then you share first! You may get more responses. Of course, I can see where you might not leave yourself open having your theories attacked. This could get touchy.

Why does the OP expect others to take heat without him taking the heat first.

Theirs two people on this board, that might answer your question, as they really don't care about taking heat lol. But as Mattradd stated, if you were to share your theories, then maybe others will as well.

I have had a question that has been bugging me for a while now. Why does it seem like mostly older providers (talking mid 30's to mid 40's and above) are the ones who enjoy having anal sex? It almost gets to the point with some that they prefer that over vagina sex. I just want to hear what the community thinks about this and most importantly why is this the case? Doesnt seem possible to get a nubile 21 year old into that. I have my theories but want to hear yours. Am I wrong here?

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That gives the question and the post a measure of credibility.


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I can certainly tell you that at 21 I had not yet figured out what the big O was. Take into consideration that like most women at that age I was worried about how unattractive it would be to make those funny faces if I had even been able to capture the big O.. Had anyone ever asked me between 20 and 30 to try alittle anal I would have been quick to say not NO but HELL NO..

I do wonder about the ladies you are meeting? Only in that I have a son who is far more honest with me then he ever should be at the ripe ol age of 18 and he has no problem finding girls willing to do anything he ask them to do. Including............

I can't tesitfy to your theory of preferrring one over the other......

You're so sure they all 'enjoy' it? My guess is that a portion of the 35+ crowd offers the option as a way to keep up business, whilst the nubile 21 year old may not feel the need to offer Greek to get business.

and leave the biz while they're still relatively young?

But then I rarely see providers over about 30, so I'm taking your word for it that they like it in the shithole. I can't say I share your track record with young babes, either. In recent months I've partaken with at least five escorts under 25, one 25-30, and declined the offer with another 2 or 3 in that range. Another 10-15 years, they'll probably be all yours. lol

Not being an ANAL man myself, why would you want anal?   At that point, the only thing missing is the cock'n'balls swinging underneath!!  

Cooch is the best which is what we all are here for, but if you're crazy for Anal, any MALE provider can help you for sure...

I will take vaginal any day of the week. Now I have experienced it several times..but I ask extra for it..partly to deter the interest and also because it is not my favorite. Naive as I was when I started 6 years ago..I thought guys liked it because it was real tight and most providers were not vaginally tight....and a not so endowed gentleman would find it more enjoyable than vaginal. I am vaginally tight and with excellent muscle control so much that when guys have asked for anal and I took them vaginally they were so spent that anal never came up and they were given back the extra dough.
I don't know why it might be that mature ladies like anal more as you say...but I can understand why younger women might not be into it. Plus if most ladies ask for extra when it comes to anal it would seem like the extra incentive is worth it to them.

That's pretty poor logic. You can get anal or bbbj from a girl or a guy, but the fact that you enjoy either of those acts with a female doesn't make you close to gay. One of the things guys enjoy about anal, besides the feel, is the taboo. Many of their wives or gf's won't do it, so it becomes a kind of forbidden thing that's nice to indulge in once in a while with a willing hottie.

All kidding aside, what makes you think it's more prevalent in more seasoned providers than not so seasoned? Or women as a whole for that matter?

I had an SO that I used to fuck in the ass when we were 21-22 year olds. We didn't say 'I want to do Greek' to each other. Just told her I wanted to fuck her in her ass and she said 'Cool!'.

'course we used to drink a lot and do a lot of blow, but I digress....

I never even tried to attempt to see a correlation between providers that do Greek, and their age brackets. Really doesn't matter to me, anyway. If I pick one that does Greek, doesn't necessarily mean we'll do Greek. Just that it's an option is fine. And if they don't offer it, that's fine too. No matter their age. It's not a deal breaker, and honestly not one of the first things I look for when I want to see someone.

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How did it feel being the receiver?
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I think a lot of times as the body moves forward, those nerve endings move too. Which  as a result gives  different orgasms results.

It's also the reason (nerve endings) a lot of men enjoy being fucked in the ass when they get older. (though they will rarely come out of the closet about it.)

Lot more open and experienced and asked for it in my case after few visits. Suppose, there is level of trust factor involved. You catch more bees with honey principle is prevalent in this case with young providers. In my case I was the one hesitant and she was the one taught me. How about that for an experience?

I can definitely identify with not being at my best at 18. It wasn't until I fell in love I understood the difference in just having sex and making love. When HE asked me to try it I was in! I realized that having no boundaries when you were with a partner that cared felt better than thinking about what someone you didn't cared about was going to say about your encounter. Over the years the lines have blurred, and now I can have the sex I want regardless of feelings.

Today's generation of ladies isn't our parent's generation. Women now realize that men have different sexual needs. It used to be a time that you couldn't admit to liking arse play without a girl thinking you were gay. But in an effort NOT to be single, the ladies are letting our boys know that they are a little bit more flexible in their thinking. My 19 year old brother was asking me what I thought of a girl who was willing to do anal sex with him, and I told her I thought she was smart. My 21 year old sister told me (while having a heart to heart in a drunken stupor) that she would rather open her mind and body to a great guy than lose him to experimentation with other men (which is the understanding on the subject. I made sure to let her know that if a guy wanted to experiment with men, he will or has already done so. You can't keep a gay man straight.).

In this industry I can understand it. Some ladies in the 18 to 21 age group are really just coming into their own within this industry. Certain stuff they haven't done with boyfriends yet, and to just offer it to any guy seems ridiculous. I can see her being seduced by a nice regular with whom she can experiment, and become accustomed to bringing anal into an encounter the CORRECT way. But some of us ladies over 30 are VERY aware of our sexuality. We've moved past that phase of our lives and (I know for me) we know what we're up for when we meet you.