I have seen a provider recently who was a huge letdown. I was told (by other hobbyists who have seen her) not to leave the review, that this person stalks harasses and blacklists you if she finds out who you are. I was not displeased by performance and very pissed off that I stayed for the time I did, but very let down by her looks and her airbrushed or very old photos. I thought with 10 plus reviews  I was safe but it was so far from the truth it wasn't funny. Some of these men have histories here too.
I submitted an  alias review, my very first and last one based on what other guys on this site told me about her (the way she acts when a less then great review is posted). I felt it was the right thing to do because of the situation. Nothing has posted yet, but even if it doesn't make it up, at least I tried to do the right thing.
I can't tell you how hard that was because I am not that type of person usually. This was just beyond a little fib, and I think she might even be a bit mental.
Just unloading here

Sounds like a tough situation. Don't give up on TER. Posting an honest review will likely get you a tiny bit more respect. Maybe guys will send their UTR girls to you? Here's hoping! )
Kisses,
Katie

pretty sure that if you get a provider or two to contact those sites on your behalf to vouch for you they'll remove your name from the blacklist

At least thats what I've heard

I'm not the only one that sees it, either.

Originally, before my time, this place was made to make ladies accountable for the robs, NCNS, and the like.

Can we agree on this?

I'm not implicating you by no means.

It's become too PC. It's purpose, it's focus, is lost.

Basically what I'm saying is, the guys were at the mercy of the providers until this came around. Meaning the NCNS, shoddy treatment, upsells. Do I have to go on?

Then there was accountability. It's your job, right? I'm held accountable at my job. Why should you, or any other lady be exempt? Doesn't make sense to me especially since I pay you a hell of a lot more for an hour than I make at my job.

Think about it.

What? You spread your legs and that gives you carte blanche? Lady please...

Trying not to be a dick, but your post hit a chord.

I'd be more than happy to debate with you, if you like. But I just think after all is said and done the real power is with the ladies. DNS and blacklists. We can go on.

Funny story. A lady, 60+ at one of my accounts told me last week women would rule the earth. But they can't. Cuz they hate each other. It was ingrained since they were little girls to compete against one another for us scumbags.

I see it all the time. Civvie and provider ladies. Best friends this week, hate each other the next.

Guys. We'd duke it out and buy each other a beer after.

Think about it....

OK...ya gotta trust....but if you will...

unfortunately if she's a review crazed nut bag she probably will. See here's how I see it yes reviews are great to ligitimize a woman- or to say if she's a crook, fake or otherwise.

But unfortunately too many men (and they know who they are) put way too much emphasis on reviews, they won't see a woman who has less than ___ # of reviews, they say if a girl is less than a 10 she's ugly or not worth their time...and the list goes on. So then you have women who this is her only source of income, top that with the fact that she has sparkling reviews (whether it be fear from the reviewers or just his honest opinion, discount or whatever), add a sprinkle of nutso, a dash of an over inflated ego because of her prior reviews, you now have a recipe for disaster.

I absolutely think its terrible for a provider to use blacklists as a revenge for a review, that's not what its for, and as a provider, its very annoying to have to weed through the BS angry bitch alerts and the real deal alerts, but unfortunately- there are guys who feel like reviews are what define provider, and they don't. Women who are obsessed with reviews know this and in turn they blacklist you as revenge because they feel you just hurt their business.

Hope it works out for you.

xox

is that too many of them lack self control.  Providers only pull shit that patrons tolerate.  Too many patrons are way too horny and irrational to walk out when they find out that the picture was fake or they get upsold.  Just go home, jerk off, and quit rewarding poor performance.  If you let her get away with it, then she's just going to do it again to the next guy.

The industry would be much better for both the patrons and the quality gals if the patrons would quit tolerating the bad apples.

Personally I don't see the need to post "Fake, or Old Pictures".  My photos are very up to date, I change them out about every 4 months or so.  If I went to see a lady and she wasn't the one in the photos I would turn around and leave.  Guys it is your HARD EARNED money that is supporting us not the other way around!!!!!  So if the provider in question doesn't want or like "Bad Reviews" then she needs to be honest.  Without reviews, good or bad, how are you going to be able to judge the provider.  I have placed two of my callers on the black list for attitudes and trying to work for "Uncle Leo", but to put someone on the blacklist because of a review...PLEEEEESE.  Just wanted to ad my thoughts.
Stay Safe,
Ashley

I take every blacklist report with a grain of salt...Some ladies put a guy on a blacklist for the most mundane reasons. Cancelling 2 days before a meeting...showing up 10min late...shorting $10 of the donation etc. ALL these are "shit happens" type moments and clients are people just like providers!
I always let a client redeem himself and never assume a blacklist report 100% valid. UNLESS of course it involves unsafe practices or robbing or anything physical...I don't touch those guys with a 10ft pole just to be on the safe side. If the blacklist says "he's a time waster" I give him the benefit of the doubt but yes, sometimes it is true and they go on and on for 50 e-mails and never schedule anything.

About you situation. The fact is no one likes a bad review. I recently had a not so stellar one on here that I think very inaccurate. I contacted TER but they did not remove it. Some girls will go apeshit on a client who leaves a bad review and that's why I think TER created the alias reviews. In my opinion you did THE RIGHT THING. What is the POINT of reviews if they are fake and false or outdated? If you don't stop the cycle who will?Sadly there is nothing you can do to stiffle her outlash at you. I hope you didn't put too many tiny details in the alias review so there could be some doubt on her mind who it is who wrote it. The fact is every single review of a provider is YMMV. BUT having fake pics or completly photoshopped pics are a NO GO and a deal breaker.

The last thing I want is a guy to come to me expecting one thing and being severely unhappy once he leaves and never sees me again. Repeat clients are the goal!