CAN get you a free lay with a top 100 provider.
I know this to be a fact, because it has happened to me.
How about you??

I never look at 'being nice' with an ulterior motive. I've had the pleasure of getting to know many wonderful ladies outside of the 'one hour' confines. Some were looking for advice in a particular area. Some were looking for an empathetic, or sympathetic, ear. Some shared a similar hobby (not this realm) interest in travel, literature, restaurants, philosophy or music. Through all of it, I've never looked at them as 'hookers'. Sure, I know what they 'do' IN this realm, but I've never looked at them as being defined BY this realm.

I would like to consider declining it. I am in this for "pay for play".. Which means I pay for play...The paying part keeps the relationship transactional for me.. Which is how I would like it to be....There ain't such a thing like a "free lay". When sex becomes free, a whole lot of different baggage comes with it.

Haven't you ever gotten a freebie/special treatment for being a loyal customer at your favorite bar/restaurant/practically any other business? Same thing here. Reward the good customer and he feels special and keeps returning - everyone wins!

of occasions, I have gotten OTC time, hotel stay etc.  with very charming ladies - who also happen to be very good at sex.

Mostly "wimman" wanting to hang out after sex and wanting to join me for dinner afterwards..

Just be nice all the time or it'll come back on you real fast.  "Being nice to a hooker", wtf is the alternative, being rotten?  wtf is the matter with guys like you?

Better just ask yourself why you needed to post this.  Here's a news flash: it happens all the time. And it ain't no big deal.

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Until they give you a reason not to. I happen to like providers (or hookers as you refer to them as), in fact I like them better than civie women. I know exactly what he motives are for a provider and providers that can make you feel like they actually like you (if only for a few hours at a time) are awesome. I like to play out fantasies and most providers have no problem with that in fact they encourage it and they seem to realize that it's a departure from reality.whereas covie women seem to judge or at least question "why do you like to do that" or "why do you want me to do that" and they don't understand that it's a departure from reality and a departure from who you normally are. I like to talk dirty with a provider, but I always ask her if that's ok with her and ensure that she knows I don't mean any of it, it's just fantasy. I've never had a provider yet that had a problem with it, in fact many have remarked how nice it is that I ask before hand. And then during the down time when it's "game off" I go back to being nice and "normal" and hanging out with a friend. But I'm never nice to someone to see of I can get anything out of them like free time, I nice to them because I should be. We are all people trying to make our way in this thing called life, it's much easier to make your  way in life by being nice to people than it is to be awful to people. An old adage says, "you'll catch more flies with jimmy than you will with vinegar".

I really don't see what is the big deal about getting a "freebie" I have lost track of how many "hookers" I have seen off the clock, but it runs in the dozens. After all virtually everyone of these ladies (present company excepted) is fucking SOMEBODY for free, why shouldn't that somebody be me? lol

Dozens of freebies isn't really that big a number when you consider that I have "paid for it" literally thousands of times. If only one out of a hundred hookers that I've seen deigned to fuck me for free, my number would still be in the dozens. I still don't see what is the big deal. If I went out to lunch with a hundred different bank clerks, I bet you I could get at least one of them to fuck me for free as well.

a few hundred paid appointments, then its nothing...

AwGoFuckYourself....."whilst" I read the "news flash" and "ask myself why" this  "happens all the time" and "ain't no big deal"
Have a nice fucking day!!

When sex becomes free a whole lot different baggage comes with it (and it's never really free). I for one am done with that different baggage. I enjoy knowing what motivates the woman I'm with,  being with providers I know what their motivation i

I hope you're happy now, tough guy! LMAO!

Not true at all.
No baggage, just free sex with a hot hooker.
Don't make something complicated that isn't.
Some of us just know our way around hookers. ( not all, but some )
You just have to have a little class.

There was a time when I was younger that I thought I was the bomb too. As you become older and hopefully wiser you'll find that there isn't ANY free pussy. There is always a catch, I like knowing the catch up front so I can relax and not be concerned with what is her motivation. These wonder women get a portion of my disposable income to make me feel good for a short period of time, but they don't get any access to my pension or my portfolio. That is reality! It's cool that you think you're getting something for free, it's a good illusion.

At my age, I could toss rose petals in her path and give her a mink coat as a gift, and I'm not going to get a freebie. I don't expect to be invited to spend time OTC either in bed or at dinner. No hot young lady is going to want to spend unpaid time with me. That's just the way it is.

That said, I like hookers too. Some of my very best friends in the entire world are hookers, and yes, on average I like hookers over civvie chicks as well. Most of them don't look at me like I just escaped the leper colony when I tell them what my real "number" actually is. lol

and actually except to my friends, and to stupid poeple, I am a rather nice guy and treat almost everyone else pretty nicely IMO. lol

Or maybe you're not the first guy to get tossed the occasional freebie by a woman with a marketing plan.  Nah, must be the first one -- you're special.

Had a fuckuddy/friends w/ benefits for years. Starting up a new one. May not be top 100 providers but same benefit

Nothing wrong with that, if that's what you want.. But don't tell me its free..

I never thought of that. Maybe that's what I'm doing wrong?

Well I've had OTC time, but never an OTC "lay". I'd rather have OTC time from an invitation.
But only happened to me once.

Youngster???  LMFAO
With 1 review you are now all of a sudden a hooker expert???  LMFAO again.

Whatever her reason...........sure was good fucking her and spending the night with her without shelling out a days wage.
Genius? Maybe!

If you click on the 1 you'll see I have way more than 1 review, and 11 more than what's shown because the ladies I saw from a recent agency shutting down took their profiles off TER. I recently changed my user name to this, which used to be my alias because there were too many cry babies on here causing me of hiding behind my alias. For whatever reason TER only puts the little number below my user name to the number of reviews since I changed my username.

I meant to say cry babies accusing me of hiding behind my alias. Apparently my phone thinks it is smarter than I am,  perhaps it's right. Anyway, if you think you are getting something for free then it's a good illusion. NOTHING in life is free, and if something sounds too good to be true it probably is.

I've been called much worse. That's funny by the way, the first time someone called me that I didn't know what the heck it was because I was enunciating Gina like you would the name and not as a concocted word of vagina. If being respectful and nice to people no matter what they do for a living means I'm a mangina then I proud to be called one. When I pay a clerk at a store and I get my change I tell them to have a great day, do I have to? No, but it doesn't hurt me at all to be nice.

To everyone. First lady I had sex with threw herself at me from me being nice and comforting her. It's not unattainable for the same thing to happen in this realm.

The way you build a relationship with someone has a lot do with a lot of things. There are many misconceptions and prejudices one lives with.

When you are only nice when you need somethings from the other is called a phony. People can spot it 1,000 miles away and you are only fooling yourselves.

P4P. Friends with benefits is not P4P in my view.

So far, no one I've spent time with has been a hooker. They have all been women, some exceptionally nice, some reserved.
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