I love the idea of it, it turns me on, but in practice I don't find it so great.   One of the wonderful things about a BJ is that it can be so passive, I really have time to just concentrate and enjoy the experience.   Even the little things, such as the hair of a lady with longer hair touching my stomach or my thighs just makes it that much better.   If I am dining at the same time, I cannot fully concentrate on either activity.   As a result, the BJ experience is diminished and my DATY has no chance of being good because I cannot fully concentrate on it (not saying that it is good even with my full concentration, but I am sure it is worse with me thinking about what is going on at the other end.)

I can't get my full technique nor can I orgasm in this position, so I will honor it for shits and giggles but nothing is really happening stimulation wise for me in that position. I prefer to have total control whilst giving head.  
 

Yes, I suppose I am not much of a multi tasker either. I much prefer to take turns pleasing each other.

The whole taboo thing is fun but in reality it doesn't feel as good as a nice pussy. Unless it's LR's which I hear doesn't have enough room. LOL

Although, in a threesome, I'm happy to have a lady on my face and a lady on my dick at the same time!

I find it lacklaster when a lady takes my cock out of her mouth right before I cum to COF or COB. It gives me no thrill to "paint" her face, breasts, ass or belly. Especially if I end up being the one to finish myself off. Ugh.

that since I like my neck being bit.... and since I have so many nerve pleasures from my back and butt being licked and kissed... that I would try having my back bit.  

I've never really enjoyed 69 for the exact reasons you described. When I'm getting my cocked sucked everything she's doing is contributing to the experience, even the bobbing up and down of her head. And when I'm with a lady that wants daty, I enjoy every little nuance of doing so, her movements, her moans, all of her body.

I have NEVER cum while doing 69, and I seriously doubt I have ever even gotten a woman close to cumming in that position either.

It looks great in porn and I have had countless number of strippers do it to me in VIP, but usually it just gives me a rash. Maybe 1 out of 20 times it will make me cum, but if given the choice I'll pass on it.

Well, glad that I have company in you and LR.

At the end of the date, we squeezed one more round in with her in CG.  I came, I remained hard and she kept riding me while she also stimulated herself until she came the way she likes it.  I loved it, she said "thank you, that one was for me."  The thing is that it the sensory pleasure was great and it was also great to be with someone who wanted to please herself.

I've only done this once.  A provider told me it's her favorite position for Os so we gave it a go. I swear she came 7-8 times in 20 minutes. Would have kept going but the ol' clock was ticking down. I found it a relaxing position, and it gave me good access to caress her body and watch the expressions on her face as she rode wave after wave--that was, as they say in the commercial, priceless.  

Yeah I guess it depends on several factors, anatomy being a major key.

Don't say "Rash". "Friction burn" is more better

Obviously we have our own..........position/act.........preferences..........just like we all have our own provider preferences.

Lol in one instance the girl was so forceful and intense that if we both had had any fur down there, we would have started a small fire.

Because if we did, I'd sign on as Jerry Ford and say:

It's like trying to walk and chew gum at the same time.

(ba-doom)

I agree about the angles.  To be honest, I do not want a providers nose any closer to my....whole than need be.  I am not a fan of rimming for the same reason.

being with 2 women, but for me the fantasy just far exceeds the reality.

Ridiculous.

I posted this a while back.  I have been an amateur photographer most of my adult life.  I always wanted to photograph nudes like in Playboy......and while I am good, I am not great by any standard.

I have only had one doubles session and it was IRW when I was in graduate school.   I was so overwhelmed that I could not even cum, I was actually glad when we finally said that we were done.   These days, I would not be nervous, I was back then, but it is precisely my thoughts about how I handle 69 that give me a little pause.    I will be doing in the next year or so in P4P but I have to line it up just right, it has to be with at least one lady I have been with who also enjoys it.

Yeah, there is a special sweetness to repeating frequently over many months with one provider. I've done this several times. But always a point arrives when you get taken for granted. It's little things, but they pile up. And you think about all the thousands or tens of thousands you've spent and focus on the little shitty instances of slight disrespect or less than favored treatment. Or worse: You blow a huge wad on a multi-day trip and something inexcusably fucked up happens that ruins the vacation. Say....no sex one day due to...whatever.  

I have certainly encountered that, but I have some favorites that I've seen for up to 26 years now, and each time is just as great as the last.

Things can work if both parties strive for it.

Agreed, it's why I'm jealous of you. Like civilian relationships....

both participants have to want it to keep working and keep working at it. The difference is that civilian relationships have equity (glue) that's absent in The Hobby. There's little incentive/tolerance for honesty, admission of fault and corrective action. The lure (and rightful expectation) of strange is too great.

expectations. And they met them with spades. Ever since I've been explicit about what I want well beforehand with both participants. Details. Smooth sailing.... But it's not my favorite way to blow $2k-$3k in this world. Just sometimes, perhaps once a year I'll indulge. My MO? Gotta get that fresh 1-on-1 catch, right out of the net, before rigormortis (jadedness) has a chance to set in.

I don't care how hot or clean a guy is, I do not want to be staring at his a hole lol.

Don't feel bad... I can't have LTR or Hobby Relationships for too long. You are right... when people have to realize you're human, it's over with. Humans have problems... depression,  stomach aches, headaches, periods, the shits lol. Familiarity breeds contempt eventually. I always love the beginnings and the endings of things, but never that middle part where you get to watch little by little things go to hell.

wkward. Not to mention I could slipped and got hurt. Not that I was thinking of that at the time.

Agreed. I have never found being in water terribly conducive to a great sexual encounter. It can be a fun way to get started but when the real action starts, I prefer to be out of the water.

An upside-down BJ (for lack of a better description) has never felt good to me. Ok, let me re-phrase that. Any time I'm in a woman's mouth feels good, but the pressure in that position hits the wrong places and can be uncomfortable. I'm glad not to be the only one who feels that way.

I disagree on 69. Love the view most of all.

the Hooker that I am giving money too. I do my research and read all the reviews but more often that not she does not live up to the hype.

69 without cumming is a meaningless experience, but as far meaningless experiences go it pretty damn good.

I like 69 as foreplay when it happens.  The view from below has few parallels...

Fucking in the shower post got me thinking about this one.

Think you just defined marriage.

DT doesn't impress me.  It doesn't provide sensations any better than many other activities.