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How about Shirley?
GLS 2555 reads
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1 / 39

I saw the word Baby Fat, was the term used to say politely she was overweight, chunky, thick or was it to make guys feel better and not insult in a review.

Same when a Provider describes herself.....

munchinmuffin 76 Reviews 1346 reads
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2 / 39

often it can mean fat.  Sometimes it means maybe 10 to 20 lbs heavier than their ideal weight which can vary depending on how tall a woman is and what her bone structure is.  We all have seen women walking around who if they lost 10, 15 or 20 lbs would be smoking hot.  As it is, even with the extra weight they are pretty damn attractive.

sympathyforthedevil 57 Reviews 1118 reads
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3 / 39

Nice way of saying she could lose some weight. Same can go for athletic. Skinny=possible meth addict.

Panthera12 1070 reads
posted
5 / 39

just how much fat there is. It is ambiguous and subjective, but the word that stands out the most is FAT. Some of the provider profiles say baby fat and they are 50 lbs overweight. It is therefor also an abused classification.

tellthetruth13 974 reads
posted
6 / 39

average= babyfat 10- 15 lbs overweight
baby fat =bbw

Posted By: GLSVIPListing
I saw the word Baby Fat, was the term used to say politely she was overweight, chunky, thick or was it to make guys feel better and not insult in a review.  
   
 Same when a Provider describes herself.....

Sexy Carolina See my TER Reviews 1306 reads
posted
7 / 39

I'm athletic have been all my life
never methed
some guys say I am skinny
a recent reviewer said I have a fat stomach
all I know is I weigh 129 and I am size 2/small
my profile says I weigh less
I've had people say I can't weigh that much and be so small
it's muscle
really to me, baby fat means YOUNG fat not fat left over from having a baby 10 years ago
fat is fat
burn it bab

EasyTimes 7 Reviews 1132 reads
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8 / 39

Baby Fat is a total misnomer in this place, and rarely, if ever used correctly.  I don't think it protects the lady's sensibilities, or the guy's.  Before coming here, I always took it to mean pudge around the belly that remained after giving birth, or at least the appearance of that.  

As has been said before, body type descriptors should be visual.  Match the body shape to an image, and it leaves much less room for misinterpretation!

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 1241 reads
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9 / 39

i like the word Circumlocution better..just sounds better..

Posted By: GLSVIPListing
I saw the word Baby Fat, was the term used to say politely she was overweight, chunky, thick or was it to make guys feel better and not insult in a review.  
   
 Same when a Provider describes herself.....

Dr Who revived 946 reads
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10 / 39
clarence37 37 Reviews 782 reads
posted
12 / 39

that appearance descriptor would be more honest and correct if the words were not so insulting.

A hobbyist, who likes bigger girls, sees a provider, likes her a lot, and then is faced with the choice of labeling her "baby fat", "fat", "really big", etc. So no matter how big she is, he's going to choose "baby fat" because he sees it as the least insulting choice.

As far as the words providers use to describe themselves - well, they are selling something, aren't they? Do you really think they are going to say "I'm just huge. Hey, come and see me, I'll sit on your face and your head will disappear. No, really, when I sit around the house, I sit AROUND the house."
No, they say "voluptuous" and "curvy" and "thick" and they promote their womanly curves.

It would be great to see absolute honesty in all advertising, though I don't see why escorts have to lead the way.

How bout if Coke says "hey, our diet caffeine free cola has a bland taste up front and a horrible after taste, but at least it won't keep you up all night, and the aspartame will kill you slower than the sugar".

When McDonalds says "Our burgers taste delicious, have very little food value, and will make you fat as a house if you eat them regularly."

Metamucil: "We help you go to the toilet so you won’t get cancer and die."

 "Jaguar — For men who'd like hand-jobs from beautiful women they hardly know." and "Volvo — they're boxy but they're good."

Of course, Dudley Moore tried this in "Crazy People" and they put him in a straight jacket (until the ads actually started to work and he became a genius...

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 978 reads
posted
13 / 39

NO!..sir..cum on me with lotion is better..

Posted By: ChgoCPA
Locutus?

Dr Who revived 996 reads
posted
14 / 39

"resistance is futile"  :D

Posted By: macdaddy1944
NO!..sir..cum on me with lotion is better..  
   
Posted By: ChgoCPA
Locutus?

GaGambler 1125 reads
posted
15 / 39

I take "fat" to mean morbidly obese.

And to answer the OP, I believe these terms are meant to both protect the woman AND to decieve the prospective client. Somehow even where it comes to P4P most guys have a hard time calling a fat broad "Fat". Even assholes like me rarely call out fat broads for being fat, I find it unseemly and cruel to call a woman fat to her face, even if it's true and even if I don't even like her.

MagicMedic 5 Reviews 1049 reads
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16 / 39

The hobbyist believes the illusion of a GFE, you have been tricked.

But you know that going in, so the answer is both. I personally can't stand a skin and bones type of girl.  So baby fat or athletic is the girl for me.

MM

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 1222 reads
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17 / 39

I don't know how "athletic" can mean fat. It normally suggests "muscles." You can be big as in rock solid, and not fat. You can also be rail thin, and out of shape meaning loose skin and not toned. I've seen 110 lb. women with cellulite.  

Posted By: GaGambler
I take "fat" to mean morbidly obese.  

And to answer the OP, I believe these terms are meant to both protect the woman AND to decieve the prospective client. Somehow even where it comes to P4P most guys have a hard time calling a fat broad "Fat". Even assholes like me rarely call out fat broads for being fat, I find it unseemly and cruel to call a woman fat to her face, even if it's true and even if I don't even like her.
-- Modified on 5/17/2013 12:48:44 PM

GaGambler 984 reads
posted
18 / 39

Just like BBW, not every big woman is beautiful, but you wouldn't know it if TER was your only guideline.

When I think of athletic, I think of a lithe dancer's body, but in TERspeak, it means a member of the East German womens swim team.

Just add "Athletic" and "Baby Fat" to the ever growing list of terms that are so misused as to become meaningless.

GaGambler 957 reads
posted
19 / 39

otherwise known as a "Mommy's tummy", but that it should mean as you say, "young fat" reminiscent of fat that you have as a baby, not as a result of having one.

When I think of baby fat as it pertains to a woman, I think of a "butterball", but just like "athletic" it can mean a thousand different things to a thousand different people, so in actuality, it doesn't mean a damned thing. lol

AminaRay See my TER Reviews 902 reads
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20 / 39

No matter the term. ... how is it deceptive in any case when pictures are readily available?  My profile says baby fat. I have a tummy from child birth and also thick thighs, hips and ass. But my photos show this clearly. So do the words someone else subjectively used matter?

harborview 10 Reviews 913 reads
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22 / 39

'baby fat'...  it is misleading.  I'd prefer something clearer.

ImOkYouSuck 1004 reads
posted
23 / 39

"Athletic" to me always meant muscular or toned. I always pictured a runners body, or swimmers body or some chick with some muscle developement of some kind. It never once made me think of "fat" in any way, shape or form. Pun intended.

ClamsCasino 1035 reads
posted
24 / 39

Sweeter is the meat
Last slice of Virginia ham
Is the best that you can eat
Don't talk about my baby
She's slender but she's sweet
Closest to the bone
And sweeter is the meat

Now she'd make a good thermometer
If she drank a glass of wine
She's built just like a garter snake
She climbs up like a vine
My friends tell me I'm a fool
To love a girl like that
Here's the reason I like 'em slim
Instead of big and fat

'Cause, closest to the bone
Sweeter is the meat
Last slice of Virginia ham
Is the best that you can eat
Now don't talk about my baby
She's slender but she's sweet
Umm, closest to the bone
And sweeter is the meat

Let's go
Yeah, let's go
Yeah, boy
Attaboy
One more, one more
One more, one more
Yeah, boy
In the moonlight
Yeah, closest to the bone, yeah
Ah, look out now

Now she'd make a first class fountain pen
If she only knew how to write
Her figure's like a piece of string
Um, she rolls up every night
Everybody thinks that I'm a nut
To love this lovely worm
Boy there's one reason I like 'em slim
Instead of round and firm

'Cause, Closest to the bone
Sweeter is the meat
Last slice of Virginia ham
Is the best that you can eat
Now don'cha talk about my baby
She's slender but she's sweet, um
Closest to the bone
Um, swee, I got another one now, listen here

Um, she'd make a fine piccolo
If she only stayed on key
Boy she's shaped like a rubber band
And she loves to snap at me
Everybody thinks I'm insane
To overlook her faults
But here's the reason I like 'em skinny
Instead of full of schmaltz

'Cause, closest to the bone
Sweeter is the meat
Last slice of Virginia ham
Is the best that you can eat
Don't talk about my baby
She's slender but she's sweet
And it's closest to the bone
And sweeter is the meat    

Louis Prima

That's it!  THat's my hooker name -- Virginia Hamm

Dr Who revived 969 reads
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26 / 39
ImOkYouSuck 1015 reads
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27 / 39
bricksquad38 See my TER Reviews 965 reads
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28 / 39

My review profile stats "baby fat" in body description, but I'm not. I'm 5'2" 135lbs my meaurements are 34-28-37. So I'm not sure what that means? Maybe I should call the client to make changes, what are your thoughts?

GaGambler 926 reads
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29 / 39

There are only so many choices available for TER reviewers, given the choices, what body type do you consider yourself?

justanillusion 960 reads
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31 / 39

What happens to those ladies that are in fact athletic and not even remotely over weight?

HangingwithBears 970 reads
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32 / 39

From like when I was growing up, that's how OLD it is.

justanillusion 1049 reads
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33 / 39

Then how is it the ladies fault? I mean if it is so far off, then I say to the lady, go get your profile changed. Even having said that, after reading that a good percentage of guys feel that athletic actually means fat, those poor women who are, in fact in great shape, are immediately thought of as fat. Unless of course a guy sees her and raves about her body in which case, athletic means just that.

Dr Who revived 887 reads
posted
34 / 39

Next question

Posted By: justanillusion
What happens to those ladies that are in fact athletic and not even remotely over weight?

HeathersLuv4u See my TER Reviews 1048 reads
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35 / 39

...the case/true at all..!
Maybe thy think they're "Athletic" but I highly doubt it.
Makes it difficult for me as a Provider ad I get rather tired of  
dealing with the consequence of another providers deception.
Seriously, how long can someone carry on claiming "Athletic"  
when they're been anything but that in years...ugh
I'd be leaving her some phony money for her phones profile..!

WondersOfTheWrld 986 reads
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36 / 39

"ugh" you said, really? Why are you worried about other ladies when your profile isn't perfect? (I never understood the concept of worrying about other ladies).

Phony profiles? It's all subjective.........like your profile says "athletic" but I see cellulite in some of your photos.......and you're "31 - 35" old??? but you can tell from your hands and skin that you're at least 40 years old....should we leave you phony money as well? Sounds silly, right?

It's all subjective...and if a real fat woman says she's athletic b/c she thinks so b/c of a little muscle she has buried under tons of fat, who cares?! men will see her photos and judge for themselves.

LoboGris 3 Reviews 961 reads
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37 / 39

... 87% booty is a body type choice on TER

GaGambler 1015 reads
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38 / 39

Since she's not answering, I guess I will chime in. IMO she fits the term "baby fat" as well as any gal that I can think of. She is not morbidly obese, but she is certainly not thin, athletic or even average IMO.

BabydollLarsson See my TER Reviews 1010 reads
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39 / 39

+1000 to Tia on that! Guys on here consistently talk shit about the non-skinny providers, ugh. If you dont like it, dont look at it!  I happen to like my baby fat and so do alot of other people. No misrepresentation here, not sloppy but solid. Have a nice day.

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