You decide to see a well-known provider who updates her site regularly and her photos yearly or twice a year.  How do you react if she is **slightly** different than her photos and/or reviews portray?  

Some examples: she has gained or lost 10 lbs. (enough to notice, not enough to change her body type), she is tanner or paler, she suddenly has freckles, her hair is different, she no longer shaves where she shaved before or vice versa?  

Obviously, some of these things are simple enough to ask about and if it's that important  you might just do that though the majority might not.  

But, how would you react?  Would you feel slighted or would you think it's natural, especially for a woman, to slightly change her look from time to time and not worry about it?

Kate

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A lady's entitled to keep fresh and change her persona a bit.  I don't try to emulate my ID photos all the time...

she shaved before?  LOL  Depends on where she was shaving before!

We all change things about ourselves all the time.
Maybe cut our hair, in my case, the 3 or 4 that are left, gain/lose a bit of weight, get a tan, blah, blah, blah.

If we were to update photos everytime it would cost a fortune.
As long as the basic "look/image" is the same who cares.

I have a friend here, who I haven't seen in quite a while.
I am hoping to rectify that soon, but I know she has cut her hair.
I am very much looking forward to seeing her "new look".

Allow yourself the pleasure of changing once in a while if you want.

If I get the chance, I'd see you no matter what.

Just my opinion...

in the ad.  I especially do not like it if they show up with their face not blacked out...  kinda takes away the mystery....  lol!

After all, I think that the ladies would be really upset if I showed up and was not really green!  Kinda my calling card....

Minor changes are totally to be expected.  The pictures on a provider's website are meant to give you a general idea of her appearance, not a template to be cast in stone.

If there are certain things that are important to you as a client, make sure you mention them in advance.  If it's vital to you that a lady be completely shaved in her nether regions, don't just rely on a vague hint of a lack of shadow in a small soft-focus photo; I'm positive that no reputable provider is going to be taken aback by that request.

I might be a little taken aback if the website shows a lovely redhead with hair falling to her waist, while the lady who opens the door has a buzz cut that's dyed in four different Manic Panic colors, or if a lady whose photos showed no tattoos suddenly is sporting ink over most of her visible skin.  That's obviously not the sort of change you're talking about, though.

I've recently cut my hair and my pictures on my website do not show the new do.  Fortunately, I am a very honest person and tell everyone that I've cut my hair before they see me and leave it up to them if they want to cancel (all by email so they don't feel bad if they do cancel). Actually, since my hair was barely shoulder length in my pictures, it's not much of a stretch, and men find my new haircut very cute. It's sort of in the older Meg Ryan style and curls up on the sides. It is actually much more flattering to my small face. So, if men don't want to see me with shorter hair, they don't have to, but it's not worth hundreds of dollars spent on pictures just to show my hair is a little shorter, thank you. The rest of me looks the same -- still shaven, still the same body, etc.

Hugs,
Ciara

...what I see looks beautiful. What I see would look beautiful with or without 10 pounds. What I see would look beautiful with or without freckles. What I see would look beautiful shaven or unshaven.

How would I react? "Hi Kate, I'm Lex. May I say you are even lovelier than your photos..."

particulars.

Its like my SO asking me about an outfit she wore recently, & I agree with her comments, not having a clue what the hell she's referring to.  

I don't remember what hair style, hair color, eye color, clothes -  nothin;  Just whether she was sexy, a knockout, smart, classy, sassy, engaging, or perhaps a wacko -  just sort of the essence, not the particulars.

So, all the things you mentioned Kate, just wouldn't matter to me, and IMHO, most guys!

analytical about feminine wiles, then said wiles haven't been very effective.

If a woman wants the antidote to masculine lovesickness, all she has to do is start cross-examining him about exactly what he saw, or likes, or "you never listen to a word I say".   It'll crush a raging hard-on in milliseconds.

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I would think it might behoove a provider to update her pics more regularly than once or twice a year, but if they were that much off, I'd expect her to say so in intial contact. A simple oh by the way, I've grown a massive bush and have gained 10 more pounds would suffice.

10 lbs weight, shaven or unshaven are hardly noticeable.But,if the pics show a 130 lbs lady, 5'8" and 35C boobs and then I meet a 220lb, 5'3" and 35C boobs lady, I'd be blind not to notice!...lol

My standard answer to that is:

"Yes I did. You said 'blah, blah, blah, American Idol, blah, blah, blah, insenstive SOB, blah, blah, blah.'"

Seems to really piss-off Mrs. L.

unless I specifically was looking for natural and now it is shaved, or a BBW and she recently went on Jenny Craig and now weighs 105 lbs, or I wanted huge EEE implants and she just had them removed to go back to a B cup.

But if its that important the guy ought to ask.

Personally, as long as she's a GFE, plays the accordion and likes to bounce on a trampoline while reciting Lincoln's 2nd inaugural address, I could care less if her pictures are slightly different.

I think if you've gained 10 Lbs, or gone from smooth to fuzzy that you ought to submit new photos.  Guys spend a lot of time choosing the girl that really appeals to them, and are quite specific in their tastes.  If your 5'2" and 115 pounds your topping out as s spinner.  At 125 pounds, you're a little thick.  10 pounds may take you from a $350 provider to a $250.00  That's deceptive. Sorry thats the reality, and you are in the appearance business, the same way as a model or actress. If you were selling a hard top, and advertised it as a convertible, you could expect those to show to be angry couldn't you?

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Dear Kate,  within a reasonable range it should be fine for most men.  I recently saw a provider whos photo was definitely better than the woman who took her clothes off.  10 Lbs. is quite a bit of weight given that a woman will normally put it in the thighs and butt.  I felt a little put off but only for a while until we got to know one another and the caressing started.  If a man sets out looking for a hard body he should get what he is looking to pay for.  If he is just looking for an 'attractive' provider, whatever that means to him, then the range is much more broader.

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Variety is the spice of life. I personally HATE a woman that doesn't try new things (oops, personal exprience showing).

Fortunately, the ladies I have met looked better than their photos.  Now one did have a different hair style, but I love a woman for all that she is. As long as they aren't major changes, I wouldn't see a need to update.  Like someone posted, if something is important, there are ways to ask.