Honestly don’t think there are many that spend their time “writing” personal things here!
JS
For those of you gentlemen who regularly see providers who charge $1k or more an hour, what do you do for a living?
I tell people what NOT to do.
On an anonymous blog where responding is optional??
I actually agree with QB. Our occupations are more personal. If I am booking you, then I will share more about me, like what I do for a living. But on a public fuck board, I prefer not to share this with others.
Sounds like someone need to work on their opsec ... hunh counselor? 
I'm not even sure what you mean. I looked up opsec, and I got Operations Security. Are you saying you figured out I am a counselor? And, therefore, my security is bad? If you are, you are wrong. And, if you thought you figured it out after I said I didn't want to share it, posting it is pretty fucked up. But maybe I'm off base, because I'm just spit balling here trying to figure it out.
all be using our real names here. I don't ever book using my TER username, so I have no problem telling providers in person what I do for a living.
Crytpo. Got lucky.
My friends that also participate at a higher end are usually old grizzled stock traders or trust fund lifers.
Today I learned that what you do for a living is "deeply personal". So "deeply personal" that most high-earning professionals have public profiles detailing where they work and what they do.
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Sure and I suppose some even want to link their comments and reviews from here to those profiles.
But as ed noted, responses are optional and one can draw their conclusions about how welcome the question was from the responses, and lack there of, I suppose.
OP hasn’t been here very long, but she has developed a habit of rudely responding to people who answer her questions. On top of that, she blurs her face in her ads but can’t understand why people want to maintain some sort of discretion or secrecy. It doesn’t really make sense if you ask me.
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So my response was rude, but their comment wasn't? 🤣 I can be sarcastic and snarky just like everyone else. I'm not "rude" for matching energy.
To me, that’s a positive thing, as I’d genuinely like to see more people posting, so I truly welcome you. That said, it might be worth pausing to listen to some of the pushback you are receiving and reflecting on whether there is any merit in the critiques. That kind of self reflection can be valuable and often leads to growth, don't ya think?. Just my two cents.
What is it with new providers and attitudes? At least OP isn't as bad as this recent flameout
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/stfu-1039026
I feel the op doesnt fully understand the dynamics here.
You are essentially asking a bunch of life long sex addicts to partially expose part of their lives. Not everyone is going to be ok with that.
I may be totally off base but I think your intent was an indirect question about affordability, which is certainly a hot issue these days. How do people starting off their careers afford to buy a house or condo in SF, LA or NYC, or for that matter survive financially, There was a piece, highly controversial, by a money manager that claimed the new poverty level on the coast is $140K. So, if you make under 140K you are not middle class or lower class you are downright poor. My advice is to seek out a quality financial planner that can assist you reach your goals rather than asking a question to the mongers on this board.
How do you properly budget to spend that much on entertainment? If you are smart, you have your priorities which are not sex related. Pay your bills, savings, time with family first. Leftover, do whatever you want with.
100% agree on budgeting with priorities in mind first. And, this will not be the same for everyone. Personally, I like to have double my annual income in the bank. In the event I get laid off, I know I have two years of salary to get me through what may be a rough patch. Also, my retirement money, which includes investments, needs to be enough for me to continue my current lifestyle and have funds for all the getting old expenses I will likely have to cover.
After I do all the smart spending budget type of stuff, I'm also not just spending everything that is left. I have a slush fund that is intended for buying unplanned things. For example, if I need a new TV, cell phone, water heater, car repairs, etc... it's not going to set me back. If I want to go to a sporting event, concert, show, etc..., I have money for it.
So, after all of that, knowing that not every month is the same, I figure out the amount I am comfortable spending on an escort. Frequency factors in. If I see them less frequently, 1k is more doable. But more regular, then I need to scale down. On top of all of this, I need to consider the value. If options at $700 or $800 are plentiful, I'm less inclined to spend 1k even if I have it to spend. Just because I have it, doesn't mean I will think it's worth it.
I agree. My financial advisor basically got me down to paying an additional bill every month. The bill to me for my savings. Then, whatever is leftover don't feel guilty when I spend it on whatever I want.
Ask one of the many AI engines "what income is necessary to support a $1,000/month (or week?) discretionary habit." Throw in as many "knowns" as possible such as geographic location to establish likely mortgage/rent, other likely discretionary spending, number of dependents, etc... and you'll probably come up with a reasonable range. Then follow up with "what professions earn (that wage).
Doctors, lawyers, dentists, CPAs, business owners, senior-level engineers, and C-suite professionals will all be on the list. Fast-food workers, Uber drivers, gardeners, social workers, and public school elementary teachers, not so much.
My clients come from all walks of life (really, it’s truly diverse) but those who see me often usually work in tech or law. I’m only speaking for myself, so this may reflect a Bay Area and New York bias.
I am not a high ender, only because I am new, and I guess I need to grow into this.
I was a lead engineer in my field, and I tend to gravitate to the mid level providers, because I don't want low end and can't justify high end.
Also--there are a lot of folks that stretch the truth.... just a little......Anonymity makes it very easy to inflate ones own self worth!
I have not worked in a very long time.
I set aside a portion of my largest tenant’s monthly rent check to cover my hobby! However, I came from nothing as my father’s largest annual income was around $60k, so I am value oriented. I try to get a $1k experience for $400-700 per session! I have rarely forked out $1k for a session, but I’ve gotten $1k in value many times!
I’m guessing that OP is hoping to target that market so is thinking of if this is a form of market research as well as conversation starting.
Thing is, OP, this is a community where people have long posting history and interactions under their handles – some of these clients accounts are over 20 years old! They also are often associated with their review history.
And unlike Reddit, TER strongly discourages, and even prohibits the use of throwaway accounts.
A net worth exceeding $1 million (excluding primary residence) and annual income above 200k/year if single or 300K if married.
I was lucky enough to be in a rapidly growing area when I started my business. I remember a customer telling me in the early 80s " he had seen the same thing in California and advised me to buy all the land I could " . At the time I thought he was crazy. Lots of hard work and 7 day work weeks over 10+ years brought me success but at a price. Had I been in a different part of the US with a down or depressed economy It would have taken years longer to grow my business as fast as I did. A bit of luck and hard work made into a person living the American dream.
He received similar advice as a 20-something and started buying up lots in scummy parts of town. 20yrs later those scummy areas were incredibly developed and he owned about ⅔ of the parking lots and about half of the garages in the downtown and financial districts. Had a real 'Hatfield and McCoy' type of beef with the other dude who owned pretty much everything else, which made for some lively stories and late night prowls. Also went for a vertical monopoly paradigm that kept him very competitive in that industry and since he had the equipment/man power and lots of contacts/relationships at the city/county/municipal level, he leveraged those for road and parking lot construction/maintenance gov't contracts. People lead fascinating lives....
My clients are usually people in Engineering, tech, college professors, doctors, retires, plastic surgeons, real estate... often men that travel.
Also known as Nunya business
You know you don’t have to respond to questions you don’t want to answer, right?
I simply can't answer it because I don't spend the sum quoted on a single provider.
But I can attempt to make a joke that I think would be relevant if I did in fact spend this money on a single provider.
Don't expect love. ❤️
You catch more bees 🐝 with honey.🍯
Bees good, flies bad. Old sayings cool, botched old sayings bad.
Probably not but you are the Troll from MSP and seem to behaving withdrawal issues from not having your old buddy to play with ( not sure can use his name but you were of more then a little relentless)
There once was a man from Nantucket,
Whose dick was so long he could suck it.
He said with a grin, as he wiped off his chin:
"If my ear was a cunt I would fuck it."
...and fucking predator when his utter lack of any self awareness allowed him to say the quiet parts out loud. You were there. The providers ignored it, the mods ignored it. Most dudes ignored it. I'd do it again too.
I'll say this again...I've never gone after someone unless they've thrown the first rock or have stepped so far over the line like he did.
I do regularly and have since i was about 15 years old.
My question is to the ladies who buy a one K pair of shoes or a coat, it’s not my thing personally.
To each their own life is too short, do what makes you happy.
on this site, the responses are a fantasy and should not be taken literally.
Personally, I have always seen myself as a bit of an international expediter who takes the odd job for certain governments from time to time for excessive renumeration.
The op isnt going to get 1000 an hour so this thread is a waste of time.
/thread
Why are you so rude? LOL. You don't know what I'm capable of, and your opinion means nothing to me or anyone else on this board. You sure do have a lot to say for a self-proclaimed old, ugly, and fat man who 99.9% of people wouldn't touch with a ten-foot pole. Tread lightly, sir.
He might try to book you and ask if you will drop a deuce on him. Don’t worry though. I hear he chickens out.
...."you don't know what I'm capable of" is a bit startling given recent headlines.
I think you are pretty safe if you are by yourself. Lol
Solid rule 😂
LOL for someone who doesn't like "Ts", you sure do like to comment on their posts a lot. Why don't you stick to communicating with the providers you're interested in? I've said it once, and I'll say it again: I'm not the one to mess with. Tread lightly.
....and it went just fine. She doesn't appear crazy though nor did she pick a fight, lol.
Just curious, out of the several people that pushed back on your intrusive question, why did you decide to pick me to spar with? I'm not sure that was an overly smart thing for you to do...
I was referring to my ability to charge a certain amount as a provider, and I'm 100% sure you knew that.
"Given recent headlines"... Are you referring to the transexual who shot his ex-wife at a hockey game or something? We're not all crazy, you know. Like I said, you knew I was referring to my rates and not threatening that asshole, but you're trying to be edgy and sarcastic because you're miserable. Stop coming after me.
....just try a few of yours and see how it shakes out.
I'm not the one to mess with, tread lightly. You don't know what I'm capable of.
....and you're still talking about your sexual performance and how much you think your time is worth?
Honestly don’t think there are many that spend their time “writing” personal things here!
JS
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