Back in the day, I saw this one provider, and she sucked ass. I thought to myself, this has probably got to be one of the worst experience I have ever had, until I found TER of course.

Anyways, after my session, she got the nerve to ask me for a tip. I said sure, I went in my pocket, got some change out, and threw it at her, and told her that her service sucked ass and she should reconsider be a provider.

That indeed was the best tip I have ever gave to a provider.

My presence is a present .

It was way back in the last housing crisis.

I consider it money very well spent as she and I are still very close after all these years.

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Stock tips do not count, unless it was Google in 2004.

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Well the normal money tip hello however I would say there friendship .. One guy helped me on side of road with my flat tire on my Benz in Boston  thank u very much

That adr catapulted over 10x in a little over a year.  
Beat any "tip" / gift/ big ticket gift she ever received from anyone.

I am guessing she invested almost everything she had in that one stock. lol   I wouldn't have had the balls to go all in like that on such a volatile stock, but  it worked out quite well for her.

She got me a nice watch and a paid vacation.... heh

I was one of her first escort clients- like number two or three.  She was a beautiful girl that lived two miles from my house, so I was really interested in seeing her as a regular.  But as I got to know her, it was obvious she had absolutely no business sense.

I tried to help her in the usual ways, but this was about 2000 and she didn't even have a computer to respond to email requests.  So I bought her an iMac to get her started in the right direction.

I have rules I follow because that was agreed to by my wife. I broke those rules exactly once, but with my wife's permission. Her ex abused her daughter during court ordered visitation. He really messed her up. So to help her out I book a 12 hour date for me and my wife as her ex didn't have insurance their kid as court was ordered. She was providing to get money to get full custody as she knew him to be unstable. She had no money to pay for the hospital bill. I tipped her that money so she could pay the hospital off. It was a bit over $10,000. She called and asked if it was a mistake when she opened the envelope and said she couldn't take that much. I told her it wasn't for her it was for her daughters hospital bill.

Wow!  You have my respect.  May all your perversions be forgiven.

Wish I could do somethin' like that....

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she became a demanding client and I had to ditch her.  Trust me, that's the LAST TIME I'll prepay a customer.

Fantastic story. I am a single mom of 2 kids (receive no child support) and I very much appreciate anyone who tips 'for your boys'... Concretes my opinions that most hobbyists are very kind-hearted men. What a blessing you were to her and her daughter. Happy Holidays!!!

I had a client offer me a decent part time job at his company to further my cover and help me with a steady paycheck. Best job ever as he lets me leave any time I have an appointment and is a weekly client of mine

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That's very nice.  You're a nice guy.  But why didn't you just give her the money as a gift?  By booking a date, the money became income that she needed to report and pay taxes on.  Had you given it to her as a gift, she wouldn't have needed to pay taxes, and (assuming this was in a Nevada county where the transaction was legal) she also wouldn't have to feel like whoring (which she was clearly doing out of desperation) was necessary to get her daughter fixed fixed up.  Or at least you could have bought her time for a business acquaintance and deducted it as an entertainment expense.

Just my thoughts.  I don't want to detract from the fact that you were amazingly generous, and I'm sure she appreciated the windfall.  But if you're smart about it, you can help more people at the same cost.

My record is 7000 Euros given to someone to help them get off the street and get a business started.  I took some as a tax deduction.  She never touched my penis.

it is apparent that there are quite a few VERY lonely guys who can be sucked into a gal's misfortune, over and over.

I do believe that many of the posters are NOT exagerrating (by too much anyhow) how generous they have been with a lady.  But I also tend to believe these are the guys who over the years posted on THE the old "I've fallen for a provider" or the incomparable "I need to save her" threads.

There is no question that many of the gals can have an intoxicating effect on the men she sees, but for you guys to fall over yourselves to "save these gals" is amazing.

What I'd like to give any of the gals I've seen as a tip would be your handles so they can hit you up for the incredible gifts you seem to feel you owe!

Her $9 an hour job did not pay her and her daughters bills, nor did it cover the legal expenses to get sole custody of her daughter to protect her from a man that was unstable and proved to be abusive. I offered to give her the money but she refused as she felt she had to earn her own way in life. Booking her as this was not Nevada for anyone else would have put me at risk for pandering. I will not take the risk of a felony conviction to reduce my tax burden. I did later give her her out, when she was ready to take it. That though was not a tip or a gift.

You could have had her clean your house.  Or proofread your emails for spelling errors  Anything legal and something she could explain to friends & family easier.

Women can do more than fuck in exchange for money.  No need to let the fact that she was a sex worker restrict your options.

But like I said -- bottom line is you're a nice guy being nice.  Despite my nit-picking, I think that's great.

Don't be so cynical.  We all spend our money as we see fit.  We are all here because we like to spend money on women in exchange for pleasure.  For some of us, the pleasure of feeling rich and generous can be better than a good blowjob now and then.

We're not all suckers.

I did qualify in my post that "most" was used here...NOT all!

But if I struck a nerve, sorry!

And I don't think you're all suckers...just those that realize it later on when she moves on to the next "generous" guy without thanking you!

Wow, youare SO funny. Why don't you have your own show? Maybe you're working on a HBO special?

You don't know this, but I know all about you, M.  People talk.  Girls talk.  And I know you're as much a sucker as anyone here.

..which I think is sweet.  But let's not get cocky.

While it's true that a lot of sucking and being sucked goes on in HobbyVille, I choose to read some of these responses from generous men another way.

The NSA aspect of the hobby allows for all of us, men and women, to live life by different rules. Being able to give money freely without having to concern one's self with all the "political ramifications" of the gift is really fun for some fellows. Knowing that he did a good thing, that he helped a lady, or gave her an opportunity "out of the blue" can be a really wonderful feeling.

Of course there are a dozen ways this can go wrong, if there are expectations that come along with the gift, but if it is a true selfless act of kindness then it can be a beautiful thing for all involved.

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Another poster who should probably know better.

I have to think that as a CPA you see a lot of people who have the kind of income/wealth/means to be generous to the point of extravigance.  I think many of us know guys who "gift" thier GF of the moment (who probably has a relationship expectancy of 6 mos or less) with a car, 10K diamond bracelet, etc.  Right or wrong, what is the inherent difference if someone like that gifts a lady in need?  Nice of you to essentially categorize them all (excuse me, only most of them) as being star struck and stupid.

Gifts I know have been given by guys who can easily afford it to ladies who were their ATFs:
--condo in the 600K range so she could quit her 8-5 job and be available whenever he came to town each month (not an exclusive arrangement)
--household move for a lady who was in physical danger from another woman in the business and that woman's pimp; plus a house on the other end of the move
--cars
--4-figure jewelry [Side note: my ATF and good friend had a benefactor like that, and he gave her several very fine pieces of jewelry.  Most she picked out when with him, but he picked out a few without her.  One of those she thought was ugly, but I had admired it once when I had seen it on her.  She gave it to me--by far the most expensive gift I ever received, though what I will do with a lady's tennis bracelet I don't know.  So far I'm saving it for the right lady to pass it on to I guess.]

No, I don't fit in that category of guys who can afford those gifts, but I did write a 10Kk check for a lady who was going to loose her home after the housing crash.  Went to the bank with her and paid off the back mortgage payments & related bills that acrewed when she broke her leg and couldn't work for several months.  Didn't walk out of there feeling particularly stupid or taken advantage of, and never thought I was her boyfriend or that I was in love with her.  It did use up my dating money and kept me from seeing any ladies for about three months but it was worth it to me.  If it isn't for you, don't do it.  But no need to trash those who do care to spend their play money differently than you might.

And I'd really love to know which "girls" talk about me to you?

And since you're insinuating that I have given them these gifts, perhaps you could clue me in to those as well?  I don't seem to recall having done that so far!