my parameters when I first see her in person, I leave.  I haven't counted, but its been less than a dozen out of about 750 providers over the years I have been in P4P.  I do my research, and I never saw girls from sketchy sites such as CL or BP, so being careful helps.  

I almost did once...

While she had a gorgeous body, she never showed her face in her photos, and it  became apparent why.

It was a pretty homely face to be quite honest.

Nevertheless I stayed and in retrospect I'm glad I did because she ended up being an excellent provider whom I continued to see until she retired.

Now on the other hand there were two or three that knowing afterwards what the session would be like I should have turned around, but that's a different question.

Twice for sure ...

But I feel there may have been one or maybe two more.....It's all been a blur.
Check out the reviews of the ones I do remember....both are kinda funny

https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=225977

"Got Bait N Switched" last June in Philly by what appeared to be a gorgeous 24 yr old Russian indie stunner I found on Eros with only a cell # and no links to anything else. (Big mistake) Booked 90 min @ 600. Entered her room in a 5* hotel only to be met by a 45+ yo milf who might have been the same girl in the pics but 20 yrs older!! Actually decent looking for 45+ and had I met her under dif circumstances it could have worked.  
Looked her over and said "Nyet, nyet,  I`m outta here". She became visibly upset and started to cry saying  the  agency did this and not her and she would get in trouble with them. Of course stupid me bought this act and I TOFTT and regretted it. Drive home sucked being out 660 knowing I should have walked.

Part 2 later

Sad.

I update my photos as much as possible.  I have a new photo shoot today.  When I loose, or gain weight I will post an older photo that reflects myself at the current pounds.  I offer a meet & greet to see if we maybe be compatible just in case one does not want to fully commit to a playdate. I get it.

I have only had someone walk away once, and that was because he did not read my reviews, or website where it clearly stated I am pierced & have tattoos.  He was not a fan of tattoos. If you do not, like beautiful body art, do not attempt to book with me.

Honesty & integrity is sexy.

Part 2 different ending.
 Stupid me didn`t learn his lesson last time and went back for a gorgeous indie Slavic slut from Ukraine I also found on Eros with only a cell# and no links to anywhere. Nika was her name. Texted her and made a date in Plym Mtg for a Sat 11 AM just over a month ago. Returned my texts promptly with lots of smiley, kisses and heart emojis. (Agency for sure)
Get to her rm on time and when I enter I find her to be 3+ yrs older and 10 lbs heavier but still doable if she was nice and a good kisser.  
I mention to her that her suite is really nice and she replies with a meh, seen better. Ok, I put the envelope with 600 for 90 mins.  on her night table then proceed to sit on the bed and try to make warm up small talk. "Is this your first time in Philly and do you like it here?" No answer! "Where will you tour next, DC, NY?" No answer! Where in Ukraine do you live, Kiev?" Nods her head yes.. Next she turns to me with her palms up and says with an insolent tone in  her
 voice "Vat eez deez, interview? Why you ask deez question?"  This foreign c*** has a huge attitude and does not want to be here no way, no how.  No way can I continue with her so in a polite way I tell her this isn`t going to work and I`m leaving and she responds by shrugging her shoulders in a disconcerting way.

I get up and lean over and grab my envelope and overtly stuff it in my pocket  saying "Gee Nika, guess you won`t be needing this today now will you?"  Blank expression is her response. I`m just about to exit and I turn and say that she should take  her next date money and buy a one way ticket to Kiev and get a job pumping gas over there cause she`s pathetic at being a hooker.
I never got nasty or abusive or lost my cool and just walked to my car and drove the 90 mins.  home calculating  my losses which amounted to a 100 mg V pill, gas and tolls, 4hrs wasted time but with the envelope in my pocket which saved the day  Wouldn`t you know it about 1/2 way home I get a text from her agency handler telling me how sorry she is that her girl was so rude etc. Asked if she could hook me up with a better girl at a discounted price? Riiight.

Russian agencies suck, no more for me.

Lemme Outa Here

My policy has always been, if its not the provider described and/or the photo or a reasonable facsimile I just say "Sorry" Or "This isn't gonna work" and leave.  OK, so I respond to an ad, easy arrangement but whoops!  Not even close to the photo not even the same person.  I go, "Sorry but you're not the lady I was expecting" and turn to go.  Wham! She throws herself against the door and slips on the chain.  I am thinking WTF?  Gotta be high.  So. I back up to gain a little space and say, "What happens now?"  I am thinking, right about now her boyfriend is gonna show up.  Crap.   But no boyfriend and she is still holding the door. I'm thinking oh man all I need is a fight with a hooker.  I sit on the bed and wait a minute or so.  "Now what?"  Obviously she doesn't know either.  Finally I say "Look, if this goes on I'm gonna have to call the cops and then we're both goin' to jail." ( In reality I would have called the front desk first  and asked them to send somebody up).  But that shook her loose and she gets away from the door and starts the standard set of curses.  Me, I just grab my metaphorical hat and leave.  There is a lesson there but I am not sure what it is.

Happened twice. Never again. You answer the door and you are there standing buck naked for me to inspect the goods or I turn around and leave ASAP.

Most of the time I'll just politely decline the appt and walk away. But there have been a few times where I stayed because I had a decent "vibe" and ended up enjoying the session. Some of those times the women told me the ad was posted by a friend or they had been given (bad) advice about what photos they should use. I've always told them they're more likely to lose business with that strategy. All that being said, if I get any kind of "bad faith" vibe then I'm out of there asap.

I have only had one client do this to me. I had met him before our date for a drink and felt like we clicked pretty well. He had a pretty elaborate request for a dominatrix session that did take me awhile to set it up. He shows up and we chatted for a bit and then I started going over everything and he just says "I can't do this" and walked out. I was more ticked at the amount of time I wasted getting everything ready and then ended up making $0.

Probably not enough.  LOL

Not often enough. More often then not I will go though with the appointment. Need to "Mikey" up on these occasions and turn around and walk.

I’m not Captain Kirk, I’m not trying to go where no man has gone before.  I like lots of pic, lots of reviews and lots of high service ratings.  I was running 100%, then TER went down and I used a local review board full of women at a lower price point, that I had stellar success with before. Of course she was my 4th string back up, but all other options evaporated that evening, and she was all there was.  I generally go for 9’s in looks and 10’s in performance, she appeared to be 7 by 10 in reviews, and I was prepared for 6 by 9, I got 3 by 7.  I should have walked at first sight, but I was so surprised that I couldn’t believe it.  To her credit, she worked hard (I worked harder though), but I didn’t feel good about the experience.  

Afterwards I had that, I’m done with this hobby attitude, but decided to roll the dice a month later with two visiting Argentinian Playboy models, and got my mojo back . . . What can I say, I’m an addict.