Everyone has that one fantasy they can’t stop thinking about the one that makes your pulse race just imagining it. Maybe it’s a sensual girlfriend experience, a night full of teasing and control, or something completely unexpected that caught you off guard. Have you ever actually lived it, or is it still waiting to happen? Tell us what your ultimate fantasy looks like and what made it unforgettable if you’ve already had it.
I probably have to move to another country, overthrow a kingdom, and establish physical and mental dominance of those who serve me, the new king, to get that harem I have always dreamed about.
That's funny - a lady I saw recently who is based out of Salt Lake City advertises a "harem experience" with her and two of her girlfriends.
That could be fun if the ladies are good looking and skilled. I certainly would only be interested if they were into each other and me. I've had a few threesomes where they were into me, but not each other, and it's just not the same. The kgirl spots in LA offer Foursomes as well. But I have yet to find kgirls where they are really into each other.
That said, not a harem experience lol. I'm half joking, as I am sure you know. I would never want to be a king. I wouldn't want a harem either. But if I could go somewhere and have harem access for a week, well that would be really tempting.
The great thing about it is that once you fulfill a fantasy another one takes its place. Here are few of mine that were fulfilled:
1) Took two French-Canadian strippers to The Spearmint Rhino in LV, bought them lap dances then took them back to my suite and fucked them both while they ate each other out.
2) Tag-teamed the famous Indian (dot) poster Rasha with a buddy, then took her to dinner. The same wingman and I later tag-teamed another gal and DP'd her.
3) Got invited to visit the renowned TER poster swingsbothways and fucked her in her husband's bed (also in a hotel room).
4) Won a drawing for a free session with a well-known gal who demanded that I fuck her ass.
5) At a going-away party for Cara Saint James, she blew me in a crowded bedroom to get me to stay. It worked!
6) Doing "the Walk of Shame" at the infamous Del Rey in San Jose, Costa Rica, then going upstairs with a prime Tica.
There are actually many more but you get the picture.
And I don't give a rat's ass whether you believe me or not. Life's been good.
I’m trying to adapt the 👅 tasteful hedonism lifestyle!
Philosophical approach
Combines the hedonistic pursuit of pleasure with romantic feelings and emotional fulfillment.
Focuses on higher pleasures, such as those from loving relationships, and intellect, rather than just lower pleasures of pure sensation.
I pray the Universe blesses me with beautiful souls to connect with for a mutually beneficial friendship. 💫
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That makes you even more interesting! Thanks for sharing😉
Years ago, I got to be very close to a provider that I would see 1-2 month for a few years. She surprised me on my birthday by bringing a provider friend she knew I lusted after and I was totally caught by surprise! Play time was exceptional and she stayed with us afterwards as the 3 of us went to dinner and drank. Fantastic time!
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The other one, this past summer, was my very first foursome. It was so incredible as I had played separately with all the women involved previously, and in group play (3somes) with most of them at one point, but never all 3 at the same time. It was beyond wild and so much fun as I hosted it. Off the charts hot!
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Getting to bed several major pornstars was also a fantasy that I got to check off my bucket list. I was so fortunate as the ladies were so sweet and really put me at ease. The build up prior was a bit stressful, to be totally honest, but all 3 of those dates turned out really well and the women were so sexy and so much fun.
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My last fantasy that I really want to try is being a girls +1 at a sex club. I did have an offer but haven't made it come to fruition as yet. Hopefully that will happen sometime fairly soon...fingers crossed. lol.
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I'm something of an unofficial hostess/newbie facilitator at the local swingers club here in Panamá City. I'm not sure if it would be your scene tho as it's local Panamanians (not known for their attractiveness like Colombians or Venezuelans). But I do have a gorgeous Colombiana GF/pro who could join as well😉
Or, there's always Vegas! Went to a house party when I was there last put on by a couple out of San Diego who specialize in hosting these events.
How I feel when y'all start sharing fantasy stuff.....
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unplanned ... Busty penthouse centerfold buried her DD tits in my face while a playboy lingerie mag model BBBJ at same time .. was in penthouse girls (who was a FWB) condo. unplanned and no $ 
tough to beat that even with other bareback we all know each other and girls both hot and not pros 3somes
these days my ultimate fantasy .. wife loses her credit cards !
That's a great story! You win. lol.
yeah but once i popped in playboy mouth .. they left me there and went back to watch TV ... no more fun after that LOL
of course those were the days when i could pop more than once every week like now! LOL
I've had the pleasure a couple of times of 3 ladies who were spectacular in their interactions with each other and with me. (Pausing for a moment to shed a tear at the beautiful memories)
They were like Toscanini with their strapons, Rembrandt with their tongues, and Einstein with their imaginative couplings and throuplings.
The pinnacle will be all that plus anal. I yearn to see a trio of providers with at least one anal strapon vignette. I may have to lay out the small fortune it would require to get a porn actress added to the team for that specialty. But what am I gonna do with my money--take it with me when I die?
Not a porn star but can I volunteer to be in the middle of the strap on sammie?
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Picture it: Ladies laying on our sides. I'm facing Lady 1, kissing, tit fondling, fucking her with my strap on. I'm Lady 2, getting it in my ass from Lady 3 as she's playing with my tits and kissing my neck. I can just swing my hips front to back taking turns impaling myself on Lady 3's tool which cause mine to withdraw some from Lady 1 swing back the other way as I ram Lady 1. Perhaps you are lying behind Lady 1 or 3 doing something similar? Perhaps there's a DP/DVP on Lady 1 (in which case, can that be my position in another go 'round?🤩). Or perhaps you're kneeling at our heads taking turns dipping into each of our mouths, getting double BJ, boob grabbing, etc. And if you happen to lose your load, we all get sprayed and then slurp off each other whatever didn't make it down someone's throat.
Hmm... fantasies are fun to contemplate😜 Not the first time I've mulled this scene over, either
that you are always satisfied but never sated.
In a way, every new adventure is a fantasy. Once done, it is off to the next!
I am just glad that I have had the opportunity to have so many fantasies fulfilled and that at my age I am still insatiable.
Life is good.
I think for men of means and experience, there are many fantasies lurking in your mind at the same time, so for me, it's more of a bucket list than trying to figure out which one is the "ultimate" fantasy.
Never had enough money to blow on making that fantasy come to real life. Still waiting on the lottery to hit for me
I haven't lived out my "ultimate" fantasy. I have sooo many and they keep evolving, it's hard to really "pin down". However, I HAVE had a recent experience with someone whose online content pretty much manifests elements of my core fantasies and it's been really interesting engaging in sexual "play" with someone who pretty much does (or can do) everything in my deepest fantasy mind AND with a stud, who also is a manifestation of my fantasy "sexual beast" but in real life. It's like watching the online content is seeing my deepest fantasy core elements being acted out, almost exactly as they appear in my fantasy mind.
That being stated, I've had some truly amazing experiences and have made a really good connection with a particular companion I've been exploring various fantasies with, but I don't know if they would be my "ultimate" fantasy, per se. In this context, "ultimate" doesn't really apply but it's been a complete mind blowing AND mind opening experience for both of us, to say the least. lol
This site has allowed me to live out almost all of any fantasies i can put together.
Ive been able to do things i never would have thought of 25 years ago. Ive met most of my porn star crushes and stuck my tounge up thier assholes. It doesnt get much better than that.
I envy you sir, and I aspire to eat and fuck as much pornstar quality ass as you have. Who has the absolute most exquisite asshole you have fucked? Who has the tastiest asshole you have eaten? Which anal experience was the best overall?
Go get it buddy.
Best tasting asshole ever is Vicki Chase. For non porn stars Im gonna go CrystalXO.
Best anal experience is a tough one. Amber Rayne back in the day brought me up to a new level. Just a filthy gal, even with her friends around...god rest her soul. Since then...its hard to say.
I may have the opportunity to test your theory on CrystalXO this summer. Looks like Vicki Chase does not provide anymore?
I envision being taunted in Spanish or Portuguese while this unfolds. I won’t understand the words but I will feel them. I have not lived it yet but that’s what 2026 is for. A boy can dream…
I’m in West Central Florida if any well-reviewed providers believe they have the requisite skill set and equipment to pull off what Brazilian starlet Mayara Shelson pulls off in this gif.
I like to have this go down at least 2 or 3x a month.
Life...go live it. Dont just talk about it
I have satisfied several fantasies over the years. But my current biggest fantasy probably will never get to experience.
three girls and a spanking bench.
Alas, no.
My ultimate fantasy is to have a smart fit woman creatively seeking mutual sexual pleasures for a lifetime. This I have not lived, and at 76 now have only a partial lifetime left.
