Getting your rocks off a few times via various methods or having the provider cum (either by real or great acting) several times in a session? Personally I like watching the provider have fun. That will get my rocks off everytime.

I am not one of those jackasses that are looking to just put my member in a hole and pump away in some uncontrolled in and out motion without giving the woman any pleasure. I of course want to get off, but have never gone to a date with a number of times I wanted to pop.

I have been told by more than one woman, both civie and provider that I am pretty good when going DATY, and it's because I enjoy it. I absolutely love making any woman squirm on my tongue when she is truly enjoying herself. I never want to or need to hear a woman fake it, if what I am doing is not what will put her over the edge I would prefer her just tell me how to get her there.

So both getting off and getting her off would be my preference.

MM

Amen brother........

Truth be told, if I just wanna get off, I don't need to involve someone else.

Then letting her get me off

Um, if you get me off first, you're leaving so I can take a nap. I always get the guy off CIM, and THEN my turn. I will let him mess around down there a bit, but I rarely ever orgasm first with a client.

It's all about me with providers . I'm paying , why would I  DATY until I have a crick in my neck .

 If it's free with a civvie I try to satisfy , even when my tongue feels  fatigue .
  If she doesn't O as fast and often as providers , I  know she's being honest  .  

I concur w/ MM

It's a great turn on for me that I give her as much pleasure as she is giving me.
We all need that psychological element whether we realize it or not.

While I can't say which ladies are faking, I can tell most ladies are trying to enjoy themselves as well, and I aim to please.

which I would gladly take on in the future.

I was with a girl in the Philly area recently who squirted almost non-stop the whole time. She said she came every time she squirted, but she also came a few times when she didn't. I guess it is hard to fake a squirt, so she was real! That was a new experience for me and the ad said nothing about it, so it was like a bonus. It was a really hot time.

with her body.  I'm not into an O count for either of us. I'm assured of getting mine in the course of play.  If she cums or not, I hope & want her to enjoy it.