So I'm at an incall hotel to see my favorite provider.  The donation envelope, as usual, is presented and left on the table between us.  (After several blissful encounters she knows there is no need to acknowledge it.)  We chatted and drank Moscato. So before we even make our way to the bedroom there is an insistent knock on the door.  It's hotel management there to kick her out of the hotel (discretion not being one of her better qualities I suppose.)  As all of this is happening I'm thinking about the hefty white donation envelope.
    WELL... she generously took the time to consummate my visit before gathering her possessions to leave, but my question is:
    If things had turned out differently and we had NOT consummated the visit, should I have expected to have my donation returned to me.  Providers, what is the proper etiquette in that type of situation?

i must live in an alternate universe..i have never seen this happen and probably never will..a phone is available in the room..any respectable hotel will not go around knocking on doors..these ladies pick their hotels carefully so as to avoid this fantasy scenario you have dreamed up..

no..im into ripple tonight..oh fuck..i got to go..hotel security is here..

i like my huh posts..sure beats these duh threads..

I agree with mac... Hotel management knocks on door says leave this mans room you are a prostitute?
WTF?

Actually it was her room. His first sentence says he was at an "incall," so apparetnly they kicked her out of her own room, (but somehow they allowed her to finish him off first.) Yes still suspect but I just wanted to clarify the incall vs outcall.

First of all, I agree with PSSOM. Who the hell says "consummate the visit" in this hobby? What are you doing marrying her?

Secondly I kind of agree with Mac that the whole post seems suspect. The hotel staff is kicking her out of her own room? For what?

Thirdly, your post is confusing. You said they knocked before you even made it to the bedroom and you were worried about the donation, then you say you "consummated." How did that happen? They came to kick her out, but said, "You can stay an extra hour to fuck this guy, but then we want you OUT!" I guess obviously she wasn't getting kicked out for prostitution since they let her stay long enough to fuck you...Oh sorry, consummate your visit.

OK, Let's say I bite. This all happened just the way you said. Now you are basically asking what to do if it happens again? If this actually did happen, I would sincerley hope that is a once in a lifetime thing! Why would you expect it to happen again?

But just for shits and giggles I will answer.
Of course you should take your "donation" back if your visit was cut short befoer you even started, adn it wasn't your fault! Why would you pay for that.

Oh shit, sorry, you asked for providers to respond. I forgot.

In fact, she should be apologetic for exposing you to hotel security in the first place.

She didn't schedule your appointment properly, which is why it ended up the way it did. I would not went through with the session. You only pay her once you have sexed with her, you don't pay her for sitting around and drinking an alcoholic beverage. I can do that for free at the bar.

You should have left, told her it wasn't going to work since there is no discretion and there was a rush feeling. I would have taken the the envelope back and not had sex with her. If you did have sex with her, then pay her. If you didn't, then don't pay her.

I've been in situations where things didn't work out, and I didn't pay them anything. Why would I give them money if they didn't provide anything?

Perhaps he meant 'consomme' and the knock on the door was just room service looking to remove the soup bowls.

If you think hotels don't kick people out for suspect behavior than you ARE living in an alternate universe.  As far as whether you believe this is a fantasy scenario or not doesn't matter as the post was not intended for you to respond to.

Sorry for the use of the word "consummate." I didn't realize it was that big of a deal, or that I was dealing with English professors.

Knock at the door...  Management isn't going to converse through the door.   So she opens the door.  How is she dressed?   An embarassing conversation for both.
It seems very odd that management would GO to the room without attempting to call first.  

If she is being asked to leave...  I wonder about the time frame of play & her checkout.  

I have no problem with the OPs choice of language.

As far as the time frame of the "consummation" there is nothing in my post that says we were given an extra "hour" according to you, for the act, and if it takes YOU an hour then I'm impressed (either that or go see your doctor about a possible medical condition).  If you are getting kicked out of a hotel room, you think you are going to leave at that exact SECOND, or have some time to collect your things? Really simple if you think about it.
If you believe the post is suspect ask what I have to gain by posting it, more abuse from you guys.  And the original post states WHY hotel management is kicking her out.  And hopefully it will never happen again, but I just wanted the input from FEMALE PROVIDERS concerning this dicey situation!

could it have been noticed and is this why they wanted her to leave. Perhaps it was checkout and she was already notified they would not extend her time. Since you were there for a little time maybe staff was watching and reporting back to management. Either way I would question her before seeing her again since it could have been LE knocking on that door if she does create a lot of traffic.

Why would you think you needed to pay if you didn't get service. I know some ladies do get a room just to use for one gentleman but this definitely isn't the case.

Kisses Haley

Time and time again I am reminded of how much I really enjoy my dates and although I have fewer dates during the course of the month than many other ladies, I really cherish them. At my price point I see only a few men a month, but rest assured that they are elegant and tailored to be a fulfilling and discrete experience for a quality man who wishes to spend time with me.

There are great ladies available at all price points and I think it is very important to know how the lady you choose to see carries herself and maintains her business so that you have the least problems and the most fun.

Sitara Devi

I would be very careful in the future when booking with the same provider.  Although the story does sound fishy.  It sounds as though maybe she had a problem with scheduling and her check out time expired so she had to rush you.  That being said, it is made very clear that you compensate  a provider for her time.  How you choose to spend your time is another issue.  However if she cut your time short, then she should offer you more the next time you visit.  If you choose to make that choice.  But I would be very careful

French Kisses

Elle Vegas

u don't pay...it's simple.
Do be a dumb ass like me and do alot of paying, without playing.
One dipshit (me) is enough around here.

well well..excuse me while i kiss the sky..

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Moscato is a sickeningly sweet dessert wine, like if you like your wine to be a light syrup...for future reference  I don't highly reccomend it but I like rich, red, dry and tannic...not girly wines nyuck.  (NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE WHO LIKES GIRLY WINES)

If I knew I was about to get kicked out of a hotel, the very last thing I would do is invite a client over. To answer your question...no play, no pay would seem logical. Many providers are dumb enough to try and squeeze in that last appt. at 10 a.m. only leaving an hour til they have to check out...stupid, and not the client's fault. If you want to rush a guy, put him at 9 instead.