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Human trafficing
QueenBia See my TER Reviews 1635 reads
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Lovelace is a movie that shares the woman's side to her career where she was abused by her husband, pimped out for money, but never saw a dime. One would assume she enjoyed making the movie Deep Throat, which was a huge success grossing over 600 million. This woman was never happy until she was able to move on, and have her own family. I respect her choice to tell her side of the story. The truth it is a brutal realization that some women in this adult industry are not here on their own free will.  

I am sure some of the providers here are in the same situation, but can not leave because of violent abusive behavior. Maybe a boyfriend, but a husband truly an amazing story. If your a provider who is being abused (mentally, or physically) tell someone who will help, or go to safe place there are many provided for your help now. I cried when I saw this movie because I have seen the movie Deep Throat & it is a classic, but never would have believed she did not enjoy, or want to be an adult star.  

Take a minute to consider the fact that your ATF provider may not be getting any of the money you give her, and she is only seeing you to make a man happy who beats her. Sad, but true. Many will never admit it, but this woman made a movie to share her side because she knows that this is still happening in our world

russbbj 89 Reviews 302 reads
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2 / 7

I had heard somewhere years ago that Linda Lovelace only got like $3500 for doing the movie. But I had no idea she was beat and trafficked by her husband like that. What a real shame because she seemed like a genuinely nice person, and I'm going by interviews with her too and not just the movie. Her talent was awesome, I'm on a quest to get a DT blowjob just like that someday. I've had women DT me before but not the fast repetative piston method LL used. I'm not a big guy so it should be relatively easy to fulfil my quest.

I have always tried to do my due diligence to try to ensure that I don't book with someone who is being trafficked. I guess you can never know for sure, but if I suspected a woman was be trafficked I wouldn't repeat. I think it's a shame that there are women that feel like they have no choice except to be in such a relationship. It's my opinion that you should be here of you own free will or not at all.

Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 257 reads
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3 / 7

Just saw the trailer, looks good...  Has an all star cast...

hardknocks6 37 Reviews 258 reads
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4 / 7

...there are obvious signs -- bruising, phone call at 59 mins, etc.  But what are subtle signs that women are not there of there own will?  I tend to play in the $$$$ range, so I don't run across the "big guy with sunglasses outside the door scenario".

termsofdelicious See my TER Reviews 310 reads
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5 / 7

Actually, I started a discussion on the media board back in the middle of August. Interesting discussion to boot.  
Thanks for bringing this up.  
Linda was forced into her porn career that lasted like 19 days.  
Muah,
Samantha Good

1736687 15 Reviews 215 reads
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6 / 7

a huge bummer of a topic here.. but one that should be discussed.. I Worry about this.. I think/hope that anyone I am with is there because they want to be there..
A buddy of mine loves AMP's.. wants me to go to one.. says a lot cheaper than this.. I frankly,cannot bring myself to start down that path.. way too many opportunities for exploitation.. I've read way too many stories and seen too many news reports..  
I just love meeting new friends with benefits and I don't mind money exchanging hands..

GreekDeprived 188 reads
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7 / 7

I have more than sympathy and empathy for any woman in that situation. But, there is a LOT more to consider.......women who endure being bullied and brutalized that do not wind up as a sex worker.

I would have supported an organization in the Underground Rail Road.

Anonymously I support woman’s shelters, giving a woman who is brave enough to escape either by herself of with her children!!  It ain't perfect, but in a society that turns it’s back on people in desperate situations, shuns providing help that would deflect those lives off such a nightmarish life, but its the only solution that offers a safe haven for escapees, a meager safe start.

What does “boycotting” accomplish?

I avoid any hint of anything that approaches the stereo type of a pimp for my own safety. I like to avoid spending time with anyone who although has good reviews doesn't enjoy.  For me that might indicate abuse, childhood abuse, abuse memories triggered during the meeting that they have “under control”, but that past blocks any possibility of the slightest pleasure.

Two concepts have ripped away mythologies and illusions for me about my exact relationship to any person, how close or far apart we are, lotteries inexorably fuse our kinship.

When one of the richest men in the world asserts he did NOT do it by himself, he was aided by Americans serving in WWII, and those whose lives preceded people in WWII, I listen. When warren Buffet asserts the Womb Lottery blessed him, I listen—his life would have been different if he was born in Bangladesh.

For years there has been controversy of genetics vs nature. What that means has been staring everyone in face for decades.  

You are the result of a genetic lottery; a lottery determined who you are, what your abilities and capabilities will be.  

Nurture? It seems as if some gene pools are packed with genes more likely to produce lottery winners than looser.  AND, that pro-winner gene-pools have the largest pools of resources to capture the best Nature has to offer.

Why am I different from an abused woman? It doesn't have anything to do with what she has done; nothing to do with what I have done—Lotteries are what unify us.  In some sense, although the gene pools were different, the process, the Lottery consumed the pool; what it spit out, we are all Lottery excrement, crapped into unequal resource pools.

Basically, not so different; basically the same even when you can't feel the affinity.  

Womb lottery? Meet someone from a different country?  

Deprived

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