Can it be defined? For some it is a whisper, a glance, a soft touch. For others, it is the way a skirt glides over the hips, the swish of stockings as legs cross and uncross, the way a shoe is held by a toe. Others are captivated by the curves of a woman's breasts, hoping to catch a glimpse as she leans in to talk, the tickle of her hair across your cheek, the silkiness of her lips.

What is sensuality and do we really want to define it?

A woman that in touch with the promise of sensuality gets my vote everytime. Your clients are very lucky.

Well, it's everything you said and more! I'm not sure if it's definable either. Over the years I've found that, with the right lady, the very simplest acts can be very sensual and strangely innocent at the same time. One thing I do know is that it can not be faked.

You don't want to define it because it varies so from person to person. I'd say it's a mixture of acculturation, expectations and personal experience - for example, in travels one begins to note that in certain cultures certain things are regarded as more or less sensual. Layer personal differences on top of that and you have the whole lace-to-latex range of "sensual". Can't pin it down with a few defining words.

That's where the fun is... exploring a new partner, discovering what is sensual to them, and maybe discovering further (with them) what is sensual to you. Sensuality matures as well, both as an individual and with a partner. It's very fluid.

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Sensuality is the attribute, quality, act, effect or state related to one, which is sensual.  Some people define sensual relating to the five senses: sight, hearing, touch, smell, taste.

When I think of sensual I think of someone who takes time to feel and enjoy the present moment, the moments to come and derives real pleasure from it. I see it as graceful fluid motion.

Each experience is unique. Sometimes food is very sensual, sometimes not, etc. One of the things I look for in a provider is the ability to create this space in which sensuality happens. When people can get into that space with each other it's pretty amazing.

The words that first come to my mind are grace and dance. Somehow the gracefullness of her movements are like a slow dance and the sexual energy is transmitted on a secondary level rather than a direct, tits in your face sexy level.
 both of them are sexy.

I would agree, Holly, that sensuality is hard to define. However, sensuality is in a person, and I can draw a distinction between two different types of women I have known.

With a woman I would define as sensual, an innocent act like sitting behind her and stroking my fingertips from the base of her stomach to the tips of her breasts is an other-worldly experience, both in how it feels to me and in how she responds.

For other women, this act is just one more type of foreplay.

And one of these days I will experience this wonderful creature and show her what a BFE I can be.

Indeed, it would define mutual satisfaction.

Are the gateway to the soul.  To me, clearly the most sensually revealing part of the body.  Sometimes difficult to read, but nearly impossible to hide true feelings.

stimulating the 5 senses is the best i have seen.  mine relates to that and intimacy