I don't mind if my husband sees a provider. I've even arranged it - and no, I did not participate. I am secure enough to know that I am not being replaced. I prefer it to a tryst with a non-provider. THAT would cause problems. This is just a business relationship for mutual pleasure... not love. Men and women are different. Men need a little variety. It makes for a happier and hornier partner.

Thanks honey...you've been so supportive with all of this

And I'll be sure not to bring anything home that we won't share together.

And I'll still take out the garbage and walk the dogs  

Anyone else have some thoughts? Maybe your SO feels the same way, maybe not? How do you feel?

but if you really are, then congratulations on being so open minded.

you're welcome. My husband always says I think like a man but am all woman.

Check back in 2, 4, 12, and 24 hours. Realize the thread has only been up for one hour! Not many have seen it yet.

asking how to handle the donation on a dinner date! Me thinks my earlier suspicions are correct. Or are you going to claim you were just asking because you are setting up a dinner date for your husband? If you are truly a wife who is okay with your husband having sex for money, would you really be okay with him having dinner dates with providers? Somehow that is harder to believe. I can believe a wife or SO who is okay with the hubby getting sex for pay, but the dinner date thing does not make sense.

Next time you try to fake being someone you are not, don't post two conflicting posts at the same time under the same handle. People do read multiple boards.

Thanks for checking me out... and yes that is a dinner date for my husband. His favorite band is playing there. If there is one thing i've learned from this terrific site - research, research, research.

Here's one of your 3 other posts from the newb board.  I'll let the readers decide what's what.

I'm not sure what you're getting at but thanks to the doubting thomas I can't get any legit feedback on my post. It's not about if I'm real or not (and I am real), it's about understanding my man's desires. I posted because I was interested in hearing a man's perspective on my thoughts. Didn't expect this backlash.

Sorry but your post seemed a bit improbable in light of your other posting.  You started this thread with a statement (a conclusion), not a question.  We'll stipulate that you are the real SO of a potential client, at least in tems of answering a question you present.  So what exactly is the question?
BTW, many new providers have the same issue...  there is only one membership and until the new member either posts reviews or recieves them, the accounts are not differentated.
HV

Thank you!!! Honestly, my feelings were beginning to get hurt. I guess I just want to know if those of you who hobby take the same view as I do... no threat to the family, just a fun pleasure.

You don't get to use that word. You are a Liar.

Capital L. Small i. Small a. Small r. Period.

You posted on the newbie board as a hobbyist, now are trying to get people to believe that
you are "his" wife. Were you lying then, or are you lying now?

Either way, you are a liar and have no credibility here.

It's got nothing to do with the subject of your post, and everything to do with the fact that nobody around here wants to deal with people who like to play stupid games.

.......Cannonhome1, I don't know who or what you are, but you have zero, zip cred here.  You want to stir things up...go do it somewhere else.   And HV, I know you want to be a gentleman, but you cannot stipulate anything for the rest of us, sorry, this poster is just a troublemaking troll, imho.  We already have too many of those.