How would you rate a provider who is really into it, enjoys the sex, but puts her enjoyment first.

I was with this provider recently. But the first thing she did was raise her legs to her shoulder and said 'lick my pussy baby'. She made a lot of noise and dirty talk. And after lickin her pussy, I lie down and said I want to do some DFK.  Instead, she quickly moves her wet pussy to my face and shoves it to my lips/tongue and then started suckin me BBBJ. I enjoy DATY, so didn't complain.

After our session, she said 'DATY' is her favorite and she had the most intense "0" with that. And she also mentioned she was into light dom, which I didn't know. But that somehow explains her trying to lead in everything.

How many of you like or dislike these types of session? Or do you want to be in complete control every minute. Just curious.

I would see it more as a matter of communication. Since she didn't mention these preferences before your session, it sounds like it was a bit of a surprise to you. Good thing you like DATY but what the client who doesn't? Bit of shock to him --

If you're not comfortable taking a more directive approach in how the session goes, then she's going to drive the sequence and it seems that's how it went.

It can be a bit off-putting, so if she's worth a follow-up session, perhaps a bit more communication from you to her as to how you like things to go would be in order. I like to have a balance of me and her directing the flow of the session, since I have a better time if she's enjoying herself. As long as things are heading in the general direction that I like, it's OK with me.


If not, then move on and learn the lesson for the next time, right?

I am always in control at work and constantly manipulating people.
If she wants to take charge and manipulate me, thats relaxing, and takes the pressure off.

Sorry but that session sounds gross.

If I went to see a pro and she threw her legs in the air and instructed me to go down on her I'd probably laugh in her face- but that's just me.

If it is pre-established that she is going to run the session then its fine.  If you book a general GFE/PSE provider and the focus is all about her, I'm sorry but that seems a little skewed to me.
I know the raging nymphomaniac bit is some providers' shtick and I get it...it just doesn't sound especially appealing to me.

Obviously I'm speaking from the perspective of a provider who prefers to cater to the client unless I'm encouraged to do otherwise.
I still get little to no enjoyment from being "pleased" if I'm forced to or if that is the focus of the session and get on best with clients who are "selfish lovers".  I can actually only become aroused and truly reach orgasm if I think that my partner is enjoying themselves or using me for their own pleasure.

If the things she did made you uncomfortable, then just put that it in the review... explain what she did that made you uncomfortable.. because some guys actually LIKE a girl like that...


If you do want to see her again, just communicate with her and tell her what you prefer...


I tend to be quite submissive, so I prefer a man in control, and I prefer to cater to the guy and do things just to please him... yes it may make me sexually frustrated, but sigh oh well lol

Agree with trex44..."I like to have a balance of me and her directing the flow of the session, since I have a better time if she's enjoying herself. As long as things are heading in the general direction that I like, it's OK with me."

Since I like GFE, I prefer if she suggests/initiates some things too. But there is a 'good' way to do it. I like DATY but don't just shove it in my face! I am generally happy to go wit the flow, but let me kno. Lets have some communication, pls.

You know, I would rather be communicated with ahead of time about whether I liked to be forcefully instructed during what I think borders on the kink of Goddess worship.  That kink cam be very exciting for both parties, if they are psychologically pre-wired for it or it strikes them as a cool thing to try on a lark.  On a first time date with a new provider, I think I would prefer a much gentler tone and a more balanced offering of opportunities to provide and receive pleasure.

What's her number?????

Give and take is cool in a session. I don't mind if she's a bit greedy now and then. She should however make sure I'm satiated too. After all, I paid.

If she told you she was a dom, that explains her taking charge.  As for her putting her pleasure ahead of yours, you're complaining when she moves into 69?  From my perspective, that's mutually assured pleasure.  

I'm assuming you got in at least one shot on goal, and had the opportunity for more.  If so, I wouldn't downgrade her if you decide to review.  If your session with her displeased you in any way, best you move on...

Really..........

You probably could of just grabbed her and had your way, and she would of gotten a kick out of it.

Alpha chicks like an alpha male.

You think of your other similar sessions and how they rated... Then pick a rating that reflects your sense of how it went.

Then in the review text you explain it as you did here.

I gave a lady some extra credit once because she had to stop working on me during 69 to experience her O. I do appreciate a lady getting hers, and even asking/directing (slower, faster, lighter, harder, etc)... But dom might cross the line for me.

Any gal I've seen knows I love 69 so I might not complain too much but it's a fine line here and it will be YMMV for this gal.

Welcome to the world of p4p...it takes all types.

If she had reviews.....I find it hard to believe that no one tagged her as sexually aggressive.

I don't think there is anything wrong with a lady telling her bed buddy exactly what is going to get her to the point.....it actually sounds pretty hot.

I wanna be her doubles partner!

I find it enjoyable to see the provider have a good time, so I'm OK with it but on the other hand, if she wanted me to do something I was uncomfortable with, it would not be a turn on any longer.

The first time I see a gal, the activites should follow well trod paths on both sides and then branch out from there as you get more comfortable with each other.

Who would really appreciate having her name pm'd to me.

I would love to experience sharing time with a woman who is insatiable when it comes to daty and is also overly sexually aggressive for a change.

When considering being with a woman who is as sexually excited and determined in getting herself off as well as I is a tremendous turn on for me.

Please pm me with her handle.

The type of session I want varies: all about me, all about her, or any variation of those,therefor communication is vital before the meeting.

I actually did a review on her last night and hopefull, it will come out in 36 - 48 hours. I'm giving her high scores because I enjoyed it, even though she took control at first.  But  I took control back and did some nice DFK and asked her for CIM. And during doggie, she ask for spanking - "harder! harder!"

After our session, she said she'll bring a toy next time and stick it in her Ass while I DATY her or fuck her. She also said she'll masturbate with a toy while I watch her - if I like. Definitely, a repeat and will see how freaky this girl is. It's possible that she could be the most freaky girl I've encountered.

Those who said "PM me". I'm actually in North Carolina, and you guys are in Vegas and NY.  

,,,,,,,,,when your using an alias..