Thus guy isnt of a higher status but tries awfully hard to make others believe he is.
My experience in life is that most folks downplay it...ESPCIALLY around other guys. This guy is talking big on a forum mostly comprised of horny men. I could see if he was trying to impress a den of kgals with his riches but ..knoe your audience lol.For those of you who are anti-deposit, what are your thoughts on nominal deposits in the $20-50 range? I know a few providers who ask for a very tiny deposit to ensure that their time isn’t being wasted without scaring off clients that are anti-deposit. I personally don’t bother with this because $20-50 isn’t really enough to ensure that a potential client is serious.
These are the only kind of deposits I am okay doing. And, she still needs to be reviewed well. My range is a little higher. I can go up to $100, but at that amount needs a stronger review presence. I get why providers want them, but scammers want them even more. So, for me to take a chance, I need some assurance.
To your question and I have a few thoughts. Sure I'd do the $20-50 range if it was some who really caught my eye. but I'd be aliitle concerned if she wasn't reviewed and where did I find her ad, what site. If it was say MOJO, or LC...then I wouldn't bite.
But I don't think a young lady, who's' rate is in the 6-800 range would ask for a min rate deposit, I could be wrong but I can't see it, asking for a deposit in that ballpark. Just seems like a petty money grab., And if she did ask, for some reason I'd see that as a red flag in away. An act of desperation...maybe.
I've never been or seen the kinda situation you're referring to...let's see if it pops up.
Seems to me this practice has become the norm now. Common practice amongst pros. And the reason is because you can. And you can because men are quite frankly, stupid enough.
I remember an episode of my favorite television show Fringe where Walter Bishop talks about how the stegosaurus had two brains: one in it's head, and one in it's ass. Not sure if true, but it sounded cool. Well the men in our species also have two brains: the one in their head, and the one that does most of the thinking for them which is in their cocks. And that brain leads them to get laid at any price. Provide sensitive information you say? Call my office and ask the receptionist for me you say? Send you a photograph of myself you say? You'd like a deposit of 20-50% of the total session you say? Sure!
I've done it twice. My first time in 2003, and my last time this past November after a nearly 5 year layoff. And now that I've established a nice relationship with this last one, it will be the last time. If she retires, so will I. I'm getting too old to play games, and I'm not one to hand out personal info to random chicks.
The only reason why a provider would need to lower standards (such as lowering the size of the deposit required) is because business is suffering. But since deposits are now the norm, why would asking for one cost you or any other lady business? And the point of asking for one of substance is so that the John doesn't just walk away for whatever reason. A few hundred is a nice chunk o' change for most guys. $20? Even $50? Nobody wants to throw away money, but easier to let go of $20 than it is $250.
Similar to my reply on the other deposit thread - if I knew the provider was legit, I wouldn’t mind at all.
The number of scammer posts just looking for a deposit are crazy, particularly on some of the “open” ad platforms - I’m sure I could figure out which have legit validation processes, but haven’t spent that time to do that.
Good luck!
I started requiring deposits when I became the head of household, so if I leave the house my time needs to be accounted for and the deposit guarantees that.
The reason why I require a 50% deposit is because it's extremely difficult to enforce a cancellation policy. I've required deposits to reserve my time, since 2010. Those who don't mind get the Kings treatment it's really that simple. I don't flake. I don't bs. I don't see lots of people on any given day. I reserve my energy for one lucky individual it's fantastic!
If you only require a $20 deposit that's not reimbursing a hotel fee if they don't show. Most hotels are $200+, so that's not reasonable. Uber costs more, than $20. If you don't care if you get flaked on don't require deposits.
Do you. It's your business. You're the boss.
QB, if I was going to see you, I would probably break my rule and give a larger deposit. You have been around awhile, are very well reviewed, and you are very active on these boards. But you're the exception, not the rule. Not many ladies in this business are ones I would feel comfortable taking such a risk on. I can swallow the risk on a smaller amount, but it would take an extremely rare lady like you for me to consider a larger risk.
And, while that smaller amount may not fully cover the cost a lady puts in for an appointment, it will significantly lower the chances that a client cancels. It may still happen occasionally, and that risk should be factored in. But a provider who has not built a reputation like you has not earned, IMO, the right to expect a client to take on so much risk.
it's like reserving three seats at a four-person table at a club so you don't have to sit with somebody of a lower socio-economic status. It's a throwaway. If you book for $50 and then don't go because you got a better offer at the last minute, you fulfilled your obligation by letting her keep the deposit, but what can she do with $50 to make up for the lost time? Treat herself to a foot massage at the mall?
Having to "sit with somebody of a lower socio-economic status" has always been my worst nightmare.
I feel your pain.
He loves to look down on people who have less money and social standing than him.
Nicky made the cut, you didn't. Sorry, you probably should not have mentioned this. You shot yourself in the foot.
But, thank you for stating it in a way that makes me look totally justified. Lol
Help it make sense here.
The proof of you looking down on people with less money or social status is quite documented on this forum.
It has nothing to do with me and everything to do with you.
Your response to guys who get screwed over is to become vips (of agency) so they can watch other non-vips get screwed. You brag about golfing with a po. You are the one who alway brings up money and lack of it.
You neve gave a shit about an average monger. Your idea to getting ahead in life is get to be a vip and join a select circle where rules are eschewed and where some animals are viewed to be more equal than others.
it's usually intended to trigger those that are insecure for shits and giggles. This is about the tenth time you have brought up me golfing with an agency booker. Have you ever bothered to ask one to golf with you or are you too busy playing the victim? You have attributed several things to me in this post, but you have no links that show the context of the discussion in a way that would support your claim that I look down on other people in other than a humorous context. The only time I remember looking down on you was when you told me not to PM you because at time you said you could not afford VIP membership. Meanwhile, you're here giving advice to others. I did look down on you, but only because of your poor choice of priorities. I didn't understand how you could possibly see yourself as serious monger and not have VIP membership. You have to admit; I never looked down on you when you DID have VIP membership. As far as the rest, If I said it, it will still be on TER somewhere and you can provide a link to show the context and meaning of what was said, but it probably won't help you because you have no sense of humor. Meanwhile, take that chip off your shoulder and have a little fun here. Too much seriousness is boring.
It's about you looking down on anyone lower than you in socioeconomic status, ones with less money.
I wasn't talking about ter vip, BTW, but of course you didn't really pick that up. I was talking about agency vips or any other establishment or construct which gives preferential treatment to anyone because of who they are or how much money they have.
That's your motto in life. Not to make the average monger life or well being better. But to look down on them from vip box and act like your better than them. Make a little money and then look down on those who have less.
And your "advice" to average mongers is to not stand up for themselves but simply brown nose long enough so they're like you in that vip box.
I will bring up you bragging about golfing with a Booker (right after you admitted what they do is not fair but "it's their rules")
as long as you're alive, and maybe even after that.
Imagine bragging about golfing with another man. Any man. Lol. Let alone someone who you admitted was doing wrong. Only someone with insecurity would brag about some shit like that.
until they show me they deserve to be treated better or worse than average. How many guys do you know that tip EVERY provider they have ever seen, regardless of the quality of the services? I have a reputation with providers as kind and generous. Shall we talk about YOUR reputation? Lol
Look, Rocket, I'm sorry you can't seem to get along with agency bookers, but just because I do, why does that make me a bad guy in your book? From what others that know you have posted, you have been blacklisted, probably because you are rough with the girls by your own admission when you have said soon after joining TER that you like "girls who can take a pounding."
Lastly, you have a reputation here as a pathological liar in the way you attribute statements to people that you just made up and they never said. Do you have a link to where I said I ever played golf with ANYONE that I knew was doing something wrong (other than running an agency, of course). Of course, your definition of "wrong" is only your own POV. You think that if you didn't like an agency girl, the booker lied to you and you should get your money back, but the real problem is that you have a personality here that hardly anyone likes, so why not wrap things up here and start over with a better attitude. Do you remember when you posted that about HALF of your sessions with providers were disappointing? That pretty much says it all.
BTW, most men play golf with other men. If you watch a PGA match on TV, they are ALL men. Who do you play golf with? If you join a country club, you would be expected to play in the "Men's club," and women play in the "Women's club." So yeah, I CAN imagine playing golf with a man, any man. You know even less about golf than you do the sex industry, if that's possible. Lol Go ahead and have the last word for whatever final lie you want to tell. It's what you live for.
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instead you bring up my reputation which is irrelevant because it has nothing to do with me and everything with you.
Dozens of times have you made snide and "funny" (maybe to you) remarks implying someone on this forum was broke or cheap. Literally dozens of times you have made assumptions that someone did not have money because of some dispute.
Yes, we know which Booker you were golfing with. The one who said that any clients who give any less than 7 on ter will be bld. Something you at the time agreed was not fair.
No, it's not the fact that you were golfing with a man that I find ridiculous. It's the fact that you brag about golfing with someone. It's like bragging about knowing a powerful person.
Who the fuck does this? Lol. And it was part of your spiel "be like me get into vip and then you won't have issues".
That's what I was talking about. Treating it like some kind of exclusive club. Not even once have you reported the Booker to ter for threatening to bl anyone with reviews less than 7.
And when I had posted about it you decided to lie about it and attack my character instead of sdaf taking accountability.
I don't have many issues with bookers but lots of people do. And I get to hear about it daily.
Just another day a guy I know got greenlit and got to the door and he was canceled on WHILE WAITING AT THE DOOR
Speaking of pathological liars I don't know of any org I'm bl pppat, but of course you gonna lie. That's what you do. When confronted and asked which org I'm bld from, you cannot answer that.
You'd rather golf with Booker and get yours than agree that many newbies are being fucked over and that negative reviews are suppressed.
So yeah, going back to the topic you definitely look down on those who have less money than you. You want to be in the "vip" class and get favors from booker than put yourself in average shoes of a an average monger. And then pretend like you care about them. You never gave a shit about anyone other than yourself and your access to girls.
I HATE golf. I don't even like people who PLAY golf.
And remember to....
Thus guy isnt of a higher status but tries awfully hard to make others believe he is.
My experience in life is that most folks downplay it...ESPCIALLY around other guys. This guy is talking big on a forum mostly comprised of horny men. I could see if he was trying to impress a den of kgals with his riches but ..knoe your audience lol.
in Real Life, but this isn't real life, is it? When I walk into a fine-dining restaurant, do you think the Maître 'd says, "Good evening Mr. Coeur De Lion from TER, your table is ready?" This is not reality. Get a grip. BTW, Kgirls are not found in "dens". My audience here are the long-term veterans of P4P, not the newbies that showed up a year or two ago with little substance and a lot of attitude. Lol
So you admit you are trying to impress a group of horny men.
By all means then, carry on.
Ive been here far longer then you, i just dont think its anything to be boastful about.
When I mention "newbies that showed up a year or two ago with little substance and a lot of attitude", you don't have to raise your hand. Everyone knows you're one of them.
You should be smarter about the false claims you make about being here longer than me. If you click the button at the top of the forum that says, "Top Posters on this Board", you will see that TER's records show you have been a member since June 2024, and I have been a member since October 2008. Even if you change your username along the way, your membership date stays the same and all of your reviews from the prior name (except alias reviews) are moved to the new username. There are many here that have done this and can attest that is how it works. The obvious question now is, "Who are YOU trying to impress, Newbie?"
I could care less about impressing...anyone. Validation from a forum of hooker mongers does very little for me. If it does something for you, good on you. Go get it. Whatever floats your boat.
Ive been here since 2001 or 02. Cant recall. Doesnt matter if you believe it or not. Makes 0 difference to me. You act like an old douche that desperately needs approval. You also lie about your status. Its very obvious. Do better.
believe you. TER keeps very good records and absent something other than your unsubstantiated false claim, all we have to do is believe TER.
Do you see the irony in you saying that validation here means nothing to you when that is why you make shit up about being here before June 2024 and are willing to lie your ass off to try to get the validation you supposedly don't care about? If you are sincere about it not mattering, then refer any non-believers to me and I will be happy to vouch for how unimpressive you are. Always glad to help a Newbie in trouble.
I could give a shit less if you believe me or not. TER mods are aware of my prior screenname. So what you just wrote isnt necessarily true. That last sentence describes your style of posting to a T.
However, you do give a shit if guys on here believe you. Your posts continue to indicate that you think i care in the same manner that you do. Validation from others in life is meaningless. Validation from others on a sex addict board is a joke. You seem to have a craving for that joke.
Im not the one with the whoppers for tales. You are, so seems to me like you are projecting quite a bit here.
Once again. Do better. And for yourself, stop lying.
Btw...i once met fasteddie51. Do you even know who that is?
when TER says you have been here since 2024, and you say you have been here since 2001 or 2002? Do you see the irony in you calling someone else a liar? Got hypocrisy?
got triggered by this? I wasn't. Lol
I won't speak for others but for me sliding a price range window, does nothing.
Sure, you are losing less money than more in an event of the scam, but to me it's about being scammed, not the amount.
Being scammed means not only losing money but also potentially pii, and always losing time.
Gun to my head, if I had to choose between providers who demand a deposit, I would minimize risk by looking at which one is more trusted, no which one has least deposit money.
At the end of the day imo it's like asking anti bbfs providers whether they will fuck raw and allow cip if I pay them in x to y range where x is z times as much their normal range. It's pretty unlikely they will change their mind even if I keep upping the ante.
Its the epaper trail it leaves behind and all the cons that can come along with that.
Its not about the deposit amount...
I Require a $100 deposit to schedule a session with me because it shows that the gentleman is “Invested” in showing up & prevents last minute cancellations. My time is valuable & so is my Clients time So it ensures that both parties have an agreement set & good to go. In the Bigger picture $100 is a small amount for A lot of Pleasure & Joy the Gentleman will receive on our date. I Also Agree that the Client has a responsibility to Make Sure that the Provider is Well Reviewed before he sends the funds to her.
-GiGi Amour.