Dilema!! Dilema!!

I'm having my first 4some tonight, I'm nervous about it but also VERY excited.

I know I should have watched more porn flicks on the subject, but how should I handle this?

Should I kiss all 3 when I greet them at the door? Should I grab all 3 dicks? Should I undressed them together or separated?

I need suggestions from you, what should I do with 3 guys to keep them happy and entertained?

Not matter WHAT you suggest, I will listen and use it!!!

Help!!!

Any time there's more than one guy involved in a sex act, it starts to become a gay thing. Two guys might be iffy, but three? Very gay. So I would think this is really just their way to experiment with homosexuality and you're just there so they can convince themselves otherwise if it doesn't turn out to be what they expect.

So, that in mind you really don't have to do much... though you might consider putting your hair up and wearing a fake moustache if you really want them to let you play too.

Well egads... Fly me in ! I'll show ya !

-- Modified on 12/10/2005 10:36:55 AM

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-- Modified on 12/10/2005 12:16:01 PM

when you see one girl and a bunch a guys in porn, does that sound gay to you or just plain raunchy nasty sex?

from a mfm to 40 males with one female, things will take care of themselves. Start out chatting over wine. If one guy arranged it, invite him to go first and ask the others to join in after he gets underway. Usually one guy starts it by kissing you and then things just take off. If not, kiss the one who strikes your fancy. Use them and abuse them.

Oh, forgot to comment about the homophobic. What's your problem?

-- Modified on 12/10/2005 2:19:44 PM

Why is this situation a "gay thing?"  I agree that, IF the guys are doing each other as well as her, then they are obviously bi, but if they are merely interested in having her, all at once, taking turns, or whatever, then it is most certainly NOT a gay thing.

This is just a situation where three guys, who are obviously comfortable in their non-homoness, wish to share a woman.  Just because YOU are afraid of this scenario (hence you believe it to be "gay") doesn't make it a homosexual scene.

I disagree that "any time there's more than one guy involved in a sex act, it starts to become a gay thing."

By coincidence, yesterday I experienced a MFMF scenario for the first time. And it was a total surprise both to me and to one of the ladies involved.

The afternoon started normally enough, with me and the other surprisee spending a very enjoyable two hours together. As I was getting ready to leave, there was a knock on the door, and in stormed another hobbyist and another provider, pretending to be the respective spouses of lady #1 and me. (All four parties knew each other beforehand. Do not ask how they knew the room - it's a long story - but suffice it to say, they were not expected at the door!)

Acting the parts of the betrayed spouses, the newcomers moved on both of us, outraged, demanding an explanation for finding us in a hotel room together. My initial shock and reticence vanished rapidly, and the next hour turned into one of the most amazing and thoroughly erotic sexual experiences I have had - and there was absolutely nothing gay about it!


-- Modified on 12/11/2005 9:01:27 AM

You are far more brave than I. You will now be the one with NO control over the nights events so just be submissive and let the party take it's course........and, enjoy.

I will throw in my parenting logic for just a moment though and say this. If you have any concerns about safety issues or any rules/boundries......walk through the door and state them making sure that everyone agrees......and, let the other's know that the whole party could be jepordized if anyone lets anyone else get out of line with those rules.

Then lay back and enjoy while they monitor one another's behavior........Smile

We look forward to hearing that you had the fun that you were seeking.

X's Summer

is that alright with you?

...I'm repulsed by it. It's a fine distinction, true, but a distinction nonetheless.

Whay you don't consider is that some guys simply are turned on by polyandrous (and polygynous)  women.  Believe me in that situation, their sexual energy is going to be driven by her.  

I know the old empire fell a long time ago, but I assure you, in this day and age, there's no advantage in camouflaging homosexuality in a gang bang.  The latter may well be a bigger social  stigma.    

-- Modified on 12/11/2005 7:59:48 AM

whatever feels natural. If you're more comfortable letting someone start the process, then let them start. It will all fall into place eventually (pardon the pun).  Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

seen others that made my eyes grow wide. Where is your facts to back up your assertions? Oh, I am sorry, you have none.