I am seeing a new provider (to me) for the first meet in the next couple of days. I really want to setup a double with her and another provider  I have seen for years.

I know providers have their friends they feel comfortable doing doubles with, as a provider do you do doubles with other providers even if you have not been with them in particular before?

And gents, when do you bring up doubles?

I like doing doubles and the last few I've done have been lots of fun. One of my long term clients of many years asked and I brought an UTR friend (who has recently retired to marry her bf) and we had a blast. Another of my ATF's on TER asked for a double and I brought a new friend, but she and I had sufficient time to talk and figure out if we had a connection before agreeing to do a double.

It all depends...

Figure out if you like her and she's all she's cracked up to be first.

Then ask her who she's comfy with, see a pic, etc... If not, see if you can set the girls up to be with you and let them trade numbers and see if they can make it work. There's a lot that goes into a REAL experience that they will need to figure out first (chemistry, etc...) that they need to figure out on their own.

Katie

In those cases, there's no reason to be bashful.

If a particular provider does not mention it on their site, then I would wait until you each have a comfort factor with each other and then broach it.

Keep in mind that some providers are just not into it, so if that be the case, be prepared for that answer.

just ask, nebbish boy!

during that crazy year in my life of 2005, there was a provider who became my "doubles partner" so to speak. Over the course of 9 or 10 months, I introduced her to over a dozen other ladies ... and we had some amazing experiences.

She was truly bisexual - indeed, I think she may have enjoyed women even more than men. And the other party to these encounters was ALWAYS someone who I already knew and who I had reason to believe would enjoy meeting and playing with "my friend."

Eventually, our relationship ended - badly - at about the same time that Miki and I were getting ready to jump off that cliff without a parachute. And there is some degree of correlation between those two events. But ... it was an amazing year, nevertheless.


Ah, but I was so much older then,
I'm younger than that now.



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The Power of Three will set you free.

assuming you're talking about FMF or FFM doubles, is that the ladies be compatible and comfortable with one another.   My suggestion is that you get to know one lady and then, after a session or two, ask her whether (a) she's interested, and (b) she knows somebody to be the other lady.  Believe me, you'll get much more from the session if the two ladies are comfortable with each other and like each other.

sometimes I have the time available to hobby over an extended period - say for example Thurs, Fri, Sat.
The provider is very well reviewed and in high demand. Presuming there is no bad vibe between us, I imagine we'll get along great and feel comfortable with one another. What's wrong with asking to see more of her AND a friend?