I'm waiting for an outcall visit... I usually do incall..
Right niw she's 30 minutes late. She emailed me 35 minutes ago & said she was running a little late.... traffic... I checked... not really...
Wondering if I should tell her to forget it.. or should I keep waiting...? Curious about the norm..

This has, in fact, happened to me a couple of times.  I just waited it out.  One gal was over an hour late.  (traffic, of course)

+1

I'm an outcall only lady and while the stress is on us to show up on the dot, sometimes, there are things out of our control even if we do plan ahead. Communication is key when things are seemingly not going the way we hoped. I'd cut her some slack unless your date is already over lol.  

her phone broke
she got pulled over
flat tire
abducted by aliens
her last date extended
pick one

Lol nice list!
My fashionably-late dates never tried to be creative....usually they just claimed bad traffic for their non-punctuality.

So it depends on how tight your schedule is. If you're on vacation and have not much better to do maybe an hour or two is no problem. OTH if you're on a tight schedule anytime more than 30 min. is fair enough to cancel.

I only do incall, but I have had to coordinate getting to her incall while she is also getting there. One of the most annoying ones was a missed date with someone I REALLY wanted to see. I'm there, she isn't. I call and she said, "It's raining!" Yeah, it's been raining all day and we spoke about earlier and "It's raining where I am too, and that's why I left 20 minutes early so I wouldn't inconvenience you."  

if you've seen her a lot and you like her .... then wait

Enough with the lame excuses for being late. In reality this is part of the hobby that is business. In business if you are late for an appointment you will hear about it twice. First from the person you had the appointment with and probably twice as forcefully  from the boss. Part of making an appointment is a respect for each other's time and schedule, each party has an equal responsibility for being on time. No excuses, bad weather, plan for it. Road construction, accidents, unexpected traffic, plan for it. Feeding the cat, watering the plants, come on man, this isn't high school.

out call and the only time I booked a hotel ... because my son was,staying with me. I've hosted 100 times at my home (s) and
never a NCNS. For more see below.

LA ... that's a given

Most of us are aware of "hooker math" - that bizarre phenomenon wherein the first hour costs $300, but the second costs $400 (or whatever). I've already rationalized what that's all about, and I just use it as a mechanism for seeking out market inefficiencies that benefit me.

Have her send a photo of traffic as proof?? How rude!

I hope she's fucking his brains out!  
XOXO,  
TL

funny line from whetdick!

One night in DC almost four years ago, we agreed to meet after the M&G.  I got there over an hour earlier, and there were a couple of ladies I knew from that wanted to go back and do a foursome with another dude who was there.  But I had already committed to my friend visiting from Cali, so I had to turn them down.  The lady from Cali showed up late, but the dude I alluded to earlier interceded, and offered her a two hour play that she didn't want to refuse.  I reluctantly told her yes, and went back to hotel on the Metro alone.  3 hours later, almost 1 am, she texted me, told me she had to go back to her room, and freshen up.  Hitting the cab, fifteen minutes away according to the cabbie.  I met her outside the hotel, walked around the block in Foggy Bottom, we went into a park overlooking the infamous Watergate hotel, smoked 420 and made out.  Then back to my hotel...it was everything we planned, and more  She left the next morning, after breakfast, to go about her business affairs.  Me, I was off from work, and spent the afternoon wandering the Mall.  As I was heading back to my hotel, I called her, and she said tonight was at her place.  Dinner with her at the restaurant at her hotel, smoking 420 with an unobstructed view of the US Capital a few blocks way, then back to room...

She could have lied about her location... (Does it matter?)

45 minutes late... I was in no hurry .. so it was OK.. but I was in touch with her.. she went over 30 minutes without letting me know she was on her way.. in looking over her reviews, I see a few other comments about her being late as she only works on outcall..

With everything to consider in an Outcall Business, she should have known and planned for the unexpected traffic accidents.  She certainly should have given you some sort of "extra"  or a discount for her inability to keep an appointment that was promised at a Specific Time. It's part of integrity.

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Provider communicated and told me she was sorry for over sleeping after 30 M so we rescheduled for an hour later.     I took another little piece of Viagra and had a happy date.      The main thing is she communicated and took responsibility.    She didn't want to disappoint me.      If you let things that really don't matter a lot ruin your life you will be miserable.     She made it up to me when she got there ten times over and we were both happy.

Says to.  All these posts and not one about leaving early.  You know the location your going to, you know how long it should take you to get there, just leave 30 minutes early.  Problem solved.  Oh, wait a minute, things might (?) work perfect and you get there early, with 30 minutes to spare.  Well a provider can't do that, well we clients do it all the time, and we wait.  

I like your post because you keep it real.  
Keep on keepin on

If a lady contacts me with a ETA and its within a reasonable realm of our original appt I'm usually OK. But if we are talking about anything more than 1 hr I consider that to be a request to reschedule and will probably politely cancel the session suggesting we try another day and move to a plan B.
If she begins a series of  "I'm running 15 minutes late " messages I'll likely bail out and cancel after a couple .  If she's just 15 minutes away 2 or 3 times I'm pretty sure she's not gonna show.

Once I cut it too close...  and half way there the sky opened up.  Amost every driver pulled over the shoulder...  I was taking my life in my hands by driving 30 on the interstate.  I called & rescheduled as she couldn't push our date back.  We had a great time the next day...  

Open a chain of coffee shops that offer Viagra.

I took my Viagra when she pulled in the drive way.. I learned a while ago.. to waste one is expensive !

My time is important and I don't have time to waste holding my dick. I have a family that needs my time, businesses that need my time. And being late is not being respectful and buts me in a foul mood. If I am not happy, mister happy will not come out and play. If Mr, happy isn't happy and I am not happy what is the point?

You said it better than I did.

I was so mortified at being so late. I hadn't realised Chicago traffic was such a total BITCH! A journey that my GPS said would take 45 mins ended up taking two hours! I was just lucky he had nothing else planned but a 3 hour evening booking with me. I even offered to reschedule and reduce the rate but he was gracious.
I HATE being late for anything. It shows disrespect for someone's time unless there's a legit reason.

Inside jokes for Jersey folks?  

It's in my lastest review, but I kept in contact via text & informed my client of my eta... It was due to the stupid traffic & the uber dricers sense of direction ...  Most important is to keep the line in communication open & update the client of eta!!  
 

All my outcalls are end of the night and I'm just going to sleep afterwards, but I've had 3 ladies show 90 minutes to 2 hours late.  1 I was texting the booker to cancel when she knocked - and she staying an extra hour at N/C to make up for it.  Usually there is good communication about it - so it's OK.  The radio silent ones get scary (lucky, never happened)