I was making arrangements with a provider but was told that one of the providers I had been with was known for unsafe practices. I'm a p411 member and had accumulated several okays. I felt I researched all of the providers. Now im concerned. What did I miss and how can I find out who this person was? Thanks

Could be nothing . Maybe she thinks u want kinky shit . Who knows . Ask her to explain a bit more , be polite but ask.

You have to realize that it isn't so safe having sex with strangers all of the time.
It is on you to protect yourself.
Fuck! This country spends so much money on that..
Yet no one knows!!

But, as has been said, it may be a rival trying to trash her.

Believe only half of what you see and nothing that you hear or something like that..  

What's with the intelligent, well thought out, well composed posts? Who are you, and what have you done with my old enemy BIB?

but she's giving up a paying date just to cast aspersions on another girl's reputation - a girl that she refuses to name?

Of course, I had proof from the providers' websites and ads in addition to the reviews reiterating it, but many times this could simply be a rumor. "Unsafe practices" could be something as demanded as bbbj. To CBJ only providers, those of us who do BBBJ and CIM engage in unsafe practices. It's their right not to go behind us, but naive to think some newbie has never had unprotected sex here or in the real world.  

doesn't have to be b/c of unprotected sex.

To do ???? You , you, you thought you were going to, you know ? And I saw what you were doing , when you did that thing you do ,  ? Thats it ! Your my new fan club manager , no , no need to thank me ! Now wheres the next get together ?  

I Google the handle of all TER members who contact me. If I get hits indicating that a guy is a participant on that site, then I immediately decline to meet with them. Not only does said site allow explicit comments about "activities" for all the world to see, but it is also heavily populated by people that frequent street walkers. This type of "hobbyist" gets enjoyment out of seeing moderately priced escorts, but then secretly "slums," bargain shops, and takes risks... ON THE DOWNLOW.  Their posts often indicate their total lack of respect for women. And the reality is that street workers have high drug use/abuse rates and are less likely to be recieving regular STD tests and medical care. Thus I view these men as "risky" on multiple fronts and respectfully decline their business.

Clarence , really ? Your a grown man !  

Oh well, Move on.

Or websites. LMFAO  

So not TRUE!!!

We need to play nice...Clarence is paying the full membership this year.

Having sex with one person, and bearing a child, while risky, is a whole hell of a lot different than having sex with multiple strangers BB who have also seen other multiple strangers BB.  You really aren't that stupid are you? If you are and cannot see the difference and the percentage risk that occurs with BBFS with a provider, I pray that you have not added to the gene pool.  

But some women aren't very good at TER Hooker Jeopardy either  

Ugh...did you think that most people aren't using the same handles on various forums?

To stop bringing those gifts . And the lady that makes him go last , well that's just not fair !  

The amount of paranoia here on BBFS is amazing.  There are sites that discuss the likelihood of STD transmission...check things out if you need to confirm the facts.

What he said.  

I've heard a lot of that at the last party I attended. "A doesn't cover guys up, B gets sick a lot, I wont see anyone who has seen: insert list." I don't wanna end up on a blacklist,  so I'll heed the warnings.

Hey tinfoil, we ( me ) don't see streetwalkers.  
You would be very safe with many of the guys on here.

Because escorts are sooo much better than streetwalkers. And there are no streetwalkers with reviews on TER, or internet ads or websites, and no escorts who also moonlight as streetwalkers, and no escorts who started as streetwalkers, and streetwalkers do all sorts of nasty things, like drugs and bbfs and escorts never do those things, and I have a bridge to sell.
Interested?

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BBFS is unsafe! On another board, a hobbyist wanted BBFS (including Greek). I cringed at it. How can someone not use a condom? A few years ago, I encountered a hobbyist that wanted BBFS. Needless to say, he got turned down flat. Not protecting yourself is like playing Russian Roulette with your health.

Guess you missed that over the last few months.

- They post detailed explicit accounts of their illicit activity on a 100% public forum, graphically describing street names or incall locations, rate structures, and acts performed etc. This behavior puts the women they frequent at risk for being stalked, arrested, or worse.

No reading comprehension skills.  Fool gets taken to school.

Yep. I do think your stupid.  Majority of the hookers don't have relationships outside of this. They are too jaded and burnt out from all the dick they see, and the last thing they want to see when they go home is another one eyed snake headed their way.