First of all you don't really know if it's true or not. Lot's of girls will telly you this simply to keep you distant.  As far as those that are married, well, it's a job and a job that they get paid well for.  Some guys can handle it. most can't.

having BBFS with SOMEONE. lol

I find it amusing that hobbyists believe that a provider with three kids is not having BBFS with anyone.

Dear Tracey:
Ideally you would like to say that. However if the economy is what it is now, he and you might have to reconsider if you can make more money than him expediently. Then again it is really a test of how secure that you are with him and how solid your relationship is. If it is just about economics you might be in a better place than he is because you are born with a commodity that is in demand. The question is long as you are not emotionally involved within reason it should be tolerable. However when you get into a disagreement then all is fair in love and war and he will constantly hold it over your head.  That is why it takes a certain type of man that can handle that and you really need to take a thorough psychological evaluation before getting involved with someone if you are active in the business.  Thus as it is with all marriages, this works on a case by case basis. The cause for breakups in this case can be money,jealousy and infidelity with divorce with one or two people in the industry being higher than average.

I have met a couple of providers in my time (which is not a long time) that are married or are in serious relationships. Do their SOs know? If not how on earth do they keep it on the dl? And if they do know, what sort of man stays with a woman knowing very well that she is banging all kinds of men on a daily basis?

The married ones - yes the husband usually knows. Some husbands are dependent, some are swingers, some have OPEN relationships.  Many with SOs the SO knows too. This surprises you ?

A few hide it entirely from the SO. That doesn't usually work for long.

Providing is how they support them. Most of you johns are fucking girls with husbands and boyfriends and many have kids.  You guys think at the end of the day providers don't want to get fucked by real men????

Hobbyists are dumb as Hell and naive 95% of the time.

Does it matter at the end of the day?
what kind of WIFE, does not take care of her husband. what kind of WIFE turns a blind eye to what she suspects?  How do we ( escorts)  keep it on the DL? I don't know, how do you keep the secret and live the lie seeing women on the side and why? What sort of man knows and still loves her ( the escort) hum? The same kind of woman who knows a man needs variety and understands SEX IS NOT LOVE. Sorry dear.. you don't get to have the double standard.. all is fair in love and war and nothing is fair about love and war!

just seemed like it's easier to get pregnant WITHOUT a rubber!

Now it is all becoming crystal clear.

Thanks

Touche!

If I was married or had a S/O, I dont think I'd be working ever again much less be a provider!  JK.  (kind of)

You friggin hobbyists are soooo naive.  women are parking meters for crissake.  don't forget to pay or you'll get worse than a ticket.  you'll get fooled and robbed of your life savings!

Mistressjessica stated it well - sex is not love.

All of the providers I have seen who have partners (husbands, boyfriends, etc.) have made the same point. Their partners understand the difference between sex and love.

After all, what is swinging? Sex? Yes. Love? I don't think so.

The same way married hobbyists hide it from their wives and kids. It's so easy, a caveman could do it lol!

I love sex.

That was more of a joke than anything else.

I think the ideal situation would be having the option of working or not.  Even if I had that ideal, I'd likely work anyway simply for fulfillment and avoiding boredom.  

But as for being a married or attached provider....  I'm not a good enough multi-tasker.

Not all provider's SO is an abusive pimp that does not care for her and is just using her or some clueless fool duped by a lying woman. I know as my wife is a sex worker. She fucks guys for money. I am not my wife's pimp as all earnings from her providing go in an account just in my wife's name. I pay all the bills, buy the food and all of mine and most of my wife's spending money. Does that sound like I am pimping her?

What kind man stays with a provider knowing she bangs others if not a pimp? A man that loves her as who she is even if part of who she is is a sex worker and realizes sex is not love, it is just sex. We have an open relationship, we each have sex with others but come home to each other. I do depend on my wife but not for money. She is the one that holds me when I am sad, celebrates my little victories when they happen, and laughs with me when I am happy. I do the same for her. Just like any there committed loving relationship between a husband and wife.

You are forgetting that escorts are women with the same needs and wants as other women and there SO's are just like other SO's. Some providers SO's are abusive just like some non providers are abusive and some providers SO's are loving and supportive just like some non-providers SO are loving and supportive. Some providers SO are clueless of their wife/girlfriend's activities just like some non- providers SO are clueless of their wife's/girlfriend's activities.

Quit assuming we are all pimp like or clueless, it simply not true.

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I only know 3 well enough to say:
1 now single, was in a relationship, partner passed away
1 single, long divorced...  
1 married long time, husband knows, open marriage.