Building eroticism

Hair-style - A fresh scent, above everything.  I am partial to a nice bow or head band or other accessory. If a lady has longer hair, it is nice when it is in a bun or braid, and during the heat of passion I can let the hair loose. It adds to the eroticism.

Type of Attire - First would be a sundress with nothing underneath. Second would be a nice lingerie ensemble, with garter and thigh highs. Something colorful and different than the normal black.

Room Decor - If it is during the day, I love natural sunlight. Feeds the libido. If windows or drapes can be open, I prefer it that way. If it is a hotel suite, I like one area brighter than another. I find the movement of shadows across a lady's figure very enticing. I don't like dark rooms, especially when in a 69 position or DATY. More light allows for appreciating the subtleties of color and texture of her womanhood.

decor.  It's your decor I care about.  As for hair, just don't be bald.  Wear thigh-highs and heels.  I will be happy.  And I will repeat, just like Groundhog Day.
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Hairstyle? Simple
Type of attire? Simple
Room Decor? Simple
Oh you want more detail?

Hairstyle: just combed down, or in a ponytail, braid, pigtails, up in a scrunchy, easy to come down, or even a just out of the shower look. Nothing fancy, no big hair. Not afraid to get it wet in a shower with me.

Attire: Sundress (preferably with nothing underneath) jeans, shorts or denim mini skirt, and a tank top, t shirt or blouse. Simple girl next door stuff. No stockings, no garters, no high heels. Sneakers, sandals, even flip flops are fine. I like naked skin, and the easier and faster to get there the better. If it is outcall, she should be wearing just enough to not draw attention when coming to my hotel etc. If we are going out to dinner or something then she should dress appropriately but minimally for the location. If it is incall, she could be buck naked when I show up

Room decor: Decor does not matter at all. What does is: Clean. Bright enough to see what I am doing and to see the lady. I like to see her face and her eyes. I like to be able to see what I am doing when I daty. Comfortable temperature (not too hot or cold) Comfortable bed and a shower big enough for two.

Pretentiousness sucks ass, and don't put too much work into what's supposed to be fun.

You ever thrown a party, and put so much thought into it, getting the best food and drinks. Spending days decorating the place. Running around like a crazy woman before anyone gets there making sure everything is just right.

Then everyone comes over and doesn't give a shit if you had faux gras or ordered in pizza. Coors light was preferred to Dom.

All that work for nothing other than they came to be with you. Spend time with you. Have fun with you.

Tell the truth? I'd much rather throw horseshoes in the back yard, drink and BBQ with a group of friends than go to some 'high-end function' wearing a suit and tie.

So put me down as the casual, easy-going type that's already impressed with my lady of choice and she knows how to relax and have a good time...

First we are all different .......Men and women .
I have seen it over and over on the differences beteewn men and womens thinking in regards to sex and perception of the process.
100% certain EVERY man - YEP, EVERY man .........Will see a hot woman and in under 5 seconds have decided he would fuck her !  If there is one guy that disagrees I have not met him
I participate on another board , Yahoo answers in the singles and dating section , and see it very often there .
Girls want to know what make up to wear , will these jeans and blouse be OK , Shoes to wear , etc. , etc . Had a provider send numerous texts while getting ready - Stckings , yes or no , Eyes - smokey or some other shit I forget . Jeans or slacks - ect. , ect.
I do know 100% that I saw your numerous photos and I am attracted to you and made the appointment . You have dressed or worn your hair or make up various ways and your are HOT in my image of you .
Smokey eyes - WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT ???  I am a guy !
Stockings - sure whatever , on or off , black or white - YOUR FUCKING HOT no matter what !!!
I have preferences sure ..........Just ask me and you'll get cleavage , high heels and hurry up I'm horny.

Here is my point I guess ...........Majority of men can tell you the month and year you got married ,  rarely the exact date - better hint a week before our anniversery honey . Will never remember what date you first went out . Never have a clue as to what shoes you had on when you went to the Air Supply concert .

Women on the other hand can tell you the exact minute and weather conditions of your wedding day . They can tell you if you had on socks and a belt when you first saw each other at the bar . They can tell you the amount of buckles , height of heel and maker of the shoes they wore to the concert . Women can tell in 2.5 seconds what blouse goes with what dress . Can tell you what another hottie was wearing at the bar 4 seats down to your right at 8:17 pm the night you first met .

We find the OVERALL package desirable and are not so detail oreintated .

Trust me , just ask for the basic preferences of attire and hurry the fuck up 'cause I am horny for your fine ass !
Another great hint - take the time as I have , and look at my past reviews - You will be able to play me like a fiddle and never have to even ask what to wear or my likes and dislikes . When the door closes after you just fucked my brains out I will wonder how the hell you you just did what you did so well Then I will be saving up $$$ and call you again and again !

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A real turn on,

is when a women just gets out of the shower and her hair is still a little wet.
Simple, but, open up your bathrobe with nothing on underneath....hot, hot, hot!!
Room..... As long as it's clean with a comfortable bed. Maybe a few scented candles and the lights dimmed.

Hairstyle:  Hair freshly cleaned, with little to no hairspray as I love to rub my hands through your hair, I like my fingers to caress your hair, not pull it apart or feel like I'm going to snap it in 2.  Hanging freely, using a scrunchy, up...as long as it come come apart easily and flow freely, it works for me.  Big and bold...definitely not for me.

Type of attire:  In a word, simple.  Something that looks comfortable to wear.  I'm a big fan of sun dresses.  I also like outfits which allows me to sneak a peak when you're bending over or sitting down...makes it feel like I'm getting a peak at something I shouldn't be, like a loose fitting top that falls open when leaning over, or that sun dress that just creeps over your ass when bending over.

Room decor:  Clean and uncluttered.  It's a bit of a turnoff to see the bedspread all rumpled.  Even if it was just you laying on it, the thought of seeing it messed up makes me think a guy just left and I'm going to be laying in his sweat or worse.  Same with the bathroom, please keep neat, no used towels lying around.

Hope this helps

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Simple hairstyle. Classy attire. Clean, simple room decor.

Hairstyle - pontail and  for one very good reason. I like to bury my face in the nape of the neck and hair just gets in the way.

Attire - after experimenting with a few different things (robe with nothing on underneath, t-shirt and shorts, classic lingerie) I now routinely say "wear whatever makes you feel comfortable. Just don't wear high heels. I hate high heels. Bare feet please". Why... because whatever she is wearing will be on the floor in a matter of seconds anyway.

Decor - I don't care just so long as it is neat, clean and spacious.

Hair Style:  Long and flowing
Attire:  Causual or Jean and a tan top
Room Decor:  Sexy/FUn

Big bold hair, jewelry too

Sexy lingerie, or hot leather Dom

Room with lots of full length mirrors

Answers.

Hair: At least shoulders length, down, and simple and easy to maintain so I can play with it.

Type of attire: Jeans and a T-shirt, or gym clothes, or men's white shirt and panties, or nude, or summer dresses are my favorites. Not into heels or stockings, they are a turn off. I prefer little to no makeup. Please avoid perfumes as I have allergies to many of them and they don't add much anyway.

Room decor: Clean, a bed is a must, and I like it when there is someplace besides the bed to sit and talk as well. I could care less about exact style or if the furniture matches or is new. But the room being clean is a must. Please avoid scented candles as I am allergic to many.

Bonus: I like a shaved a kitty but it is not that big of deal. I have never seen a health clean pussy I didn't like.

Yes, attitude matters most, then her looks, everything else is fluff and only is of minor importance.

Photo from Met-Art.com and is of Daina I

Normally I love long curly or frizzy hair (red!), but I see gals with all kinds of dos.  I even think Sinead O'Connor is nice (a bit crazy, but nice.)  One thing that does turn me on is really clean hair with the fragrance of some really good shampoo (not Head & Shoulders!)

As for clothing, that probably is the biggest variable.  Normally I like sheer frilly things, but I also have a fish net thing to.  Then I recently met a real punky type gal with lots of ink on her and she wears these really complicated leather creations and I found those extremely exciting too.

Finally as for the room, it should be cozy and welcoming.  I don't even care if it's a mess, to tell you the truth.  I recall being with a massage gal once.  We were in her living room and she let me massage her after she had given me one.  The old mrfisher charm was really in high gear and she said she had to have me, so she got up and grabbed my hand and led me to her bedroom.  On top of her bed were about three feet of clothing she had left there.  With a super adrenalyn rush she picked up the whole pile of clothing in one scoop and tossed it on the floor, then pulled me onto the bed and had her way with me.

I consider that to be one of the sexiest sessions I've ever had.