I pay attention to details. I love smiles! For me teeth is important. If you invest in your smile to me it shows you care about yourself. Many people don’t care about their mouth & it shows. I look at hands & feet as well. Manicured hands show me you care about yourself. If a person has good self care it’s a bonus when it comes to our first meeting, and the amount of quality TLC you may receive. If your hands and nails are dirty, or your mouth is not attractive to look at it could = YMMV.

The "reads" hardly seems to be accurate.

Sorry but hygiene should be VERY important when you are engaging in the intimacy of p4p. I want the provider to be squeaky clean and minty fresh and they should expect the exact same of us. You really lost me on this one.

Since for me meeting a new person is not just a provider I am going to bang, I'm not looking at just sex appeal details. That said, my answer still applies to providers as well. I'm looking right in your eyes. I know within 30 seconds what kind of person you are when I make eye contact. I'm a confident person, so I'm not shaken by eye contact being returned. The effect my eye contact and glare has on you though will tell me a lot. While my contact is steady, it is also calm. If I get steady calm eye contact back, we are off to a good start. If I get unsteady contact, perhaps you are nervous, and that may be something we can overcome, but it leaves some questions that will need to be answered. But when I see the skin between your eyes just above your noise start to scrunch, I know we are off to a bad start. This for me is negative enegery. You might be angry. You might not like or understand why I am gazing into your eyes. You might want control. You have now flinched in a way that says you don't not accept my calm stare into your eyes.

I am baffled at your reply. It’s not in my job description to kiss a caca mouth. I think you don’t respect the fact that we are our own Boss. Do you refuse to believe that some of us have the freedom to be selective on whom we share our divine energy? You don’t respect women.  
I am the CEO, so I make the rules. I like all photos & posts, as I should because you clearly don’t appreciate a real woman who is an excellent provider on TER, and continues to participate on this board that constantly bashes females. You’re a hater that hides behind an alias. Let that sink in. I reserve the right to refuse service to anyone. If you’re unclean & don’t care about your self don’t contact me. Pick a provider who shares the same lack of self care as you do. Perfecto! Your welcome. 😆 You don’t respect yourself if you don’t care about your personal healthcare.

I love eye contact! Good one Zeel. I also, look at eyes because it tells you right away when if someone is sincere. I read people and body language. They say when you meet someone new they judge you in less, than a minute.  

Why attempt to disrespect me? Rude. I know I don’t have horse teeth. I know your post has no value it’s just bs. I see how providers choose not to post, or want to not be apart of TER. It’s the constant disrespect you boys bring to the board. Lucky idgaf. 🤪 Try harder too diss me. I am a a strong woman. You’re the problem with TER. You disrespectful women bashing men are polluting TER. I’m sure you will be happy when it’s just all guys because you ran off all the females.

"you are literally paid to overlook everything you listed." Your words...just own them bro.

Speaking for myself, I cant tell what kind of person someone is within 30 seconds. Not trying to take you too literally and if I am, I apologize. But for me, people reveal their true selves over hours and sometimes many, many hours in many different situations. 30 seconds just isnt nearly enough time to know anything about a person unless they walk right in the door and are rude, demanding or mean and even then, they just might be having a bad day.  
Even body language experts will tell you they need to establish a "baseline" for the person by seeing their body language in previous encounters for comparisons sake before coming to any real conclusions and they always temper their comments by mentioning such. You cant have a baseline with anyone you have never met before imo.

Not me dear. It’s a statistic they tell young adults who are seeking employment. I worked for several schools & this is what they teach our children. I am not literally saying I do because I don’t.  

Love the question (Ignoring the crazy poster)! First, I usually see her hair and her eyes.  Pretty hair is a turn on (short or long tho prefer long)  and at the same time I notice her eyes! Next I look quickly down to her feet.  I love feet so I am going to look at them pretty quickly. Bonus if they are bear and I see her pretty polish but I will also admire her choice of footwear (or not). Lots of guys like the "preview BBBJ" but I like to worship her feet first. (Hmmm, can you guess my fetish?)

It's kind of like judging a book by its cover isnt it? The good stuff is on the inside, not the superficial things.  
People are much too complex to be able to accurately know a person in that amount of time and it's unfair to the person being judged. I try not to judge people on their first day or their worst day but I dont always succeed in that as I an human. Knowing a person is just much more nuanced and complicated than that.  
Enjoy your day!

I love feet! I keep my feet nicely pedicured. I care about a females feet because if I feel, like it’s a reflection of how they care for their vagina. I don’t eat pussy if the entire package is not pretty to me.  

This is actually something that's been studied rather well. Subconsciously, when you meet a new person, you categorize them according to the people you've previously been exposed to in somewhere around a second. That doesn't mean you *know* someone, of course, everyone has at least some aberration from their mean, but realistically there aren't really that many different types of people, and being able to rapidly decide who you're dealing with is valuable for survival, which is why that propensity exists.
 
 
 So all that to say, yes you can Bobby my man, you can't help it, because for thousands of years your ancestors relied on being able to figure out if someone was going to share their food or hit them with a rock, and they were good enough at it to get laid and perpetuate their role in the human comedy, leading to you.  

Now maybe he meant it in a way that I misconstrued or maybe he would phrase it differently if given a chance as I cant speak for him.  
But I don't fundamentally disagree with what you are saying as yes, we size people up in seconds, but that often turns out to be faulty after many more interactions and dealings with that person. First impressions can be lasting ones but hardly fool proof. And if you look at my other post, I admit to being human as I am sure I judge quickly on occasion but I try and fight that as best as I can.  
Actually I think we are essentially saying the same thing here and it's more semantics or minor variations in opinion. Thanks for your take.

What in the hell is this nonsense?!?  

All that bitterness over a post on a fuckboard.  
Now where have I seen that before?

My answer does not change. Knowing what kind of a person someone is does not mean knowing everything about them. People are much more complex. However, what you see is the first 30 is often more telling than what you will see for quite some time in other ways. When you first look at me, more often than not, that look is you, it is natural. But when you first speak, that may not be you. What we say when we first meet people is hardly telling of who we are. People have relationships for years, and not until after they are married for years do they sometimes finally see who someone really is in all their complexity.

Practically though, how many different people are there really? I bet if you were honest with yourself, you'd land the same place I've landed, which is about a dozen, maybe two dozen if you're being generous with how much they're allowed to cross over.

lol I look for the quickest exit in case of an emergency. I observe the room looking for possible threats because the World is dangerous. I have self defense insurance also because shit happens. I highly recommend it.

Whenever I meet a person for the first time, I pay attention right away to how they position their shoulders.  Are they carrying themselves proudly, with an upright posture, shoulders back and square to me, or are they carrying their shoulders in a slumpy manner, down and rounded like they are trying to go unnoticed.  From there, it's their eyes, their mouth and then their hair.  

I never sit with my back to a door.  I threat assess every room I enter and every venue I visit.  I put on my "cordless hole puncher" every morning just like I put on my socks and belt.  It's been a part of my morning routine for 40+ years.  I try to avoid places where I can't carry and I am always on the look out for anyone that may pose a threat.  This goes hand in hand with what I look at and look for whenever I meet someone for the first time (see my other response in this thread if you care to know).

Things I look at:
*  Smile  
*  How clean he/she is (Yes I said "HE/SHE")
*  If He/She put the $$$$ into my Cash App or on the Counter (I've been ripped off once before)
*  The time He/She actually showed up.....Compared to the exact time He/She was scheduled. I stick to a  
    schedule so that I can make money.

So what you see may not actually what you gonna get.  Might be close yes, as photos  might  be dated, that's  why it's important to keep updating  photos at  least every  few years.   Both party  
 reserve the  right to terminate the date if what advertise  is not what shows up.
A majority ,or 100% positive  review  that includes the physical feature might be the best bet.

You really don't have the "anonymous" accounts figured out yet?? LOL

Everyone should chew sugar free gum containing Xylitol.  It's been shown to significantly reduce plaque and tooth decay.  Plaque is produced by oral bacteria called Streptococcus mutans.  That bacteria picks up the Xylitol thinking it is glucose but can't use it.  That blocks it from using glucose so without energy they die.  
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So if you kiss a lot, you could be getting Streptococcus mutans from the people you kiss.  If you chew Xylitol gum you can kill off that bacteria.  
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Xylitol can also prevent ear infections, yeast infections, increase collagen (anti-aging for skin) and protect against osteoporosis.

A friend of mine put xylitol gum in his ear and it did not prevent against ear infections.

Absolutely not for me. I prefer to keep moving around. Artwork, not people, are meant to be pressed against a wall. Unless, of course, it's in the heat of passion and your getting ravaged by a suiter.

Hydrogen peroxide is both an anti-bacterial and an anti-viral and is highly recommended as part of a daily oral hygiene regimen.

Pepper spray and a stun gun  comes in handy too.

Why are you here . You have no reviews, never dated anyone,  yet you're here talking crap  to   well established people  on this platform. TER need to stop basic from  posting .

Some will not date you if you stink.But ,yes some will if they are  in desperation for one reason or another.

Not all providers gonna overlook your  grossness and fuck you because  of the money, whatever that may amount to - and probably not much  .Maybe those who are addicted to drug will.
And if that's the mentality you have regarding all providers  in this  business,  shows you're a messed up guy.

What are you trying to turn this board into.  If disrespect is all you have to offer go F yourself. Not gonna sit  here and let you ghettorize this platform.

It's teeth ARE important, or tooth IS important.  Part of the confusion is when they invented the toothbrush in Arkansas, that's what they named it.  If it had been invented in California, it would be called the "teethbrush."

This is perfectly fine. Just make sure you give every dollar back he gave you for the session. Simple, problem solved.

His hands are clean…

in a hotel room I check the bathroom or closet so her bf/daddy or shady ass girl friend doesn't Rob Me!

A CEO can make the rules for the people who work for him/her, but she cannot DICTATE rules for customers.  Customers will go where they get good service and value for their money, compared to your competitors.  With that said, you do have the right to refuse customers that you don't want to do business with, and that is really what you are saying.  With some customers, regardless of the business, there is a tipping point where the things you have to put up with are not worth the amount of business you are getting.  I will put up with antics from a million-dollar customer that I will not tolerate from a $50,000 customer.  So, while you have the RIGHT to refuse service to anyone, if the money is good, you are likely to put up with more "broken rules" than you would if it was a random one-hour customer.  In other words, if a guy offers you $5000 for an overnight and pays a deposit of half upfront, are you really likely to pass if it's going to mean you have to teach him how to use a toothbrush and mouthwash, and how to wash his butt-crack effectively?  The term "Whoring" is often strictly about money and has nothing to do with sex.  

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In America, Canada, Britain, and many other places,some people get judged based on their  skin color more than anything else. As matter of fact  some people stigamtize an entire group without  regard to any exception .  
Some people need racism to survive, because  it gives them everything they own. They achieve this by denegration, and how one group is better that the other  based on some bullshit narrative (the goal is to  elimating the competition) . A narrative that started years ago also used  to justify atrocities like slavery,holocaust etc.  
Those thoughts and behavior are still with us today (2024) mostly  in   subtle forms, through  redlining, denying of loans, gentrification, medical racism, denying  true history,  deny or water down atrocities  etc.

Totally agree with carrying. Hardly want to go states that makes legal sellf defense difficult . Even in tough gun law states make sure you have quick access  to that lock box.As they say " better to be judged by 12 than carry by 6 ".

Take a shower, scrub your ass and balls, brush you damn teeth and go to the dentist before you go to a session. Simple, problem solved!

I do offer full body sensual massage. Not a part of the body I spend a lot of time on normally, but if they are that BAD (yes, some are!) that will be skipped.

Lay, Lady, Lay.  Prime period.  One of them.

look in one place because its hairy feet.  

My first reaction happens is on the phone call.  I can tell a lot about a new client by talking to them.  I'm getting really good picking up their attitude.  When they come to the door, I look out the peep hole.  I scan their energy field and see if they are good people.  If not, I don't open the door.  If I detect heaviness or a down feeling they don't get me.  That rarely happens but it has.  I scan for appearance and body movements.  I'm a fun upbeat human and seek the same in clients.

I do a lot of FBSM but I always would just as soon she not do my feet. And no mine are not THAT BAD, just a preference. Maybe I’m weird.  

I believe Prime Period was an all female punk rock group out of Eastern Europe.

Wait a minute. I gotta make sure I’m understanding this right.  

Well of course.  I could not find any Prime Period in my searches, so I'm not sure who you were referring to.  I was referring to Dylan, of course, and merely suggesting it was one of his many prime periods.  And yes, I know "prime" means "first" or "best"; but in a career spanning so many decades and styles it's possible, I believe, to have several peaks.  That's what I was alluding to.  What that has to do with Queen Bia's original post is peripheral, but she mentions it right there in her opening statement (the dirty/clean hands thing).  I was just riffing on your riff.  Just good clean fun.

thing I notice. I love thick brows! Clean, tidy nails are also a huge plus.

Who is this?!!

First I notice things from sites & Phone calls. I would never post stupid shit about people (Just because I'm not getting sexually aroused by the person). Posting false shit on a site like this. Everyone has there own prospective when it comes to who they like both sexually and non-sexually. I think the assholes who need to post such stupid shit.........Like posting close up photos of someone with a smart ass comment.    

In that order.....(1) eyes really are the window to everything else, and if you know what you are doing, by making eye contact, looking deeply into her eyes when you converse....you can get a good idea if she is being truthful.    Not 100%, but its a pretty good guide....