hey gents,lets all try to be a bit more honest in all these reviews,i recently saw one of the provider that have lots of _----looks like a model --listings and when she got to my place,i thought i was looking at the overweight grocery checker ,not a 400 a pop escort,then she took her pants off and there are more fucking cellulite on her leg than i have ever seen!!!!!!!!!!!how on earth can this be model material,are most you guys use to pigs or did you turn all the light off??????????false or inaccurate reviews cost us all time and money  and btw the girls are always trying to tell you that she charges more than what the site says so please include the prices you paid so we can all get a better idea .Hope this might make a difference.So far i have only seen one girl that looks like her picture.

I agree 100%.  I have had the exact same experience!

Sorry you had a bad experience.
Could it be an agency and they sent a different girl?
Were the other reviews recent?
I suggest you send PM to the other reviewers and check into it.
Also, be sure to write a review yourself.
You could also raise this question on the appropriate regional board.
The system is not perfect, but it's pretty damn good.

Just wondering ... what's to stop providers from submitting their own stellar reviews? I'm sure we all view some girls with a single outstanding review as possibly too-good-to-be-true. Also, one of my reviews was posted differently than I had submitted it, but I e-mailed TER and it was changed back accurately. Oh, and as long as we're talking about honest ... how about providers posting accurate pics on their websites. I'm not talking about soft-focus glamor shots that flatter the provider. That's fine. I'm talking about pics that aren't even CLOSE to resembling the provider. I don't know how it is in the rest of the country, but in the Northern Connecticut area I have yet to meet an internet provider who posts real pics. (Of course, most of the Connecticut web sites are disappearing, so maybe their false advertising is backfiring on them.)

Note from GND:  I edited out a sentence because it was mean and out of line.  Your quarrel is with the reviewers, not with the provider, and attacking her un-called for.
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well the provider i am talking about have over 10 reviews that says she is model material... [edited] i could have pick a woamn like this at any local bar and she would have to pay me!!!!!!!i have seen many on this site and have met a few that are o.k. and two that are absolutely go0rgeous,but for the most part we really need to say what we feel and not wory about the escorts ,if they stop getting calls,they will lower their price and charge what they are really worth,in the one case i mentioned,she should be more like 100 to 150 ,not 400 that she gets cause she is MODEL MATERIAL....ahhhhhhhhhh

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You guys are vicious... I'm sorry you've had negative experiences. It is true that some reviewers are more gentle than others, but it is ALSO true that tastes vary... the girl you think looked horrible might be beautiful to someone else. She must be... I can't imagine that TEN reviews would blatantly lie about her looks. One or two, ok, but ten???? Maybe you're exaggerating, I don't know?

Did the girl look like her pictures?
Did you backchannel any of the reviewers to ask if her pics were truly accurate?
Was her weight in the same range that she describes herself to be, and that her reviewers describe her to be?  
Did you email her to ask her how recently her pics were taken?

If you covered all these bases, were told that the girl weighed 105 at 5'6" by her and her clients, arrived and found her at 150... you were mislead and lied to and could have left without paying a dime... it was your choice to stay.  I really do believe in being honest with my own clients... I would *hate* to have someone arrive and be disappointed with how I look!  

I'm not here to argue with you... just providing some ways you DO have at your disposal to verify the looks of any girl. Anyone with 10 reviews, has a list of 10 clients you can freely contact to ask questions.  Part of this hobby involves your responsibility in doing your homework to ensure you have the best experiences possible, and if you continually have negative experiences you might want to take a look at what you're doing.  I am not letting the ladies off the hook either.. it is our responsibility to be honest about how we look... but you didn't say if you saw pictures of this lady, or how SHE described herself, only how her clients rated her. (That rating scale is difficult at best... maybe she had an average body and a gorgeous face? Who knows, certainly not me!)  

It's DEFINITELY true that some men are more gentle than others in their reviews... these are the ones who recognize that we are *human* as well as providers. All of us have flaws, and no one is perfect.  My reviews usually do say something like "She ain't no barbie doll" LOL But I say that on my site and I am very honest about myself and my shape.

I'm not a pig, btw, simply because my weight doesn't fall within *your* tastes... rest assured it does fall within the tastes of many others. TER (and the internet in general) provides you with an ARSENAL of equipment to use in choosing your next lady companion.. make use of them and hopefully your experiences will improve!

Hugs*
Nicole

Let's face it. Men have egos that color their review - it a fact that you have to understand when reading them. Few men will admit they made a mistake or didn't choose right. That's the case in many reviews but this might be different of course.

I'm glad I followed the link to your site.
Really Bi? ... Hope that means "bi-coastal"
and you will soon grace those of us on this
side of the contenent with the profound
pleasure of your company.
(back on topic for a token moment)
I have seen providers that run the gamut.
Attitude gets one further in this business than
good looks! IMHO  Though good looks don't hurt
none either!  
You, my dear, appear to be gifted with both!  
PLEASE COME TO LA SOON!
(Did I grovel just enough?  Help me out here So Cal guys!)

Lustman

Then why even post a review if you think that way?

The reason why you are looking for physical perfection might be because you don't have the ability to conceive of a perfection outside of the physical realm. The least attractive person in the world can be Adonis if he knows how to speak and learns to use what he has.

If you continue to be absorbed with physical beauty, you will never make true connections that run deeply.

If you don't like the way she looks, give her $50 bucks and leave. No one is requiring you to stay. If you stayed and paid  for something YOU DID NOT WANT then, see the attached link for the film, starring, well YOU!  

HB

I agree with your comment that the reviews aren't always as accurate as we would like.  TER has established some very good guidelines for the review process, and I would encourage everyone to read them carefully and try to adhere to them.

Also, it is very helpful if you include full measurements, including estimated weight and height in your reviews, as well as the price paid -- and, I think we should establish some guidelines for rates.  Paying more than $$$/hr seems excessive (see my comment in the other thread on the TER income survey).

Lastly, I have a policy now that I won't see a girl unless she is clearly the girl in the picture.  OR, if she is as good looking as the picture, I will make a point to tell her AND the service that the picture doesn't match, and I ask them to update them.  Sometimes the service has actually posted more recent/accurate pictures upon request.

That statement should not apply to all. I am what I say am and my reviews are all true. Please go to my site. Everything there is 100 % true and so are my pic. Oh I'm sorry...I look better in person. I will be glad to sent you a few pic also.
Email me.  

Ruth

That statement should not apply to all. I am what I say am and my reviews are all true. Please go to my site. Everything there is 100 % true and so are my pic. Oh I'm sorry...I look better in person. I will be glad to sent you a few pic also.
Email me.  

Ruth

i post review so others may know the truth ,i post very positive ones as well...as for making this alledge true connection with a provider?????//i am sorry,i don;t want to look inside them ,did you think we are looking to fall in love with a provider......that would really be a disaster!!!!!!!i mean they are PROVIDERS ...not girlfriends

if we are loooking for inner beauty,why the hell would you post naked pictures of yourself????why not just tell us how deep you are and how wonderful you are on your site and all the ads you put out.i am sure that gets a lot of calls!!!!!!I for one is certainly not looking for inner beauty from a PROVIDER......The last girl i dated ,she did not ask me for 1000 for a night for dinner and sex,and she have plenty of inner beauty that i see....so i don't understand your point at all.I don;t mix love with paid sex.and i am sure you don;t either.we are talking paid sex here,and false advertising by providers and also inaccurate review bu other members ,that is all i am talking about.

TER is a self-policing community. Though we have dreams about seeing every one of the 10,000 girls we track, it is impossible.  We count on YOU, the membership, to provider accurate reviews.  If you see a girl that does not meet up to the reviews, don't complain. Tell us about it.

Isn't that why we are here?

-- Staff

I don't think Heather was saying that you should fall in love with a provider in any sense of the word. Her point is that there are different perceptions... Your idea of what is beautiful may not agree with everyone's idea of what is beautiful... hard to believe, I'm sure!  Frankly I have seen women who have fantastic bodies with um... not attractive faces... and guys falling all over themselves, because they never bother to look above tit-level.  Other men don't care as much about the body, if there is a beautiful face atop the body with gorgeous eyes and sensual lips to kiss. To others, outward appearance is less important if the girl has a super personality, is sexually uninhibited and fun to be around.

If however, your preference is a barbie doll with nothing on the inside, no responsiveness, who doesn't really enjoy her work but can lie there and take it like a good girl, but has a "perfect" body... more power to you! I personally would hate to limit *myself* in that way, but we are most assuredly each entitled to make our own choices. If yours work well for you, I am sincerely happy for you.

I personally *love* women. But if I see a woman who is to die for gorgeous, and she is a rampant bitch... I lose interest. If she has the brain of a brick, I lose interest.  There is more to it than outward beauty, even if I am talking about a one night thing (as I do not have "relationships" with women in the way I do with men), and what makes me jump for a lady is the beauty that is there on every level of her being. That has nothing to do with falling in love, it has to do with enjoying the experience of her *completely.*

Just my opinion!

Hugs*
Nicole

Thank you

You're a sweetie... I will definitely add LA to my list of places to consider. I haven't started touring yet tho... anyone know a good doggysitter in MD?

Hugs*
Nicole